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शनिवार, 17 अक्टूबर 2015

"Peace Of Mind

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 "Peace Of Mind Comes From Content With Oneself"


You got to make your own happiness!
You can't rely on others to do this for you.

Tap into yourself to see what you'll find.

You'll be surprised when you find out what is
stored deep inside of yourself.

You'll never know until you try.

The beautiful thing about this is that you'll
be able to rely on yourself for your own happiness.

You can reach into the depths of your mind
and draw on things that you never even knew
existed before.

You'll discover more about yourself  while you
learn something new.

There is no telling where you can go to from here.


Peace of mind comes from content with oneself.
Remember it's all up to you and nobody else.

                                                                    Sandy Wyllie (USA)
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बुधवार, 30 सितंबर 2015

Work and play

मैनेजर साहिब
इ पॉवर सीस्कन
लुधिआना

विषय : खेलों  में भाग लेने हेतु

श्रीमान जी ,

मैं बहुत खुश हूँ कि मेरी फैक्ट्री में खेलों का आयोजन किया जा रहा है। मैं निम्नलिखित  खेलों में भाग लेना चाहता हूँ :

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मैंने खेलों का नोटिस पढ़ लिया है और सभ जान करी ले ली है। मैं उपर्लिखित खेलों के लिए हर रोज़ फैक्ट्री टाइम के बाद रिहसल करूँगा।

कृपया मेरा नाम खेलों में शामिल कर लें।  धन्यबाद।

आपका भवदीय



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मिति :___________________


रविवार, 30 अगस्त 2015

Sharing a laugh with my parents.



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Yesterday was Raksha Bandhan - the festival of tieing a thread on the hand of brother by the sister and asking and expecting protection throughout life whenever she will require her brother. The festival is celebrated in Nothern India as I know. 
Yesterday, we too celebrated Raksha Bandhan. My sisters came and tied Rakhi on my hand. 
My mom aged 78 too went to my meternal uncle's home to tie Rakhi. 
We all were very happy and enjoyed the occasion.

Most important of all was my heart to heart chat with my father aged 80. I am 58. He told me: when we were students, we used to miss the school and hide our satchels in the bushes and go to see "Chhanj" a local wrestling bout at a place which was 16 kilometer from the village.

At that time, there were no buses, no conveyance. Only one Muslim had a horse cart and he was treated as wealthiest person in the area. It was around 1945. 

And in 1947, that wealthy Muslim too migrated to Pakistan because India was devided into India and Pakistand. Father laughed a lot when narrating this incident. 

Another bout of laugh came to me when dear father told me : Do you know on my marriage what was the shagun? I said no. It was 1 kg rice and 1.25 rupees. 
I laughed a lot. Shagun is an Indian way of ceremony when a young boy is betrothed for marriage with a young girl i.e. my mother. Now even  buying a candy costs 4 times more than shagun money. 
We talked a lot. Father kept on sharing old memories. We laughed a lot. 
I felt as if this is the best night of my life. 

सोमवार, 27 जुलाई 2015

Focused Action=Achievement

What we focus upon regularly that expands exponentially.

And manifests in real life.

Mind your focus. Focusing on grudges, jealousy, failures will further pave the way for negative feelings and making you weak internally. Dream Big, Achieve Big. Peace and happiness that comes
Peace and happiness that comes from good health and good feelings is the root of walking on the path of success and achieving it.

Yesterday i.e. Sunday 26th July, 2015, Panchayat of Threekey village in Ludhiana District held a  Vo- lleyball tournamenet. I accompanied my friend Mr. Bhatti to the play ground where the tournament was to be played.  We reached at the ground at about 5 pm. Mr. Bhatti is a good comentator in our mother-tongue i.e. Punjabi.

18 teams enrolled for the tournament by paying Entry Fee of Rs. 500 each. The prize for the winning team was Rs. 11000 and for the Runners up was Rs. 5100.

The tournament was conducted and sponsored by the residents of village Threekay headed by honorable Sarpanch Jarnail Singh and his son Soni.
Mr.Sunny Threekay  Mr. Raja Panch and Mr.Ramesh Kumar  were the chief organised who managed the management of the tournament.
Umpiring by Aman was highly appreciated.  Professional teams from Jagraon and Khanna participated.
Arrangement was excellent.
Regularly dinner, cold drinks, cold water and tea was served to all. Around 1500 people watched the tournament.
NO GOVERMENT AID WAS RECEIVED . IT WAS FULLY SELF SPONSORED BY THE PANCHAYAT.
Tournament started at 5 pm on 26.7.2015.
In the first round 18 teams played 9 matches.
In the second round  8 winning teams played 4 matches and 9th winning was directly upgraded to semi-finals.
In the third round  2 winners came out and 3 teams played. One out of the three was eliminated and two played for the final match.
It was 2.30 am when the two teams were playing the final match. Even at this late hour of night when almost whole of the city was enjoying sleep, the players were agile and playing excellently. The ball was just moving from one corner to another corner. Sometime the ball did not  drop for 15 to 20 minutes. It was really marvellous to watch young boys in action. Nobody could say that it was  night and 2.30 am as the players were fully awake and aware and enthusiasm was unparallel. The final match was no less than a national level match.
 At 3.30 am the teams were able to decide the final. Winner and runners up’s was just 1 point. The winning team was given the prije of Rs.11000 and Runners up bagged the second prije of Rs. 5100.
I learnt passion plus action is achievement. Passion when tamed, trained and put into practice becomes achievement. Nothing on planet Earth make it stop. I reached home at about 4 pm.

Dr.   Sarabjit Singh,     President of Friends  Club (Regd.) B.R.S  Nagar, Ludhiana desired that young generation should not choose drugs but play and Punjab should flourish. The seed of good thinking is now growing and more than 8 matches have bee n organised by various Panchayats and teams.

Dr. Sarbjit Singh was honoured in absentia by giving the trophy to Mr.Aman whose umpring was highly appreciated by all the teams.

THE INITIATIVE OF VOLLEYBALL TOURNAMENTS IN THE AREA WAS TAKEN WITH A VIEW TO KEEP THE YOUNG MINDS AWAY FROM DRUGS AND ADDICTIONS, SAYS SARPANCH JARNAIL SINGH.


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Business Management Made Easy

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Managing business is an herculean challenge for almost all business men and business managers.
I give below the four systems that are necessary for a business to run smoothly.
1. OAS : Office Automation System
    Office is the engine of the train called business - be it service, retail or manufacturing.  All information is managed in the office for quick actions and decision. Information is profit or money. Information needs to be preserved, saved from frugal minds, information needs to disseminated for action on the floor. Accounting, correspondence, communication - internal and external using modern gadgets like computer, mobile phones, printer, fax etc. are some of the activities of the OAS.
2. TPS: Transaction Processing System: How a transaction is processed is covered in this system. Effective handling of a transaction determines the effectiveness of the organisational management and thereby profit level. 
Pre-transaction processing: 
2.1 Visit by marketing people to introduce the product or service.
2.2 Receiving an enquiry or requirement.
2.3 Processing the enquiry mentally.
2.4 Quoting for enquiry either in writing or verbally.
2.5 Receiving an order.
Transaction Processing:
After the order is received, planning for execution starts. Raw material is arranged through Bill of Material. Material carrying cost is the major factor in this phase of transaction. Scheduling of production for producing the product helps a lot. Wise handling of the scheduling and material boosts up the transaction profit for the organisation. Well qualified, experienced and positive minds boost the productivity of this system.
3. MIS Management Information System: Various reports are received from various departments of the organisation like: Marketing, production, personnel, ERP. These are processed further so that they may be used by the top executives or management team to take effective decisions.
4. DSS Decision Support System:  MIS as described in system 3 is supplied to the top management that is aware about SWOT analysis and TOWS analysis. Such information is juggled and effective decision is taken. Efficacy of the decision depends upon the accuracy of the information so supplied.
Focus on all these systems regularly boosts the effectiveness of the organs of the organisations.






शुक्रवार, 3 जुलाई 2015

80-20 pareto rule of life.

Reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle
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While doing MBA, we used to learn about 80-20 pareto method. The method when applied in projects or other activities says that 80% results or impact for achieving a project or an activity come from 20% efforts. The leaders focus, track and monitor this 20% part of the project. Rest is managed by the next brigade.

A week ago, I was sitting in café and heard the talk of the neighbor on other table.
Hard skills  = 20% contribution in life
Soft skills = 80% contribution in life.
Elaborate more was the wide eyed opened listener's query.

Listen:

Hard skills are the qualifications and ranks a person gets from school/college/universities or institutes. They make the arrogant, haughty, introvert and fit for comparison. The person boasts and brags of degrees and institutes where as this does not pay after a period of time.

Soft Skills:


About 60 in  total and include acceptance of the world as real and taming, trimming self thinking to match the occasion and the need of the person, places, people, institutions. It includes, talking low, slow, short taking into account the age, relation and occasion. It also includes your role in family, work place or job. A manager cannot be impatient in talks like an office boy.

What you eat determines the volume of your voice. Heavy , fried and over cooked foods and hot drinks cause loudness in talks. Fruit, juice, vegetables, almonds and nuts enable the body to be more healthy and the behavior of the person improves.

CCT Conscious Control of Tongue pays a lot in achieving 80%.

20% is helpful in career and is relevant for the job and the little community known.
80% is helpful in happiness, relation building, networking, inner peace and frictionless self-development. Networking - local, national and international - help in boosting the relationships for every kind of assistance during bad times.

The listener could not understand well and asked: Cite an example. I could not understand your philosophical talk.


Ok: In a family, father is less educated and worked hard to feed and pay the fee of the children. Mother, though illiterate, cooked food, washed clothes and took care of kids when they were ill and could not take care of themselves. With the fees of father's money and mother's help, the children got good education. Became aware about the physical world but could not develop their sense of metaphysical world which is inner-self.

Now the children are young and educated, parents are old and needy. Energy level is drained. Their response time to tackle the problems or replying to the queries of children has gone down. Children don't like this. They shout and react to the extent that the parents feel troubled. Yes mere presence for long time becomes a source of annoyance. Father and mother living at the same place and meeting the children right from birth cause inbuilt mental deafness for any kind of advice or

Children treat them as if they have the same energy and expect that the parents should act and behave as they wish rather than being thankful to the parents who sacrificed their youth, wants and invested their energy and time on them.

When I was young I wished to change the world. My age was about 17-18. But now at 50+ I have come to know that creating mental friction for the real world or others is useless. But now I have learnt, if I wish to be happy, I need to manage my mind. Now I focus more on my thoughts, track them. I found a wonderful method: I say I forgive you and name the person: Wonder: I sleep well. No thought of hate or love for a particular person jump into my mind.

I don't do because the people I love or I hate deserve my mercy but I deserve mental peace. I kept on torturing myself for about 50 years for imaginary presumptive reasons. Now I am in command of my mind. Now  I know what I want in life and my direction is right and destination is visible. Earlier, I was commanded by others as I was hurt deeply by the words of others. Now I ignore by mentally saying. No you cannot disturb my mental peace. I am the master of my life.  Now I trust the words of Henry David Thoreau
 : What lies ahead and what lies ahead are tiny matters as compared to what lies within.

Changing food has also helped a lot. I take fruits, boiled vegetables, sprouted beans. I avoid gossip and irrelevant thinking and toxic people.
Now I talk more in mind. No  bad words come out of lips. Only good words for others come. This is building my relations. I am now more cooperative, level of acceptance rather than arrogance has increased. Body language too works for others. Behaviour is changing. It is all paying in making my life happy. I feel inner peace. Sleep well.
This switching from "I": am more important to "You" are more important and becoming nice to others, talking sweet, controlling tongue i.e. stopping and not advancing arguments is helping me to be happy. Happiness is an inner task. Self effort. Nobody else is responsible. I love living with people with whom I feel good.

Age group too matters. People of your own age group make you more happy as they talk and behave like you.

Emotional intelligence is one component of 80%. 80% never changes. 20% keeps changing with the passage. Parents loved their kids in Stone Age and love them too in this Computer Age. Mother's parents, brothers, sisters and father's parents, brothers, sisters and cousins remain permanent in life. No way to annoy or leave them. Just accepting them as they are is the way to happiness or face their wrath.
All talk rough but do help in need. Talk cannot be as good as the dialogue of films or TV serials.
But MBA and B.Tech were not available in Stone Age.

80% enables you to be happy and comfortable with everyone and everywhere. Whereas 20% enables you to go up and higher in your career.

Right I understand why am I that much troubled internally. I will be focusing on 80% now to make my life better and better.




 

बुधवार, 1 जुलाई 2015

2-Day Workshop on Participatory Teaching

at
SBS MEMORIAL PUBLIC SCHOOL,
 KATORA DISTT. FIROZEPORE Punjab (India)

As the school was to re-open on 1st July after summer vacation, the school management represented by one of my old colleague and friend Mr. Rakesh Arora, invited me to be the Chief Speaker and Mentor for the 2 day workshop on Participatory Teaching.

About 35 teachers having qualification of
1. ETT (Elementary Teacher Training)
2. B.A
3. B.A, B.Ed
4. M.A, B.Ed
5. M.A, M.Ed
6. M.A, B. Ed with Dip. in Counseling

in general participated. The workshop was divided into two parts:

1. Philosophical Teaching - that is sharing general awareness about the subject and its background.
2. Specific Teaching: that is focusing  upon the teaching skills and presenting and delivering in such a way as may bring out the best out of the student/learner.

The school is having 100% results, director said. "We do not approve of any unfair means and for this we are famous in the area. Poor performer do not join our school. Even the parents who believe that their children will be helped in their wrong deed do not dare to get their wards admitted in our school.
We have about 1200 students at present from LKG to 10th class."

I know the stuff of the director. Because he and his family  is in my touch for the past about 20 years.

The session started with

- Hey Malik Tere Bande Hum , neki par chalen aur badi se talen taki hanste huye nikle dum
  ( O God, we are your children. Empower us to follow the right path to lead a life of righteousness and avoid the wrong path so that we may breathe last easily and happily to reach in your lap."

- Thereafter, introductions- mine through video and teachers in person.
- Deliberations on various qualities of good teacher and how they should behave in class and outside class.

- Teacher is VIP -
- Teaching is a most satisfying profession in the world as we touch human lives, have the opportunity to lead a life among lively environments like: games, contests, singing, playing etc. No other profession in the world offers these kind of co-curricular rather co-profession activities.

2nd day was Teaching Specific:


Teachers were given lecture on:
- Discipline
- Self conduct- inside the class and outside the class in society.
- Subject specific expertise
- Punctuality and its importance.
- Education and its meaning
- Total personality development of the child.

We all had tea and lunch together. That session was like networking in business meets.





 

सोमवार, 22 जून 2015

Process of success

I was thinking the various steps involved in the success and analyzing the various experiences over a period of 57+ years, I found:

1. Think soft
2. Think hard
3. Sieve an idea (soft)
4, Make the idea hard.
5. Idea should be for practical world.
6. Implement the idea
7. Try, fail and learn
8. Keep trying, keep failing and keep learning.
9. Every time the idea fails, new learning pops up in the mind. Make it hard. Always keep pen, pencil and paper with you to make your thinking hard. Keep on filing these ideas on paper in a file. Or just save them with a tag.
10. As Swami Vivekananda says: Every idea is first ridiculed, then opposed and at the end is accepted. Every successful spirit must keep this in mind and work without quitting. Winners are not those people who never fail but those who never quit.
11. Keep refining or improving.
12. Keep learning from criticism in a positive way. A successful inventor shared: We used to receive 800 emails daily that criticized our brand. But we took it as feedback to improve the brand and today our brand is amongst the top most brand in the world. Thanks to the critics who took time to test our product and kept sending emails.

13. After this SUCCESS FOLLOWS.

SMALL CELEBRATIONS MAKE LIFE BIG


 This is an email received from my friend Peter Sinclair, Australia. I enjoyed it and sharing for your enjoyment.
Prof

I have spent the past week celebrating the birthday of my three year old grand daughter.

I lost count of how many times we blew out candles and sang happy birthday - in three part harmony mind you.

I personally don't believe in birthdays. I prefer birth-weeks.  That way we can celebrate in many different ways and in many varied formats over an extended period of time. The celebration can be prolonged and embellished in this manner because I truly believe that a precious life is worth celebrating.

Life passes too quickly to simply go through the motions.

Life must be celebrated.

Find any excuse to celebrate.

Celebrate a victory. Celebrate a loss and the lessons learned from the experience. Celebrate the start of a vision fulfilled. Celebrate moving forward with the project. Celebrate the completion. Celebrate the efforts of others.

Celebrate the BIG. Celebrate the small.

Stop the wheels. Hop off the bus. And celebrate.

You will be fired up. You will be inspired. You will make others feel highly valued.

Now that's something worth celebrating.

Be blessed!
 
Peter G. James Sinclair
http://www.motivationalmemo.com

PS: While we're considering birthday celebrations here's a video of my youngest daughter's birthday celebration a couple of years ago.

सोमवार, 1 जून 2015

First day at work.



Greatest day of life as I view is the "first day at job."

After 15/17 years of education, the tedious job is to find a job. Preparing bio-data and submitting the same to job providers, facing interviews and accepting rejections and comments unworthy of hearing becomes an intolerable task.

A question that generally confuses the fresher: Do you have experience? When the interviewee is fresher and has been called for the interview as fresher how can s/he have the experience?

Very few interviewers come prepared for the interview. They take the job interviewing the candidate like writing a letter to client or customer.

In many organizations, an hour's a day's interview is ritual. Many times, the interviewers are less educated and are not aware about the job profile and expectations from the interviewee.

IQ instead of EQ remains the focus in interviews.

But for better results, EQ also matters. Experts say IQ (Formal education)_+ Experience counts for 20% and EQ or common sense and etiquettes count for 80%. Once the interviewee is emotionally and  mentally attached to the organization, loyalty and results ensue without effort.

It is well said: Take care of your people and your people will take care of your business.

The interviewer (s) does not realize that this may be a routine job for him/her but this is a special and most important job for the interviewee. Getting a job is a life time dream of a person. Hence, thorough before hand preparation is most important.

Interview is a bridge between the organization and new person. It is nothing less than bringing a new bride in the house and making her aware about the nature, mood, rules and behavior expected from her for the family members and others in the community the family lives.

Today, is the day when a new young boy who is BBA with Diploma in Electronics going to join as Marketing Executing in the small organization being run by a young Electrical Engineer manufacturing Electrical Control Panels, Industrial Cooling Units. The young engineer invited me to interview this new entrant.

Now the scene at the interview:

I was sitting all alone in the room.

The interviewee sought permission and entered the room. I could see he was gasping. I gave him a glass of water and told him to sit on the chair and feel easy.

"This is a positive interview not rejection exercise, so please feel easy and sit."
He overcome his nervousness and I saw that the perspiration on his face disappeared rather was soaked by the air of the fan.

He was feeling fresh. I glanced through his certificates and testimonials.

"Good performance," was my comment.

Glow in eyes of the blushing young man returned. His age is about 23 years.

"What are you co-curricular activities?"

"I sing, I dance, I play, sir"

"Good."

"Can you sing a song for  me?"

"Which one, sir?"

"Which you deem fit and like the most?"

He paused for a while and started singing. I closed my eyes and listened carefully.

After 2/3 minutes, the song was over.

Many may be thinking that the selection in the interview was so easy. Just a song. Singing a song in front of an unknown, first time met person is a bold act. This is the requisite trait expected from a marketing man. A marketing person has to meet with new people, unknown people, weird people and retain the relationship. 20% sales comes from the new customers while 80% sales comes from the old satisfied customers.

For the new customer: This new interviewee has boldness to meet, to introduce the organization and the products organization manufactures.

For the old customers: This new interviewee has the ability to retain the relationship using his positive attitude that have been tested by listening to his song. He is a team player.

So, a good interviewer can judge all these traits in a minute. As regards to intellectual skills, his certificates and testimonials are the proof. Why to raise new questions? He is fit to be tamed, trimmed and made fit for the profile of his job.

"You are selected."

Out of respect and awe he looked at me with gratitude. With tears of happiness in his eyes about to well up  his  cheeks, he said: Thank you, sir.

"When would you like to join?"

"Tomorrow, sir."

"No. Join after 3/4 days. Go and meet your nears and dears, relatives and friends. After joining you will come regularly on the job. No leaves. So, come and join on 1st June."

"What will be the pay package, sir?"

"Work for one month and let us observe your attitude, your way of working, your punctuality and the pay package will be the best in the industry."

"Right, sir. I will come on 1st June."

Today, is his joining day. I have prepared all the information necessary for him. I have bought a rose flower to welcome him.

Working honorary for young entrepreneurs gives a lot of satisfaction. At this age with experience, I feel I am helping them.

First good boss is better than big fat pay package is my advice to all who start their career. Good boss teaches good etiquettes, manners and traits that pay whole of life.

Once this is learnt, pay package keeps on becoming fat, fatter and fatter.

WELCOME THE NEW PERSON. FIRST DAY at  JOB IS A MEMORABLE DAY IN THE LIFE OF A PERSON. FIRST SALARY IS NEVER FORGETTON.

TODAY I AM GOING TO WELCOME HIM TO MAKE THE DAY MEMORABLE.

A speaker in the seminar said: Being an interviewer, keep in mind:
1. Attitude of the candidate is religion.
2.
 

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बुधवार, 20 मई 2015

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Inner Beauty -the Blissfulness

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CONCENTRATE ON FINDING YOUR INNER BEAUTY, INNER HAPPINESS AND THEN ALLOW THOSE QUALITIES EXTEND TO YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

For many years, months and days I was in dilemma " how to find inner happiness" unlimited, undevided which is referred to "blissfulness" in holy scriptures.

Despite my diet change, thought change, chanting change, in depth study of holy scriptures, I was unable to feel happy from inside. My mind always found something negative with the world, with the people around me and with everything which is real. I took shelter in the not-real.

But one word that attracted my attention a lot: Visualize and that visualization becomes reality. I started focusing. I concentrated deep. I meditated deep on this sentence and yester night in my visualization I came across 3 words: hate, love and hug.

Whenever the visualization about people I have around me, situations I face in daily life and my expectations from others popped up in my half-sleep mind, 3 reactions were felt by my body and mind.

1. People , situations and expectations appear:  . My self talk: I hate you, I hate the situation, I hate my efforts because my efforts are not giving me the expected results, I hate myself as I am not worthy. Now the word "hate" generates heat, makes me uncomfortable, sleep is disturbed. I was wondering. It is the word and it was creating so many reactions in my body and my mind

2. People, situations and expectations appear. .My self talk: I love you, I love the situation, I love my efforts because my efforts are  giving me the expected results though not in direct proportion, I love myself as I am worthy and no  body can make me worthless. I am educated, experienced, I will focus more on my work and less on gossip, I will not waste time, I will be more productive than mere busy.
Wow just changing the the word "hate" with love generated peace in mind and body and sleep was comfortable and sound.


3. People , situations and expectations appear:  . My self talk: I hug you, I hug the situation, I hug my efforts because my efforts are giving me the expected results, I hug  myself as I am  worthy and intelligent.

Use of this word in subconscious mind too generated somewhat the same feelings as the word "love.: I felt my body is experiencing peace beyond my expectations, all along serenity was prevailing and my sleep was more sound and dreamless. 

I have really benefitted from this small mental exercise. Today I am more relaxed, more fresh and think that during the day I will be more productive too as smile will remain on my face. Yes, I observe fast two days a week to balance my over indulged food. Sprouted beans are my breakfast with lemon water.

I miss evening meals 2-3 times a week. I am 58 and quite active.
You too can use this and feel good. This is not my copyright.

सोमवार, 11 मई 2015

HOPE

My friend told:          
 I was suffering from a very vicious disease that had no remedy with others.        
    
Some said this OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) others said the change in your body is natural and nothing can avoid it.       
  
But, I felt this was not right.     

 I hated world, I held the world and worldly people and my dear ones responsible for all this. ''
    
When the body is weak and fearful thoughts emerge in the mind, through mouth and mind, one holds others and circumstances responsible. 

As key is to lock the house, so is mouth to lock the mind. Mouth open unpleasantly destroys relationships. In my view,  attitude is religion, soft skills are relationship builders, character is God. Lock the mouth and your bad reactions to the world are hidden.

Yes one more remedy, do not open the mouth and speak everything what is non-pleasant to others and speak loudly what is pleasant and builds relationships.

Healthy relationships are life. Wounds caused by sword can be healed but wounds caused by biting unpleasant words cannot be healed.       Toxic relations make the life toxic too.

But I never stopped believing in the creator.      
 
So, perhaps, through his grace, an elderly person known to me advised: Do this and you will feel good.        

It was a just a ray of hope in the dark.

For about 7-1/2 years, my life was totally derailed.

Depression, cardiac arrest and hopelessness was suffered by me .                   All felt that I will not bounce back in life.    

 But I did and am living well and more productively. 
         
  Fears I faced earlier have  flown away.      
 
 What does not kill strengthens  us.


So, now the advice of the elderly person    
   
(1)  Pay respects and bow to your Guardian God . Guardian Gods  are the spirits of your ancestors in heaven.  Go and pay respects. They will help you . Have their icons at your home and ask them to help you . Like living parents, they too protect you.   Guardian God bless you. Have an attitude of gratitude. Time heals every wound. Trust it. Believe it and wait for good days.  
      
2) Do positive self talk      e.g. I am healing, I am getting better  and better day by day, good days are coming, world is good, people are good.

3) Focus your mind on what you have rather than what you wish to have in future.

4) Believe in yourself and the world will believe in you . Know your strengths and focus on them. Shine them. The weaknesses will automatically be overcome. Do your SWOT analysis in writing.  Pay not any attention to others opinion about yourself. Only you know who you are and what you can do. But do every thing in writing. It will help you. Mental planning and work causes mental tension. Create a habit of writing and you will see that you are more intelligent and powerful than what others tell or you think.

5) As the key is to lock of the house, mouth is to your mind. Appreciate in public and depreciate in private or do not depreciate others at all. Hating and disliking causes unnecessary tension in mind. Avoid it. Program your mind yourself consciously. Closing your eyes, talk positive and forgive others.

6) Do not react to others and feel jealous of others' progress. Or this will break you down mentally and physically.  Healthy attitude about life keeps the life happy, healthy and prosperous            plus disease free. Mind is the engine of the train called body. Healthy mind creates healthy body. Avoid self-medication. It destroys immunity of the body. Immunity is the natural healing power of the body. Let the body repair itself through positive thinking and self-talk.

7) Be less suspicious. Changing attitude everything changes. World was before you and world will be here after you. You live lively. That's your responsibility.

8. 10% is the situation and 90% is our reaction. How? Boil water in a pan. Put some carrots, then eggs and then coffee. Carrots will become soft, eggs will become hard and coffee will boil with water. Same is about the situations in life. You can act, you can react or you can adapt yourself.
Choice lies with you.

 It has been found that 98% mentally thought fears and fearful situations never happen  in life .
If you want to check , write on a paper or notebook with date what you fear or suspect will happen and when will it happen.

And after that date check if this has happened.

If this does not happen, then understand that fear was just fantasy or imaginary and  not REAL.  Majority of the people in the world suffer from such kind of fears.    
  
Fear has two meanings.         FEAR= Fear everything and run .                    
                                                 FEAR = Face everything and rise         
                                    
  Bold, powerful, positive self talk and reading positive powerful self esteem boosting literature really brought me back to life. I thank that mentor.   
                                  
Mentors matter in life.                                   Negative people whom I call blood suckers and believers that control of your life is in the hand of some external power and man can do nothing are really devastating and destroy happiness from life.      They appear totally ignorant and make their own faith opium. Instead of acting their part to solve the problem, they leave it to their faith blindly.
      
Believe in yourself and the world will believe in you . SELF BELIEF with faith in Almighty is the crux of rising in life.     

 Forgive yourself and others - be it outsider or family member -  not because they deserve it  but you deserve mental peace.
      
  Never carry guilt . Mistakes have led to the biggest discoveries of the world.   Many don't act for fear of failure. Act and fail but learn and act next time.

This time you are more intelligent, more aware and more organized and will learn new things.
And ultimately SUCCESS will be yours.

But positive attitude is most important. It is your inner approach to handle anything in life.

Nothing is bad with this world. Only you need to change your attitude and world will become beautiful for you.

See and appreciate the beauty within yourself and the world will appear beautiful. My perception by you is your self reflection is a good saying.

THINK POSITIVE, BE HAPPY AND LIVE HAPPILY. Straight lines (smiles) have more value than curved ones.

Yes 30 days change in diet pays a lot. 30 days 30 glasses of fruit juice/lime juice plus a few say 4-5 nuts daily detoxify the body and you feel more healthy, more vibrant and more good from inside and your self-productivity increases. 1 glass of fruit juice or lime juice a day keeps the medicine and many deceases  away.

बुधवार, 6 मई 2015

बुधवार, 29 अप्रैल 2015

Dream fulfilled

Success dreamt
Success designed
Success achieved

This is a story of a village girl. She was married to a guy in the city. The story is real.

On the day of her 31st Birthday, her husband asked her "what would you like as a gift on your birthday?" Humble, meek slow but morose voice came back: I want to do M.A English.

She had completed her B.Com in local language in the village. Her father was a teacher. Now she had family - elder daughter of about 4 years lying on the bed and getting treatment for nervous breakdown and a son aged about 2 years.

The husband listened well and consoled her. He said: Fine you will do. But she was not sure. So she replied: I don't know English as I had local language as medium of instruction.

Husband reassured: No issue, my uncle will teach you English.

In May 2013, both came to the teacher/trainer/mentor. The trainer assured her of success. 2 months English foundation course was advised. The girl I mean the woman was very excited. Every day she was learning new techniques and improving because she had understood that the best results will come not from coaching but from self learning.

She worked very hard. She performed well. She learnt Mind Power Techniques and Self-discipline techniques to achieve anything in life. Right Sustained efforts were the key to achieve the right results.

When the course was over, she expressed the desire to go for M.A English. Husband agreed readily and the trainer/motivator guided her to take the admission in M.A English through distance learning mode.

Trainer/motivator forgot everything about this girl. But the day before yesterday i.e. 28th April, 2015
after about 2 years, she met on the road, driving her scooter while bringing her son from the school.

She stopped. She bowed her head to the teacher and told the entire story. She was very happy rather overwhelmed while telling the story of her SUCCESS in M.A. English part 1. Now she was a student of M.A. English Part II.

She heaved a sigh of relief and had in her eyes gratitude for the teacher/trainer/motivator as he was instrumental in making her GROW in life.

Touching someone's life  really pays a great dividend throughout life.

 

MIND

PROGRAM

YOUR

MIND

FOR YOUR

PURPOSE

OF LIFE

OR

SOME BODY

ELSE

WILL

PROGRAM

IT

FOR

HER/HIS

PURPOSE OF

LIFE

 

मंगलवार, 28 अप्रैल 2015

What binds marriage.


दोपहर का समय था।  सूर्य तप रहा था। एक ज्ञान बान  अपने चरखे पर सूत कात  रहे थे। 

तभी एक जवान लड़का परेशानी की हालत में उनके पास आया।

लड़का बोला : बाबाजी में क्या करूँ ? मेरी बीबी मुझ पर शक करती है , छोटी छूटी बात पर झगड़ती है , में काम काज से थक कर आता हूँ , बजाये इसके की मुझे शांति से मुस्कराहट से पानी पिलाये, आराम करने दे बह दिन भर की शिकायतें मेरी शिकायते बच्चों की शिकायतें ले कर मुझे आराम की बजाये बेआराम कर देती है।  फिर शुरू होती है वेबजह की बहस।  यदि मैं चुप रहूँ तो बह कहती है  कि दिन में आफिस या काम पर ऐसा क्या हुआ की मैं चुप हूँ। उसकी पुछ्ताश मुझे किसी पुलिस बाले की तफ्तीश से काम नहीं लगती।  लड़ाई झगड़ा अपशब्द बोलना , बहस करना तो हमारारोज़ का काम है. मुझे काम से इतनी दिमागी थकाबट  नहीं होती जितनी घर आ कर होती है।  मुझे कोई हल बताएं।  में शादी को सफल कैसे बनायुं।

इस समय तक ज्ञान  बान  की पत्नी लोई जी पानी का गिलास लेकर आ चुकी थी ; बह बोली पानी पीजिये।

जवान लड़के ने गिलास लिया और पानी पि लिया।  मन कुछ शांत हुआ।

ज्ञान बान अपनी पत्नी से बोले :                        लालटेन ले आईये। 

जवान लड़का बड़ा हैरान था की दोपहर के तीन बजे पूरी धूप में ज्ञान बान लालटेन क्यों मँगबा रहे हैं। 

उनकी पत्नि  जी लालटेन ले कर आ गयी।

बह लालटेन ज्ञान बान के चरखे के पास रख कर चली गयी।

ज्ञान बान ने दोबारा पत्नि  जी को  बुलाया और कहा :          कुछ मीठा मेहमान के लिए ले आईये।

पत्नि  नमकीन ले कर आई और नमकीन मेहमान को दे दिया।    मेहमान और ज्ञान बान ने  उसे खा लिया।

ज्ञान बान फिर मेहमान से पूछने लगे :            तो आप क्या कह रहे थे ?

जवान बोला "मुझे मेरे प्रश्नों का उत्तर मिल गया है।

 आप ने लालटेन मांगी आपकी पत्नी ने बिना पूछे लालटेन ले आई।  कोई प्रशन नहीं किया।  आप ने मीठा माँगा और बह नमकीन ले आई।  आप ने कोई प्रशन नहीं पूछा न ही कोई शब्द बोले।

आप की पत्नी समझदार है जो समाज गयी की लालटेन केवल रौशनी ही नहीं देती आप को किसी और काम के लिए चाहिए होगी।  आप समझदार है  बिना बोले समझ गए कि घर में मीठा नहीं होगा तभी तो आपकी पत्नी नमकीन ले कर आई।  जिस पति पत्नी में सूज  बूज है बह घर स्वर्ग है।

पति  पत्नी का आपसी विश्वास व् सूज बुज ही गृहस्थ जीवन का आधार हैं।  दूसरों की दखलबाजी घर बर्बाद कर देती है पति घर का राजा है पत्नी रानी।  बाकि  सब राजपथ के मेहमान हैं।  हाँ सबका अपनी अपनी जगह पर महताब जरूर है।  लेकिन बह पति पत्नी का पर्याय नहीं है।  अच्छा में चलता हूँ।

ज्ञान बान मुस्कराये और मेहमान को द्वार तक छोड़ने के लिए आये
 

What binds marriage?

UNDERSTANDING ALONE

Once a wise man was sitting on his wheel and spinning the wheel. It was after noon. The sun was shining.

A young man turned to him for counseling and said:

Baba I am fed up from the churlish talk, acts and daily nagging and quarrels on petty issues of my young wife. Please tell me some techniques "how to handle her to save my marriage."

The wise man kept  on spinning on his wheel. He kept on moving the wheel and the young man felt that the wise man was not moved a bit internally from his question.

He repeated the question again assuming that perhaps wise man  has not listened the question well.

The wise man called his wife  and asked for lighted lantern. Lantern is a lamp used in villages generally where there is no electricity. People use it at night to give light to their environment i.e. houses, outer places etc.

His wife brought the lantern with wick burning and giving full light.

The young man was surprised to see that full sun is shining and the wife has not cross questioned the husband :                  why is the light needed when sun is shining?

The wise man  again beckoned the wife  to bring some sweets for the guest.

The wife brought some salty eatable. Wise man  did not cross questioned the wife and fired her with words.  But instead offered the salty eatable to the guest.

"So, what were you asking?" asked the wise man .

"No, I was not asking any question. I have got the answer to the question. Your wife brought lantern and she did not cross question.  You asked for sweets but she brought salty eatable. You did not cross question or raised hue and cry. I know to bind the marriage as a pious relationship is understanding between two persons.

"Your wife did not cross question you because she understood that the burning lantern may be needed by you for another purpose than light.

She trusts you and just obeyed you blindly. She brought salty eatable.

You trust her intellect so much that you did not cross question "why?" It may be there is no sweets at home and only salty eatable is there.

So, I have got the answer to my irritations and I will improve. I will share this with my wife too."

Wise man  smiled and young man went to his home.

MORAL:
Trust and understanding build and bind the marriage.
No third person's interference should shake it if you want to enjoy your married life.

 

गुरुवार, 16 अप्रैल 2015

What holds back in life?


ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਬਢ਼ਾ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਜੀਵਨ ਵਿਚ ਪਿਛੇ ਧਕਨ ਵਾਲਾ ਰੋਗ


ਕਿਸੇ ਭੀ ਕ਼ਮ ਨੂਕਰਨ ਤੋ ਪਹਲੇ ਇਹ ਸੋਚਣਾ

ਕੀ ਕਹਨ ਗੇ ਲੋਗ

ਲੋਗ ਕੁਝ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੋਚਦੇ

ਅਸੀਂ ਹੀ ਦਸਦੇ ਹਨ

ਉ ਹ ਤਾਂ ਸਿਰਫ ਬਿਨਾ ਜਾਣੇ ਬਿਨਾ ਸੋਚੇ ਆਪਣੀ

ਜਾਣੀ ਅੰਜਾਨੀ ਰਾਏ ਦੇਡਨ ਹਨ

ਕੀਨਾ ਦੀ ਰਾਏ ਲੇਨੀ ਹੈ ਕੀਨਾ ਦੀ ਨਹੀ

ਇਹ ਤਾਂ ਸਾਧੀ ਮਰਜੀ ਹੈ

ਰਾਏ ਲੈਣ ਤੋਂ ਪਹਲਾ ਇਹ ਮਨ ਵਿਚ ਤੈ ਕਰਨਾ ਜਰੂਰੀ ਹੈ

ਇਕ ਇਹ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਰਾਏ ਦੇਣ ਦੇ ਕਵੀਲ ਭੀ ਹੈ

ਡਾਕਟਰ ਟੀਚਰ ਪੜੇ ਲਿਖੇ ਹੁੰਦੇ ਹਨ

ਸਲਾਹਕਾਰ ਯਾ ਨੁਕਤਾਚੀਨੀ ਕਰਨ ਵਾਲੇ ਨਹੀਂ

Work in silence . Let the results speak .

गुरुवार, 9 अप्रैल 2015

Creating Student Focussed Lessons





One framework to help create intentional, focused lessons is described in Understanding by Design by Grant Wiggins and Jay McTighe (2005).

Often referred to as backward design, the process has teachers set clear, measureable targets before they create instructional activities.

The stages of backward design can be seen in below Figure ;

Figure  UbD: Stages of Backward Design



Source: From Understanding by Design (expanded 2nd Ed.) Alexandria.

Identify desired results:

What should students know, understand, and be able to do? These outcomes typically come from standards, curriculum expectations, and pacing guides.
Determine acceptable evidence:

How will we know if students have achieved the desired results and met the standards? This can include both formal and informal evidence of student understanding and proficiency.
Plan learning experiences and instruction:

What activities will equip students with the necessary knowledge and skills? By choosing activities and strategies after clear, measureable results have been identified, instruction becomes more purposeful and intentional.
Important decisions must be made in each of these areas, but much of the real work of instructional design lies between the boxes in Figure in the arrows. How do we translate the results we desire into behaviors we can measure? And how do we create tasks and experiences that lead to these measureable outcomes?
 
 
 
Best Regards

Areef Irfan Mohammed
​M.Com; MBA;CICTL and CICEL from Cambridge University, UK​


This is an email received from Mr. Areef. Found worthy of reading and hence shared.





 

--
MTC GLOBAL- Educate, Empower, Elevate
---

सोमवार, 30 मार्च 2015

Patience





Patience is an

essential ingredient

of the recipe

called "wisdom."

Work















Work in silence

Let the success speak loud.


Work hard,

Worship hard,

Share with others.

Be it wealth, knowledge or prosperity.

3 Attitudes



1." I" attitude: The most common among the people but least important. The speaker uses the word "I" in his speech frequently that represents that the speaker is self -centered and does not care for others' views. Quite dangerous and damaging for the society. Limited thinking, limited knowledge and limited learning. Humans having this attitude are pseudo to animals.

2. "You" attitude: The person having this attitude listens to others with a view to understand. This is better than the attitude #1. Most of the communication bridges are the outcome of this attitude. Like minded people are found by using this attitude.

3. "We" attitude: This attitude is difficult to develop but not impossible. Spirituality helps a lot in developing this attitude. Feeling of soul, god in all living creatures including humans irrespective of caste, creed, color, nationality, gender is the ingredient of this attitude.

Efforts



स्वपन और आकांशा के लिए
परिश्रम इतनी धीरता और सहजता
से करें

कि सफलता चारों दिशाओं में शोर मचा दे।





सहज व् शीतल शब्द श्रोता का मन की शुद्धि, उसकी बुधि और
समृधि में सहायक होती है।


 

मंगलवार, 24 मार्च 2015

Power of Education

 A good email received from the group is shared. I thank the sender professor. His information is shared below. In case, the honorable professor, wishes the information will be removed. Please send an email for this.

Dear friends,

Good morning.


Image result for education


“Education is the best friend.
An educated person is respected everywhere.
Education beats the beauty and the youth.”
-- Chanakya

With regards,
 
Dr. K. Sampath Kumar,  B.A. (Economics), BGL, M.Com., M.Phil., Cert. A.I.I.B.,
  
                                    
MBA (Finance), MBA (HR & Marketing),  ACS, FCMA, Ph. D.,
Professor
, SSN School of Management
C/o. SSN College of Engineering
Rajiv Gandhi Salai (OMR)
KALAVAKKAM - 603110 Kancheepuram District, Tamil Nadu, India

 
Success consists of getting up
just one more time than you fall
-- Oliver Goldsmith


--
MTC GLOBAL- Educate, Empower, Elevate

Google Groups "Management Teachers Consortium, Global" group.
 

ATTITUDE CHECK


HOW CAN WE CHECK OUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS OTHERS.

The day before.  yesterday, I happened to accompany a student to an embassy for visa.

Scene at 8.50:

1. Security guards: a female and a male announcing: All those who have interview letters sent by the embassy submit their letters at the counter. Inside the counter, there was an attendant who was enquiring on the mic.

2. A white skinned male came and started performing yoga feats. I noticed that he was expert in yoga. He was wearing shorts and short vest. His hair was long and tied on the top.

3. Many persons came for the interview were laughing or commenting while he was performing yoga near the interview letter submission window.

4. After 10-20 minutes, the performer went inside the embassy premises.

5. A young white skinned girl seemed of my daughter's age wearing very small shorts and loose vest listening to music on her mobile phone kept on coming and going on the roads outside the embassy. She was having tattoos and long written something on her naked legs.

6. I observed that these two white skinned persons were not performing or moving without any reason. They were keenly  observing the behavior of the applicants who had come for interview.

7. My doubtful observation was confirmed by the tea vendor who shared:
   7.1 Both are the very high officers of the embassy.
   7.2 Both keep on observing the interviewees.
   7.3 Those who laugh, tease, taunt or interfere in their activities are not granted visa.
8. I observed: All are human beings. Everybody has the right to live her/his life in his/her own way. Nobody has the right to interfere in their living. Whosoever interferes without any reason or asking is in others' life  is treated as an intruder. Different cultures have different way of living. We should accept, adapt and respect them.
9. The fact was further confirmed by the student:
    Sir, the performer and that moving girl were the officers of the embassy and sitting on the interview table. Thank God I did not laugh, taunt, or raised my eye and have got visa.

So, BEWARE AND BE AWARE OF YOUR BEHAVIOUR WHEN YOU GO FOR THE INTERVIEW AT EMBASSY FOR VISA OR ANYWHERE ELSE FOR INTERVIEW

जव भी कभी इंटरव्यू पर जाएँ या किसी के साथ व्यव्हार करें तो यह ध्यान रखें की कोई आपके व्यव्हार से आतंकित , भयभीत या शर्मिन्दा न हो। ऐसा करना  आप को  जीवन में महंगा साबित हो सकता है।

 

बुधवार, 18 मार्च 2015

Dr. Bhagubhai

                          CONGRATULATIONS

                                                  TO

                       Mrs. Kokila Ben
                         And
                 Dr. Bhagubhai Prajapati
                   
                  On the auspicious occasion
                              
                            of the marriage of   Their beloved son
                    
                                  Dr. Aplesh Prajapati
                                             With
                                   Dr. Pinal Prajapati

                On 9th February, 2015.
                                                                                 
                                                                        With best compliments from
                                                                                              Prof P.K.Keshap

                                                                         Education Consultant of India

मंगलवार, 17 मार्च 2015

Detoxification of body

OIL PULLING

- AN AYURVEDIC WAY TO DETOXIFY YOUR BODY

AND FEEL FRESH

Today my daughter suggested me to go for oil pulling for detoxifying the body.

I agreed.

1. I put into the mouth two caps  of the bottle full with sesame oil.

2. I gargled with it for 3-4 minutes.

3. I spat out the oil and cleaned the mouth with warm water and salt mixed in it.

WOW :
Within next 15 minutes, I felt that

1 my head is light,

2. nose is clear.

3. Breathing is easier than earlier.

Other Benefits:

Regular use of this "oil pulling" an Ayurvedic way of detoxifying the body are:
1. It pulls the toxins from the body.
2. It improves the immune system.
3. Ailments of stomach like constipation are curtailed.

More practice and experience and feel.


तेल क्रिया -

शरीर को अंदुरनी तौर पर साफ रखने का आयुर्वेदिक तरीका

1 तिल के तेल से अपने मुँह को भरें
2 इससे अगले 5 मिनट तक कुरले करें
3 उसके बाद इसे थूक दे
4 उसके बाद पानी कोसा करें और इस में थोड़ा नमक मिलाएं
5 इस नमक के घोल से मुख को  साफ़ करें।  बहुत ही हल्का महसूस करेंगे।
इसके बाद अपने पितरो का धन्यबाद करें।  अपने इष्ट कर धन्यबाद करें।  आपका सारा दिन सफल होगा।

अब महसूस करें कि शरीर की शुध्दि कैसी हुयी है ?
मेरे अनुभव

मैंने महसूस किया
1 . मेरा सर बहुत हल्का महसूस कर रहा है
2   दांत साफ़ और चमकीले हो गए हैं
3   सांस  आसानी से आ रहा है।
4  नाक की क्रियाएँ बहुत आसान हो गयी हैं

यह एक आयुर्वेदिक तरीका है।  यदि तेल तिल का न हो तो सरसों के तेल का प्रयोग कर सकते हैं।

लगातार प्रयोग से फ़ायदे :

1  पेट के रोगों से नजात मिलेगी
2. शरीर की रोग प्रतिरोधक शक्ति बढ़ेगी
3  साँस लेने में आसानी महसूस होगी
4 दांतों की विमारियां समापत होंगी
5 मुख से बदबू काम होगी
6 नाक की क्रियाएँ आसान होंगी

आसान है।  करें और मेह्सू करें।

सुप्रभात सभी को

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शनिवार, 21 फ़रवरी 2015

Be Responsible

जिम्मेबार बने

अपनी और अपने परिवार

की सेहत

और सुरक्षा  को समझें



पहला सुख निरोगी काया
दूसरा सुख जेब में माया

चलोगे तो पहुंचोगे

हिम्मत करने बालों की कभी हार नहीं होती

बेहिमतों की नय्या कभी पार नहीं होती।

अपने जीवन की जिम्मेबारी आप लें।
भूतकाल से सबक लेकर आज में भविषय के लिए सोचना और करना सफलता और सुख का साधन है।

जो इंसान मिले हुए अवसर (मौक़े ) गँवाता है
वही भबिष्य में पछताता है।

चेंज शॉप चेंज लाइफ






 

Gift of Life

जिंदगी

सीखते रहो      पढ़ते रहो     चलते रहो        बढ़ते रहो   जिंदगी चलने का नाम है   सफलता आपके हाथ में है  

जिंदगी सोचने और करने से बनती है सम्बर्ती है   केवल सोचने  य बातों से नहीं।

आप अपनी जिंदगी के खुद मालिक हो।

बनाने बाले ने आपको अपने जीवन को चलाने के लिए सब कुछ दिया है। उसका हर रोज धन्यवाद करें की उसने जीवन रूपी उपहार आपको दिया है

 अब आप अपने जीवन में सुगंध भरें या दुर्गन्ध मर्जी आपकी  है।  बुरी संगत  और आदतें अबगुण -पैदा करती हैं

सत्संगत  और अच्छी आदतें सद्गुण पैदा करके आपको महान बनाती।

गलती किस से नहीं होती।  दूसरों की गलतियां उछालो नहीं बल्कि उनसे सहानुभूति करके उनको दोवारा जीवन में आगे बढ़ने के लिए प्रेरित करें।

प्यार और सहानुभूति से संसार को जीता जा सकता है नफरत से नहीं।  मन में प्यार और सहानुभूति की ज्योति हमेशा जगाये रखें।

 अच्छे जीवन के लिए अपने खान पान ,चारों व् व्यव्हार (बचन व् आचरण )पर नियंत्रण जरुरी है।  आप सुखी परिवार , सुखी परिवारों के समूह राष्ट्र को सुखी बनाते हैं , सुखी समृद्ध राष्ट्र संसार को।  इसलिए परिवार सुखी संसार सुखी। 

बुधवार, 4 फ़रवरी 2015

Change Thinking Change Life

What you focus upon

intensely

becomes the reality

over a period of time.

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