Trust

We need to believe on ourselves first

 to believe rest in this world 

because everything is achievable by those who “BELIEVE” in themselves. 

Gd. Morning sir.

10 Talisman for Selfactulization

I have today sent you 8 manstras for self-actualization. Here below are the TEN TALISMAN for self actualization.

1. Accept yourself and others for what you are (or) what they are. There is no point cursing things which cannot be helped or improved upon e.g. dark complexion or some other deformity or handicap.

2. Develop spontaneity of thought and behaviour and more so in decision-making.

3. Develop "sense of humour". Sense of humour is the best and effective tool in one's hand. It helps in"De-tensing" and lightening any stressful situation. Humour will motivate even the most reluctant person to do thing willingly, for you.

4, Be creative to utilize time to the fullest extent. After all, you are devoting only about 30% of your lifespan for really productive work

5. Do self appraisal and introspection or get psycho analysis done to know your potential aptitudes, attitudes, strong and weak points. "Know thyself". The more we learn about our feelings, the more pragmatic would be our approach to behaviour and we will not act in the way which would prove harmful to ourselves.

6. Look at your life from an objective view point. Here helicopter view or overall view of your life to prod the pink spots and to gauge the grey areas.

7. Develop deep and satisfying interpretations and interpersonal relationships, with a few rather than a large number of people.

8. Do not become self-centred but  be a Team centred. You cannot succeed by becoming a lone player but by becoming a "Team Player" you will certainly. A loner is left to fend for himself.

9. Divide your eternal goal into smaller achievable targets. Achieve one objective then only set more difficult target to be achieved. Thus "may you climb peak to peak" successfully, one after another. Do not try to break the deadlock in one go.

10. Do not give up in the face of difficulties"when going gets tough the tough get going."  No complacency should set in. You should not be the one who says: When going gets easier, tougher goes lazier.

Get out of wavering nature. You shouldn't be like, " when going gets easier, the lazier gets going."

Do not get perturbed on what you cannot help and what you can help do not get hesitated.

Do not waste time non-productively. If the work is worship, God is time. "Kaalah Kalayathamahan" - Sri Krishan in Sri mad Bhagvat Gita.

SWOT Analyses should be done by the individual, society,nation and states.

Send your SWOT analyses.

TRUE EDUCATION

True Education   by Prof. P.K.Keshap

in Business / Entrepreneurship    (submitted 2011-07-03)

Bring light to the poor; and bring more light to the rich, for they require it more than the poor. Bring light to the ignorant, and more light to the educated, for the vanities of the education of our time are tremendous.

Education is the manifestation of perfection already in man.

Education is not the amount of information that is put into your brain and runs rot there, undigested, all your life. We must have life-building, man-making, character making assimilation of ideas. If you have assimilated five ideas and made them your life and character, you have more education than any man who has got by heart a whole library.

We want that education by which character is formed, strength of the mind is increased, the intellect is expanded, and by which one can stand on one's own feet.

To me the very essence of education is CONCENTRATION OF MIND, not the collecting of facts. If I had to do my education over again, and had any voice in the matter, I would not study facts at all. I would develop the power of concentration and detachment, and then with a PERFECT instrument I could collect facts at will.

Concentration is the essence of all knowledge. Nothing can be done without IT. 90% of the thought force is wasted by the ordinary human being, and therefore he is constantly committing blunders; the trained man or mind never makes a mistake. The thoughts have been given by great Swami Vivekananda who Mr. Rockfeller - business doyen of America once asked "what is God" and he answered "Man is God. Serve man and you will serve God." This prompted Mr. Rockfeller to finance the project of Dr. Baurlog - the Noble Prize Winner to conduct experiments in Africa and make the land fertile so that human beings may get grains grown and food may become available to them.

The entrepreneurs need the kind of the education as visualized by Swami Vivekananda and develop an empathy for living human beings as displayed by Mr. Rockfeller- the great American Entrepreneur. Developing this kind of personal traits is the self-responsibility of the entrepreneur.

ETYMOLOGICAL MEANING: -- Latin Origin
a) Educare- to nourish b) Educure- to lead forth c) Educatum- act of teaching
Sanskrit Origin- a) Skis shah:- To discipline
b) Vidhya :- • vidh• • To know
What is not education?
1) Becoming only literate is not education.
2) Getting a degree is not education.
3) Gaining knowledge.
4) Learning new skills.

About the Author

Founder Director: Institute for Personality Development, 165/64-J, Bhai Randhir Singh Nagar, Ludhiana(India), Phone: 0161-2455560 Branch Office: "Knowledge Park", STEP, Govt. of India, G.N.E, Backside Nanankana Sahib Public School, Gill Road, Ludhiana

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BE YOUR BEST SELF

Be your best self

by I.M.Soni
You have been troubled by infereiority feelings which are often based on memories or on remarks made by others.
Your feelings lead to self-concepts that are flagrantly wrong, but as long as you believe in them, you are inluenced by them.
Threrefore, it is important for you for to keep telling yourself that you are a much better individual than you are made to believe by envious people.
If you accept this as a fact, it will begin to influence your life because what you do with your self life depends on your own self-concept.
Your self-concept makes real things happen to you. You may say, "I can do this" and "I can't do that" simply because of remarks that other have made about you.
You underestimate your own abilities. Your inherent abilities are much greater than those you actually use. No one ever gives his best, is not a joke. Henry Ford once said, "Everyone can do more than he thinks he can."
No matter what your abilities are, they can be developed only if you choose to develop them. It is up to you.
According to Prescott Lecky, every human being strives to be a consistentent whole. He rejects what he thinks contradicts his self-image. Sometimes, he rejects traits that would be greatly to his advantage, because in a thoughtless moment, someone has told him that he was very dull.
If he accepts this, it becomes part of his mental picture of himself, and from that time he behaves accordingly.
A poor speller, for example, can be turned into a good one by changing his idea about his ability. When he changed his idea about his opinion of himself, a high school student, who previously misspelled 55 words out of 100 and had failed in most of his school subjects, became one of the best spellers in his school and got a general average of 90. He overcame his ,"disability" and became proficient.
Self-concept may be compared to building houses. If a man, in a fit of alcoholism, builds up an image of himself that has no basis in reality, he's building a mental house of straw.
A daydream that has no follow-up can be blown away as easility as a house of straw.
You can build your mental house out of sticks, and it can also be blown down. If you build your self-concept on casual remarks made others, you are building it out of sticks.
If you build your mental house out of bricks, who can knowck it down? Bricks that build your self-concept show what you can do and achieve.
If you have personal experience in succeeding at something, small or big, you can build a house of your self-esteem on what you have done. Forget the failures you have met with.
Build your life and career on what you have already done successfully. Success breeds success.
Nietzche says, "Become what thou art!" He knew that if we only became as great as we really are we would be better than we dream.

You have potentialities that you have never realised. The first step in changing your life is to believe that you can change. Here are some suggestions.

Accept yourself. In a study of group of college students, it was found that those who were mentally healthiest accepted themselves with all their faults as naturally.

Dont tear yourself apart because you do not think you are worthy.

You should try to be at your best.

Believe in yourself. You have some talent. If you do not know what your talent is, that does not mean that you do not possess one.

Keep seeking till you find what your talent is.

Think of how to make yourself better.

If you spend too much time wondering whether or not you are good, you won't be.

Keep your hands and your mind occupied.A man is nothing if not a worker.

Keep recreational activities in your life.

Always have an activity that will be fun for the sake of it.

Make others comfortable and at ease.

When you meet someone for the first time, concentrate on trying to make him feel at ease.

That will keep you from feeling self-conscious.

If you cocentrate on the other person, you are not self-centred.

Do something about your negatives. If you have some worries you cannot do anything, try to be fair about them. Look for their good points.

Believe in some power higher and greater than yourself.

Bury the past. Yesterday was a dream, tomorrow may never come. Use this fragment of time, as though it were your last day.

Work for your future.The beauty of the future is that it comes one day. And anybody can handle one day positively and creatively.

Source: The Tribune August 27,2010
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