I have today
sent you 8 manstras for self-actualization. Here below are the TEN TALISMAN for
self actualization.
1. Accept
yourself and others for what you are (or) what they are. There is no point
cursing things which cannot be helped or improved upon e.g. dark complexion or
some other deformity or handicap.
2. Develop
spontaneity of thought and behaviour and more so in decision-making.
3. Develop
"sense of humour". Sense of humour is the best and effective tool in
one's hand. It helps in"De-tensing" and lightening any stressful
situation. Humour will motivate even the most reluctant person to do thing
willingly, for you.
4, Be creative
to utilize time to the fullest extent. After all, you are devoting only about
30% of your lifespan for really productive work
5. Do self
appraisal and introspection or get psycho analysis done to know your potential
aptitudes, attitudes, strong and weak points. "Know thyself". The
more we learn about our feelings, the more pragmatic would be our approach to
behaviour and we will not act in the way which would prove harmful to ourselves.
6. Look at your
life from an objective view point. Here helicopter view or overall view of your
life to prod the pink spots and to gauge the grey areas.
7. Develop deep
and satisfying interpretations and interpersonal relationships, with a few
rather than a large number of people.
8. Do not become
self-centred but be a Team centred. You cannot succeed by becoming a lone
player but by becoming a "Team Player" you will certainly. A loner is
left to fend for himself.
9. Divide your
eternal goal into smaller achievable targets. Achieve one objective then only
set more difficult target to be achieved. Thus "may you climb peak to
peak" successfully, one after another. Do not try to break the deadlock in
one go.
10. Do not give
up in the face of difficulties"when going gets tough the tough get
going." No complacency should set in. You should not be the one who
says: When going gets easier, tougher goes lazier.
Get out of
wavering nature. You shouldn't be like, " when going gets easier, the
lazier gets going."
Do not get
perturbed on what you cannot help and what you can help do not get hesitated.
Do not waste
time non-productively. If the work is worship, God is time. "Kaalah
Kalayathamahan" - Sri Krishan in Sri mad Bhagvat Gita.
SWOT Analyses
should be done by the individual, society,nation and states.
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analyses.