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Love of work लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
Love of work लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं

सोमवार, 8 जनवरी 2024

Work and home 🏠 balance.

 A good interaction with a CA.


Yesterday, I met one of my old friend's son .


He is Chartered accountant.


He gave me a great learning. 


To have separate work place (office) and home.


2

He shared:


Uncle I was fed up from my family members, and friends who aren't as educated as I am.


3

I had office at home for about 4 years after my getting CA certificate of Practice. 


To save office expenses and devote more time to office, I started my practice at home.


BUT this caused lots of stress.


4

I was stressed. 


Because all family elders, my parents, my wife, brother's kids, brother interfered a lot in my work.


 My professional work responsibility demanded more focus, more conentration and my family did not understand. 


I felt.



Entire day, all family members remained in preparing tea and serving to clients.


 No privacy at all.

 This destroyed family's peace ✌️ of mind.


I felt 

"I earn, family must follow me." Wrong.


Father felt: 


I am head of family. Family must obey whereas owing to old age, he was unable and capable to do so.


Brother felt:


 Younger brother( me) must obey though he was matriculate.


Wife felt: 


I am wife.


 In All financial and family matters, ALL should follow.


 She was highly emotional and less rational as she was just graduate domestic woman. 


Always wanted to win and not listen 👂 to others.More stubborn and static attention 


 No experience of एजुकेटेड educated world. Every day, world is changing.



Later I realized that it's not family that's wrong.



 It's me who is wrong.


 Because I am CA, not family. 


I operate from home. 


I must have separate OFFICE.



5

Last year, I shifted my office to this isolated place after great hitches and hackles.


And have realized:


* More spare time for thinking


* My own brand is boosted.



* Productivity boosted. 


* Clients increased 3 x.


* Finances improved.


* Mental health improved.


* More planning, more freedom.


* Full office work, full family time.


* More transaction, more transparency.


* Less tension, more clarity as I write ✍️ diary for daily routines and planning for next 2 years.



Lesson learnt.

 Work from office

 away from home

boosts self productivity.



बुधवार, 6 फ़रवरी 2013

RULES OF LIVING


                       RULES OF LIVING
1.              Never put off till tomorrow
                What you can do today.
2.              Never trouble another for
               What you can do yourself.
3.              Never buy what you do not need or want
              Because it is cheap.
4.              Pride costs more than
             Hunger, thirst or cold.
5.              We seldom repent
           Having eaten little.
6.              Nothing is troublesome
          That we do willingly.
7.              How much pain the evils
         Have caused us that have never happened.
8.              Take the things always
  By the smooth handle.
9.              Value time or
         Time will stop valuing you.
10.       Mirror reflects our appearances,
         Heart reflects our soul.
11. Never spend before
          you have money in your hand.