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BALANCE OF MIND लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
BALANCE OF MIND लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं

गुरुवार, 3 फ़रवरी 2022

Patience 🤣

 Patience is key

 for success of yourself 😘

कभी कभी

सव्र (इंतजार) से

 शिक्षा और नई ऊर्जा मिलती है 

जो जीवन और जीवनशैली को नई दिशा

दे देती है।

अपने आप को

सब्र करना सिखाये।


यह जीवन में अचंभित

 कर देने वाली शक्ति है।




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रविवार, 27 जून 2021

Verbal Etiquette बोलचाल

 मुंह ‌‌खोलने 

से

पहले

दिमाग

के

कपाट 

खोलो।


Open your mind before you open your mouth.


मेरी हार तब तक नहीं हो सकती ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌जब तक मैं हार नहीं मानता।








 


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गुरुवार, 7 जनवरी 2016

MIND AND MEDITATION


Mind is a good servant but very bad master. Mind is like a monkey that keeps on jumping from one branch of tree to another branch of tree. 
A person asked a wise man: Can you tell me what is the form of God?
The saintly wise man thoughtfully with his one finger on the chin said: Do you know who are you? The person nodded in negative. The wise man said: Know thyself and you will know the world or the creator of the world. If you could not know about yourself in your life till now, how can you know the creator of you? Go and first know about yourself and then come to know about the creator.The creator is within you. No need to find HIM outside thee. 

Isn't it the nature of human being to keep on asking "Where is God?" The human beings are more interested to find out what the others are having. Rather than feeling pride what he has. 

Comparison is hell. 

To elaborate more: On the eve of New Year, the management of a company gave gifts to its employees but it was observed that the most of the employees instead of focusing on opening and enjoying own gift were busy in asking others "what have you received as gift." 
In life too, we are mentally busy to know the net worth of the people known to us. First we endeavour our best to know what the others have and then we start feeling jealous of them by storming our mind with the thoughts: How has he accumulated all those possession or wealth?

We keep on troubling and torturing ourselves with those inefficient thoughts without any reason.
WHY?

The simple answer is "the minds of majority of the people are filled with greed."
What they see, they love to have. Can every thing owned by others be had? No. Not at all.

What gives happiness in life is FREE. For example: air to breathe is Free. Love of mother, father, brother, sister and friends is FREE.

Exaggerated expectations from others and mental possessions are the cause of  mental unrest.

MEDITATION 
Meditation helps in settling down these kind of untameable temptations. Bad is in our mind. But instead of throwing it out our minds, we keep on nurturing it in our mind and result is the collapse of character. 
Wealth is lost, nothing is lost
Health is lost, something is lost
Character is lost, everything is lost, says Mahatma Gandhi.





















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शुक्रवार, 5 अक्टूबर 2012

Holistic Approach to Living

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गुरुवार, 4 अक्टूबर 2012

Unwraping Minds


From the desk of a psychologist!

What to knit your life with?

September 28, 2012
Have you ever felt drained sitting next to a person while some just refreshes you?
Life is simple ; each individual is unique, no two can be the same . A logical question should be “Why are we called social animals then?”
It’s the connections we have with individuals at various levels. We humans have social needs which are fulfilled by these connections. But the million dollar question is could you fill all these places with any random person? To answer this  I have to ask you one thing, could you put any piece to a puzzle and make a sane picture?
There is a  click with some people and it has nothing to do with how similar you are . You connect  with someone and find that person fulfilling a certain social need of yours making you more contended and happy but that doesn’t mean he/she is the only one for all your needs. This person is just a part of a whole huge picture which is made of many such connections. You connect with someone as a friend, someone else on an intellectual level while someone looks after the call of your heart and so on. 
But there is also a major unsaid pressure from the society on us to form these connections. It is not necessary that at the beginning of our journey we would find the exact piece to fit in the puzzle of our life but when we see or assume these pieces fitting in other people’s life we force to fake these bonds. Our hunger for social satisfaction also forces us to make hurried decisions. We make friends with whom we aren’t comfortable, we become close to people with whom we have few/no things to celebrate about.
This pressure is on both introverts & extroverts. As an introvert, you are pushed to be with people, even if it drains you and you aren’t comfortable with them. You are refused to wait for beautiful connections to happen which makes you enjoy your solitude more and more. While an extrovert, due to his compulsion to be around people, finds lots of them but end up feeling still lonely most of the time.
This in place of making us more contended, takes away the zeal out of our life. The human threads which are supposed to support us actually burdens us. We forget our individuality and instead of growing start carrying baggages. Sometimes we find the bonds which make us stronger but lose them with time and in search of the same kind of support find people who are not our match.
If we are in such a kind of relationship, are we doing justice to it and the other person/s involved in it. I am sure he/she is tolerating us the same way, we are tolerating them in our lives. This whole arrangement is unhealthy. The beauty of relationships and human connection is lost. Wake up before it’s too late and you become responsible for either hurting someone or ruining your experience as a result. Wait for the right piece for your puzzle and trust me it is worth waiting!
Enjoy your solitude and grab opportunities to connect with people with similar thought processes or for that matter someone with whom you can just have FUN! Never rush yourself, everything has a time. When we are waiting we feel that it is never going to end, this makes us impatient resulting in bad choices. But, that doesn’t mean that when something/ somebody does make sense, you still wait for the perfect one ( we all know no one/ nothing is  perfect). 
Life is all about trials & errors. Start living and exploring new human connections, even if it is not going to be your life altering relationship, it sure will teach you some new things.
“We are all so much together, but we are all dying of loneliness.”
― Albert Schweitzer
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