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1 Short term pain for
2 Long term gain
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VISION लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
VISION लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
शुक्रवार, 29 जनवरी 2021
शुक्रवार, 3 जुलाई 2015
80-20 pareto rule of life.
Reference: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareto_principle
Pic Source: www.dreamspear.co.uk
While doing MBA, we used to learn about 80-20 pareto method. The method when applied in projects or other activities says that 80% results or impact for achieving a project or an activity come from 20% efforts. The leaders focus, track and monitor this 20% part of the project. Rest is managed by the next brigade.
A week ago, I was sitting in café and heard the talk of the neighbor on other table.
Hard skills = 20% contribution in life
Soft skills = 80% contribution in life.
Elaborate more was the wide eyed opened listener's query.
Listen:
Hard skills are the qualifications and ranks a person gets from school/college/universities or institutes. They make the arrogant, haughty, introvert and fit for comparison. The person boasts and brags of degrees and institutes where as this does not pay after a period of time.
Soft Skills:
About 60 in total and include acceptance of the world as real and taming, trimming self thinking to match the occasion and the need of the person, places, people, institutions. It includes, talking low, slow, short taking into account the age, relation and occasion. It also includes your role in family, work place or job. A manager cannot be impatient in talks like an office boy.
What you eat determines the volume of your voice. Heavy , fried and over cooked foods and hot drinks cause loudness in talks. Fruit, juice, vegetables, almonds and nuts enable the body to be more healthy and the behavior of the person improves.
CCT Conscious Control of Tongue pays a lot in achieving 80%.
20% is helpful in career and is relevant for the job and the little community known.
80% is helpful in happiness, relation building, networking, inner peace and frictionless self-development. Networking - local, national and international - help in boosting the relationships for every kind of assistance during bad times.
The listener could not understand well and asked: Cite an example. I could not understand your philosophical talk.
Ok: In a family, father is less educated and worked hard to feed and pay the fee of the children. Mother, though illiterate, cooked food, washed clothes and took care of kids when they were ill and could not take care of themselves. With the fees of father's money and mother's help, the children got good education. Became aware about the physical world but could not develop their sense of metaphysical world which is inner-self.
Now the children are young and educated, parents are old and needy. Energy level is drained. Their response time to tackle the problems or replying to the queries of children has gone down. Children don't like this. They shout and react to the extent that the parents feel troubled. Yes mere presence for long time becomes a source of annoyance. Father and mother living at the same place and meeting the children right from birth cause inbuilt mental deafness for any kind of advice or
Children treat them as if they have the same energy and expect that the parents should act and behave as they wish rather than being thankful to the parents who sacrificed their youth, wants and invested their energy and time on them.
When I was young I wished to change the world. My age was about 17-18. But now at 50+ I have come to know that creating mental friction for the real world or others is useless. But now I have learnt, if I wish to be happy, I need to manage my mind. Now I focus more on my thoughts, track them. I found a wonderful method: I say I forgive you and name the person: Wonder: I sleep well. No thought of hate or love for a particular person jump into my mind.
I don't do because the people I love or I hate deserve my mercy but I deserve mental peace. I kept on torturing myself for about 50 years for imaginary presumptive reasons. Now I am in command of my mind. Now I know what I want in life and my direction is right and destination is visible. Earlier, I was commanded by others as I was hurt deeply by the words of others. Now I ignore by mentally saying. No you cannot disturb my mental peace. I am the master of my life. Now I trust the words of Henry David Thoreau
: What lies ahead and what lies ahead are tiny matters as compared to what lies within.
Changing food has also helped a lot. I take fruits, boiled vegetables, sprouted beans. I avoid gossip and irrelevant thinking and toxic people.
Now I talk more in mind. No bad words come out of lips. Only good words for others come. This is building my relations. I am now more cooperative, level of acceptance rather than arrogance has increased. Body language too works for others. Behaviour is changing. It is all paying in making my life happy. I feel inner peace. Sleep well.
This switching from "I": am more important to "You" are more important and becoming nice to others, talking sweet, controlling tongue i.e. stopping and not advancing arguments is helping me to be happy. Happiness is an inner task. Self effort. Nobody else is responsible. I love living with people with whom I feel good.
Age group too matters. People of your own age group make you more happy as they talk and behave like you.
Emotional intelligence is one component of 80%. 80% never changes. 20% keeps changing with the passage. Parents loved their kids in Stone Age and love them too in this Computer Age. Mother's parents, brothers, sisters and father's parents, brothers, sisters and cousins remain permanent in life. No way to annoy or leave them. Just accepting them as they are is the way to happiness or face their wrath.
All talk rough but do help in need. Talk cannot be as good as the dialogue of films or TV serials.
But MBA and B.Tech were not available in Stone Age.
80% enables you to be happy and comfortable with everyone and everywhere. Whereas 20% enables you to go up and higher in your career.
Right I understand why am I that much troubled internally. I will be focusing on 80% now to make my life better and better.
Pic Source: www.dreamspear.co.uk
While doing MBA, we used to learn about 80-20 pareto method. The method when applied in projects or other activities says that 80% results or impact for achieving a project or an activity come from 20% efforts. The leaders focus, track and monitor this 20% part of the project. Rest is managed by the next brigade.
A week ago, I was sitting in café and heard the talk of the neighbor on other table.
Hard skills = 20% contribution in life
Soft skills = 80% contribution in life.
Elaborate more was the wide eyed opened listener's query.
Listen:
Hard skills are the qualifications and ranks a person gets from school/college/universities or institutes. They make the arrogant, haughty, introvert and fit for comparison. The person boasts and brags of degrees and institutes where as this does not pay after a period of time.
Soft Skills:
About 60 in total and include acceptance of the world as real and taming, trimming self thinking to match the occasion and the need of the person, places, people, institutions. It includes, talking low, slow, short taking into account the age, relation and occasion. It also includes your role in family, work place or job. A manager cannot be impatient in talks like an office boy.
What you eat determines the volume of your voice. Heavy , fried and over cooked foods and hot drinks cause loudness in talks. Fruit, juice, vegetables, almonds and nuts enable the body to be more healthy and the behavior of the person improves.
CCT Conscious Control of Tongue pays a lot in achieving 80%.
20% is helpful in career and is relevant for the job and the little community known.
80% is helpful in happiness, relation building, networking, inner peace and frictionless self-development. Networking - local, national and international - help in boosting the relationships for every kind of assistance during bad times.
The listener could not understand well and asked: Cite an example. I could not understand your philosophical talk.
Ok: In a family, father is less educated and worked hard to feed and pay the fee of the children. Mother, though illiterate, cooked food, washed clothes and took care of kids when they were ill and could not take care of themselves. With the fees of father's money and mother's help, the children got good education. Became aware about the physical world but could not develop their sense of metaphysical world which is inner-self.
Now the children are young and educated, parents are old and needy. Energy level is drained. Their response time to tackle the problems or replying to the queries of children has gone down. Children don't like this. They shout and react to the extent that the parents feel troubled. Yes mere presence for long time becomes a source of annoyance. Father and mother living at the same place and meeting the children right from birth cause inbuilt mental deafness for any kind of advice or
Children treat them as if they have the same energy and expect that the parents should act and behave as they wish rather than being thankful to the parents who sacrificed their youth, wants and invested their energy and time on them.
When I was young I wished to change the world. My age was about 17-18. But now at 50+ I have come to know that creating mental friction for the real world or others is useless. But now I have learnt, if I wish to be happy, I need to manage my mind. Now I focus more on my thoughts, track them. I found a wonderful method: I say I forgive you and name the person: Wonder: I sleep well. No thought of hate or love for a particular person jump into my mind.
I don't do because the people I love or I hate deserve my mercy but I deserve mental peace. I kept on torturing myself for about 50 years for imaginary presumptive reasons. Now I am in command of my mind. Now I know what I want in life and my direction is right and destination is visible. Earlier, I was commanded by others as I was hurt deeply by the words of others. Now I ignore by mentally saying. No you cannot disturb my mental peace. I am the master of my life. Now I trust the words of Henry David Thoreau
Changing food has also helped a lot. I take fruits, boiled vegetables, sprouted beans. I avoid gossip and irrelevant thinking and toxic people.
Now I talk more in mind. No bad words come out of lips. Only good words for others come. This is building my relations. I am now more cooperative, level of acceptance rather than arrogance has increased. Body language too works for others. Behaviour is changing. It is all paying in making my life happy. I feel inner peace. Sleep well.
This switching from "I": am more important to "You" are more important and becoming nice to others, talking sweet, controlling tongue i.e. stopping and not advancing arguments is helping me to be happy. Happiness is an inner task. Self effort. Nobody else is responsible. I love living with people with whom I feel good.
Age group too matters. People of your own age group make you more happy as they talk and behave like you.
Emotional intelligence is one component of 80%. 80% never changes. 20% keeps changing with the passage. Parents loved their kids in Stone Age and love them too in this Computer Age. Mother's parents, brothers, sisters and father's parents, brothers, sisters and cousins remain permanent in life. No way to annoy or leave them. Just accepting them as they are is the way to happiness or face their wrath.
All talk rough but do help in need. Talk cannot be as good as the dialogue of films or TV serials.
But MBA and B.Tech were not available in Stone Age.
80% enables you to be happy and comfortable with everyone and everywhere. Whereas 20% enables you to go up and higher in your career.
Right I understand why am I that much troubled internally. I will be focusing on 80% now to make my life better and better.
गुरुवार, 13 जून 2013
U-Turn
You Might
Have To Make A U-Turn
Once I was travelling in a part of India with which my driver was
unfamiliar.
He made a wrong turn
at one point but drove on for five miles before he realised he was on the wrong
road. He had to stop the car then and make a U-turn, and soon we safely reached
our destination.
This kind of U-turn
is made not only while navigating a road; it is a principle of life.
Every person, every
community, every nation needs at some point to make a U-turn. Failing to do
this could result in an unbearable loss.
For
example, the Tatas established a car factory in West Bengal to produce the Nano
car in 2007.
Very
soon they discovered that West Bengal was not favourable for their industry, so
they dismantled their factory and re-established it in Gujarat. Now Nano cars
are successfully running in every city of India. This success was the direct
result of adopting the U-turn policy.
The
same is applicable to nations. One such example is the course adopted by the
United Kingdom after the Second World War. British leaders, especially those
who were associated with the Fabian Society, felt that they were now unable to
control India and other “British colonies” and proceeded to adopt a policy of
decolonisation.
As we
know, Churchill emerged as a hero in WWII, but he was defeated in the 1945
election. The reason for this being that a desire for post-war reform was
widespread amongst the British population and the man who had led Britain in
war was not seen as the man to lead the nation in peace.
There
are numerous examples in history of the success of those who adopted the policy
of U-turn and the failure of those who did not.
In this world, nothing is certain, neither
for individuals nor for nations. So every individual or group of people ought
to adopt the U-turn policy where it is relevant. When they find that their
journey is taking them down a blind alley, they need to revise their policy,
they must reassess the whole matter, and if it appears that they were heading
in the wrong direction, they should change course without any further ado.
India is also a good example of this kind
of policy. After Independence, India adopted the socialist model for its
economy, but the result was hardly encouraging.
Then in 1991, India introduced a new policy
in its economic planning. Now, in recent years, Indian authorities have brought
about such great changes in
economic policies as may be described as a paradigm shift and yet, perhaps the
time is ripe for yet another perspective that can cleanse the system of
impurities.
The U-turn policy is a law of nature. No
one is able to see the unseen. No one can foresee all that is going to happen
in the future. This makes the journey of life a jump into uncertainty.
A wise man is one who can reassess himself,
reset his priorities, replan his project and mould himself according to
changing circumstances. Don’t try to fight against realities. Simply accept
them. When you cannot change reality, change yourself.
Sometimes it appears that the U-turn policy
will lead to some loss, but any such loss is the lesser evil, while going
against reality is to opt for the greater evil.
The U-turn policy is only another name for
what may be called acceptance of reality and adjustment to the changing times.
The
U-turn policy is the policy of the wise: it ensures success, while not adopting
it is risking failure. Success and failure are both in your hands.
बुधवार, 29 अगस्त 2012
Vision
In life you need a one person
to convince that your vision is right.
Once that person is found,
success is bound to come.
to convince that your vision is right.
Once that person is found,
success is bound to come.
शुक्रवार, 30 दिसंबर 2011
गुरुवार, 22 दिसंबर 2011
HUMILITY
TRUE HUMILITY
True humility is not an easy virtue to cultivate.
It calls for a broad vision.
“By keeping your eyes off other people’s faults
and fixing them on your own.”
मंगलवार, 25 नवंबर 2008
सोमवार, 24 नवंबर 2008
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