Attitude सोच

 

सकारत्मक ‌‌‌‌‌सोच

सफलता को‌ आकर्षित

करती है।

Positive thinking attracts success.

A journey of thousands miles starts with first step.

Failure and time is greater teacher than success and good times.

Attitude रबैया

 High Education

+

Work Experience

+

Bad Attitude

=

Frustration and desparation

2

Low education

+

Work Experience

+

Good Attitude

= 

Desired Success+ Satisfaction+Happiness

जीवन के प्रति रबैया

उच्च शिक्षा+क्षमता और अनुभव(तजुर्बा) +नकारत्मक/बुरी सोच व व्यवहार= दुख/दर्द और परेशानी।

कम शिक्षा+क्षमता और अनुभव(,तजुर्बा) + सकारत्मक/अच्छी संस्कारी सोच= मनचाही सफलता+तृप्ति/संतुष्ट जीवन+प्रसन्ता

😢मनचाही सफलता न पाने का सबसे बड़ा कारण, यह सोचना और डरना

एक ही रोग

क्या कहेंगे लोग

जो पाना चाहते हो, उस पर फोकस करो बिना किसी की परवाह किये, बिना बताये।

 लक्ष्य उचित हो तो ही प्राप्ति सुख संतूष्टि देती है।

B 1333

घर बैठे बैंक पेपर की तैयारी करें

 स्व सुधार प्रेरक सत्य घटना

रबैया (Attitude)

अकल औऱ आदतें सिखाई नहीँ जा सकती, स्वयं सीखनी पड़ती हैं।

Part 1

यह घटना बहुत ही कठिन (जो हमेँ उस समय लगती थी, अब नहीँ) English भाषा में छप्पी थी। मैं आपकी सहूलियत के लिए हिंदी में लिख रहा हूँ ताकि इससे सीख ली जाए।

जब हम 1978-79 में BA में पढ़ने के बाद Company Secretaryship जॉइन किया तो हमें एक मैगज़ीन आती थी "Student Company Secretaryship" 

भारत में तीन ही सबसे बड़ी वित्त की instituteस है जो देश को चलाने के लिए सहायक है:

1 Institute of Chartered Accountants of India

(ICAI)

2 Institute of Company Secretaries of India (ICSI)

3 Institute of Costs &Works Accounts of India (ICWA)

अब शायद इसका नाम बदल कर Institute of Cost Accountants हो गया है।

यह तीनोँ institutes भारतीय वितीय ढाँचे के लिए जिमेबार हैं।

हाँ तो अब प्रेरक घटना।

Student Company Secretaryship मैगज़ीन में एक बढ़ा दिलचस्प केस आया।

1 

एक गांब में 2 बच्चे हम उनका नाम Mr A और Mr B रख लेते हैँ पैदा हुए। बढ़े हुये।

2

दोनों बच्चे स्कूल में दाखिल करबाए गए। दोनो हस्ते, खेलते शरारते करते और गांब के बढ़े बजुर्गों के आशीर्वाद लेते। क्योंकि बचपन ही बेफिक्र जीवन है, बाकी तो जदोजहद और यादें है।

3  11 तक गांब के स्कूल से पास की। उस समय 11 के बाद BA होती थी। +2 बाद में आई है। अब तो 5+3+3+4 system आ गया है। NEP 2020 में।

4 अब बारी कॉलेज की आई।

बढ़े बजुर्गो के बीच बहुत दिनों तक सलाह मशवरे चले, पड़ोस के गांब के पढ़े लिखों से भी मशबरा किया गया। 

तब फाइनल हुया की इन बचों को शहर में पढ़ाई के लिए भेजा जाय।

5 BA part 1 में admission हो गई। क्योंकि बच्चों के 11th में नंबर ही बढ़े अच्छे थे।

6

सुबह तैयार हो  कालिज जाना एक बड़ा चैलेंज होता था पूरे परिवार के लिए। जब तक बच्चे कालिज नहीँ जाते घर के सभी सदस्य उन्हें कालिज के लिए तैयार करने में ब्यस्त रहते।

जब बच्चे कालिज चले जाते, तो घर के बड़े ब्रेकफास्ट करते।

7

दूसरा चैलेंज गांब से शहर में कालिज जाना होता था।

√ पहले तो किसी साईकल बाले से लिफ्ट लेकर शहर पहुंचना।

A को लिफ्ट मिल जाती तो बह B को हाथ हिला कर चिड़ा देता।

B मायूस हो जाता। परन्तु जब B के cycle बाला A के साईकल बाले से आगे निकल जाता तो B, A को चिढ़ा देता।

√ कालिज  खत्म होने के बाद गांब बापिस आना तो और भी मनोरंजक हो जाता ।

√ पैदल आना। रास्ते में खेतों और बागों से खूब फल सब्जियां, गन्ने निकाल कर खाना। 

√ सभी गाँवों के किसानों को पता था कि यह बच्चे कालिज में पढ़ते हैं । खूब खातिर होती।

सभी मिल कर खुश होते। जिस गांब से निकलते उस गांब क़े बच्चे बजुर्ग खड़े हो कर देखते कि कालिज पढ़ने बाले बच्चे कैसे होते हैं । 1962 में तो हमारे शहर में भी ब 1 या 2 कालिज थे । जो कालिज जाता था, उसके लिए लोग बस में उठ कर सीट दे देते थे।

8. इसी तरह A और B BA पास कर गए।

बाकी Part II में पढें। कल पोस्ट करूँगा।

Know your attitude.

              

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3 HORSES

1. A king had three horses.

2. One day his dearest friend came to meet him.

3. Out of  curiosity, the friend asked: For how much did you buy  this horse? He said: "X" amount of money.

4. Friend further asked: For how much did you buy  this  2nd one?   He replied: 6 X.

5. Friend quizzed more : And for  how much did you buy  this 3rd horse? The king replied: 15  X.

Really surprised, you paid 15 times more for the 3rd horse when compared with first horse. May I know the logic behind this deal."

"Yes, of course you can, said the king."

"Listen, I need to use hunter to make the first horse run. I had bought it for "X". I repent. It is waste of my money and time. More mental frustration than service it gives to me. I have to beat it virtually with hunter to make it run. It irritates me."

" Now to 2nd horse. I just show it the hunter and it starts running and I ride it well."

" The 3rd one is nicest its behaviour and service. When it sees me coming from the palace, it raises its tail giving me an indication  as if saying: "I am ready to give you ride. Come and sit." As soon as I come and sit on it, it starts running."

" So now I understand that value addition comes with ATTITUDE and responsibility."

Friend learnt it. Every body should check himself or herself what kind of horse s/he is. It is self analysis. None other can do it. 

तीन घोड़े ा 

एक राजा के पास तीन घोड़े थे। एक दिन उस राजा का दोस्त आया और उसने उन घोड़ों के बारे में पूछा 

राजा ने बताया 

1  यह पहला घोड़ा : इसे चलाने के लिए चाबुक से पीटना पड़ता है।  बहुत तकलीफ होती है।  परन्तु इसका स्वाभाव ही यह है। 

2. यह दूसरा घोडा : इसे चाबुक दिखायो और यह भागने लगता है।  

3. और यह तीसरा घोडा :    यह मेरी पसंद है।  मैं अभी महल से बाहर ही निकलता हूँ तो यह मुझे सवारी देने के लिए अपनी पूछ हिलाने लग जाता है।  मैं आता हूँ और इसकी पीठ पर बैठ जाता हूँ।  सवारी समाप्त होने पर यह मुझे मेरे महल तक छोड़ जाता है।  

इसी तरह से इंसान का स्वाभाव है।  कुछ काम करने के लिए बार बार कहना पड़ता है।  यह दूसरों की शिकायतें ही लगते रहते है।  

कुछ काम को स्वयं समझ लेते है या अपने साथियों से सलाह लेकर काम पूरा कर लेते हैं। 

यह तीसरी तरह के कुछ अपने आप काम देखते हैं और कर लेते हैं इन्हें कहने की ज़रुरत नहीं पड़ती।  यह बहुत तरक्की करते हैं।  

सोचिये आप कौन सी केटेगोरी में हैं।  यह आपके लिए और कोई नहीं कर सकता।  लिख कर देखने से पता चलता है।  अपने अंदर झांकना और अपनी कमियों को जानना और उनके लिए अपनी जिम्मेबारी लेना बहुत ही मुश्किल काम है।  हाँ असंभव नहीं।  

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Attitude of Gratitude

Despite best efforts if you do not get the desired results, don't hold yourself responsible but start finding options to turn failure into success. Success will definitely. Yes in how many attempts or in what time - short or long.

You do your best, study hard and attempt best and leave the result to the cosmic power.

You will remain happy throughout life.

In short, be happy with what you have and keep achieving what you wish to achieve

What is intelligence?

1) Cognitive intelligence- what you learn from school and colleges.

2) Emotional intelligence - how to present yourself to others so that you are not repelled. Your thoughts are listened and they convince the listener. Present them in such a way. Or you are not having emotional intelligence.

3) Social intelligence- Modifying your aspiration in such a way that the society benefits from your actions and contribution.

With money or wealth, you cannot top the ladder of reverence in the society.

It is knowledge and sacrifice.

Greed - i.e, corruption cannot make you on the top of reverence among the constituent of society.

Attitude of Gratitude in brief:

1 जो हुआ अच्छा हुआ
2 जो हो रहा है अच्छा हो रहा है
3 जो होगा बह भी अच्छा होगा

ऐसा सोचने से इंसान हमेशा खुश रहता है।  नहीं तो स्ट्रेस और चिंता से समय से पहले ही हार्ट स्ट्रोक और और कितनी बिमारियों का घर बन जाता है। 

Basic Principles of Ayurveda

How to make living easy and happy?

AYURVEDA - The basic principles

 1. The biorhythm among humans and animals  is transferred from grandfather to father and father to son.

Biorhythm has mainly 3 components:

• Intellectual Level:
• Physical Level and 
• Emotional level

2. These levels keep on changing  from day to day or hour by hour and create lot of imbalances in the body and mind. The movement of the various planets in the solar system impacts the body i.e. low and high moods are caused due to these movements. They are similar as the waves in the ocean go up and down many times during the day.

3. Mind is the master to cause  change in moods.

4. Brain( gross form of the mind) is the engine of the train called body.

5, Ayurveda has based itself on the doshas i.e Vaat, Pit and Cough that carry the functions of the body of an individual. Excess or deficit of any dosha causes imbalance in body and personality. Happiness, anger, low moods etc. are generally have the roots in imbalance of these doshas.

6. Individuals can master these doshas and manage them to create balance in Mind, Body and Spirit.

7. Ayurveda works more on "prevention is better than cure" principle.

9. Right sleep, right eating, right thinking, right behaiour along with "We attitude" are generally the benefits of Ayurveda.

10. Holistic approach of health and life is the guiding principle of Ayurveda.

Inputs by: Dr. R.Sharma, BAMS, MPH

Pic courtesy: www.trueshayri.in

STEPS AND SUCCESS.

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Ego

Body – Mind – Soul or being.

ATTITUDE AND EGO

Body bears pain

Mind suffers owing to thought of pain borne by body

Soul is beyond body

Mind speaks, hears, loves, hates, argues, plans, reacts, makes strategies, suffers. 

Ego resides in mind.

Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional 

says: 

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar – the founder of Art of Living.

He further says: 

Guilt does not allow a person to live happily.

Attitude, listening and observing are the part of soul 

i.e. being.

Pure thinking for the welfare of living things 

and creating an environment in which the planet earth

may survive for the coming generations is part of Being.

EGO

EGO AND ATTITUDE

The main difference between attitude and ego is:

ATTITUDE makes you different from others

EGO isolates(makes you alone) you from others.

SHUN ego and be humble.

Attitude

Attitude matter a lot in success

Positive attitude creates opportunities

Negative destroys the opportunities

that knock at your door step and

can switch you from failure to success.


Never never give up.

Never compare with others but compete with yourself to be better, better and better.

You can.

WINGS

Wings never help us to fly high

but

the attitude we have definitely does.

Success

Ta Yu: Great Possessions,
To win, 


you must use neither aggression nor arrogance. 


Indeed, you can obtain great things by being calm. 


Your apparently weak attitude is your strength and nobody can oppose you. 


Great success will arrive.

Source: I.Ching.

SUCCESS

LAW OF SUCCESS

          BY Vasudha Gupta

Saurabh Garg, 25, a young lawyer practicing in the Supreme Court, was invited to the Bar of England and Wales in October 2011.

Saurabh was invited to the society of the Inner Temple, which has notable alumni, including MK Gandhi and Jawahar Lal Nehru, to its credit.

This young lad, who has his own law firm, has studied Intellectual Property Law in the London School of Economics. In his endeavour to understand the legal system, Saurabh coordinated the ULIS Law and Technology Seminar as chief

 coordinator and represented the university at Criminal Law Forum, Bhopal.

Motivational factor.

I have always aimed to do something for my nation. I wanted to come back to India to open an organization that works on issues like illiteracy, poverty and population. I want to improve myself everyday. For me, learning something new everyday is the key.

Feathers in the cap

I received the Best Student Advocate award an International Moot Court competition in 2008. I have written several research papers that have been published in prestigious journals. I was the only India to study at the Bar in England and secure an internship with the International Bar Association, London.

In my pursuit to specialize in mediation, I underwent training to be an accredited mediator.

Strengths and weaknesses

I am focused, optimistic and a confident person.  I think my weakness is that I get aggressive and impatient when it is comes to getting work done.

Flipside of being an achiever

It can lead to have fewer friends. If a person during an interaction with his friends tries not to make the other person insecure, then he can keep the friendship going. The problem only comes when the other person feels that he is being looked down upon.

People tend to be become envious, judgmental and start expecting a lot from you.

Words of Wisdom

My sincere advice is to follow you heart in whatever you want to do in life. One may face opposition from the people around but they’ll be fine once they see you happy. Having said that, I believe that it’s not aptitude but attitude that determines the altitude.

 Source: The Tribune 22^nd March, 2012.

STRESS BUSTER

BEAT it with your attitude.
BY RENE SINGH
A Chandigarh based Pschotherapist

Each individual is unique and each of us responds differently to a stressful situation. The problem of stress is not taken as seriously as it should be.

Modern science, despite major technological achievements, has so far failed to find a way to measure it. Most people who are stressed don’t even know how critical their situation is. Some even fail to respond as they suppress their symptoms wonderfully.

Familiarity with stress is very important. It is only through identifying with the condition and understanding it that we can learn to handle how to handle it.

Observing the body’s response to stress:

• Identifying physical signs of stress.
• Understanding one’s genetic and environmental make-up objectively.

These factors are very important in identifying a condition.

Managing Stress:


• Recognizing stress reaction.
• Reduce further production of stress reaction.
• Address the stress reaction and chemicals already produced.
• Manage the residual stress.

Stress is not always harmful but it has its benefits too. For attitude is the most important in life. If we keep that going, nothing in the world can get to us.

Focus on Change:

Focus on change is the key once you have managed to identify a condition, you should be able to change it.

Change is the only constant:

Change brings in:


• New information
• New demands
• New challenges.

The human being has a habit of resisting anything new initially. Anything unknown we have to deal with causes stress.

BEST APPROACH

• Analyse the situation
• Assess the need for our purpose.

A positive focus means you recognize the benefits of opportunities around you and use them to your advantage.

Changing the internal system:

Set up filters within yourself to cut down the impact of external stressors. To deal with stress this is very vital. For example, “ I hated noodles two years ago. No I love them.” It is how we decide to reconcile our mind.

Source: Tribune Life+Style Gyan Zone Saturday 29th April, 2011.
Image Courtesy: Buzzle.com

SUCCESSGURU

FACTS NOT,

ATTITUDE DETERMINES ALTITUDE.

It does not matter what you are today. You can use your today to take a flight in the tomorrow. It is the attitude that determines the level of success in future. Partial success and happiness is better than expensive failure. First, be honest with yourself and identify your aptitude and passion. Then turn that passion into profession and you will never feel tired. You will not think of quitting. Your mind will automatically find out the ways and means to reach to the top of the success. Success is improving your own performance and not comparing your performance against others. Comparison is hell and it eats up your positive energy. Your self resolution to succeed is more important than anything else i.e. money, help, guidance etc.

FAULT FINDING

ATTITUDE

Roses

have thorns,

and

a silver fountain

has mud.