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POSITIVE FORCE लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं
POSITIVE FORCE लेबलों वाले संदेश दिखाए जा रहे हैं. सभी संदेश दिखाएं

शुक्रवार, 30 नवंबर 2012

Attitude

Attitude matter a lot in success

Positive attitude creates opportunities

Negative destroys the opportunities

that knock at your door step and

can switch you from failure to success.


Never never give up.

Never compare with others but compete with yourself to be better, better and better.

You can.

शुक्रवार, 2 मार्च 2012

BE YOUR OWN BOSS


Dear 


Be your own boss. You are very intelligent. I have judged.

Having more education and clearing IELTS/TOEFL and getting education abroad will change your whole life.

Just recondition your mind and priorities.

Power affirmations are:
  1. I am best. I am the maker of my life.
  2. I am the boss of my life.
  3. I can do every thing.
  4. I can learn anything and apply that learning to improve my and my family’s life and the life of human beings in the world.
  5. I work hard and smart.
  6. SUCCESS IS MINE. NOBODY CAN STOP ME.
  7. I will not tell anyone till I achieve my success i.e. clear IELTS/TOEFL AND JOIN COLLEGE IN USA.
  8. There is nothing between me and my success except my efforts i.e. preparation.
Efforts 99% Success 100% = Result fail
Efforts 101% Success 100%= Result Pass

  1. For my success only I am responsible. It is my life.
  2. Nobody is responsible for my behaviour, work or results in life.

Repeat these affirmations yourself MENTALLY and don’t tell others. You will see the change in your personality and real life. Every body will be proud of you.

Tell and do nothing- all criticize. Keep secret and achieve what you want to achieve – all will be surprised and trust you.

With love,

Uncle



बुधवार, 11 जनवरी 2012

HOW TO WIN 8


ALWAYS DREAM BIG

          All work skills become tedious and dreary. We need to upgrade and update them.

Pessimistic people say  that motivation ever lasts or  ever works. However, the truth is instead of sitting idle, it is best to keep doing something than to, merely condemn it that it does not work. Why not, such individuals try to find something to work. After we have worn clean clothes, they get dirty, after some use, and then sent for either dry-cleaning or washing.

Can we say that washing does not help? It only means that certain tasks have to be, done repeatedly. After you have taken a bath today, it does not mean, that it would hold good for the next one-month or one year.
You have to do it repeatedly; the same is true of motivation. Motivation feelings is discovered instantaneously.
There are certain people who are always sluggard. I had a young man, as my Private Secretary, otherwise fit and fashionable, who always find excuse not to work and tell me that he had finished all the work. It appears that he had tried his hand at a number of jobs, but nobody after trying him for a few days wanted him.
It is a tragic thing, that instead of focusing on doing the best now, some people look for the illusory future. Such people put off living, in the expectation of reaching a magical rose garden, instead of enjoying the blooming roses which are with in their reach now itself. Newton propounded a law that “Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.” In other words, every action or cause will produce an effect. Both are absolute and undeviating in every circumstance, and under every condition. Our thoughts govern our life and all of our behaviour stems, from the thoughts that preceded them.
So if you want to change your behaviour, then change your thoughts. We cannot change anything in our life without first altering the igniting cause. Any cause begins with our thoughts.

The idea of having to change, makes some people excruciating and distressed. So such people remain, where they are. The choice to change and improve lies with each individual. Though we do not know, what future holds for us, but one thing is certain, that it will not be the same as the present.
Always, dream big, though you may not realize all your dreams. It is a greater misfortune and a catastrophe not to have expectation. Dwight D.Eisenhower rightly said, “There is no victory at bargain basement prices.”

 Source:
Turn Your Creative Spark into a Flame by Joginder Singh, Former
Director, Central Bureau of Intelligence(CBI), Govt. of India, www.dpb.in

How to Be A Winner4


   Using Time Well and to a Purpose is a Continuous Battle
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                    When it comes to unkind criticism, put-downs, sabotage, and unfriendly competition the best strategy is to achieve, what others feel, that you cannot do. We all react, differently to criticism, sabotage and putdowns. Discover, as to how you are tackling the same and use the excellent technique, you can devise to deal with them. For working smarter, we need  to simplify, the way we operate and how we use our work style, to our best advantage.
             Apart from the To Do List, which most successful people use, you might specify the tasks you would prefer to do in the morning, in the afternoon and in the evening. Of course, you are free to change it, in case the need arises. For instances, there are certain fixed hours of Banks, if you need to go there, to sort out your personal matters. Shops do not open very early in the morning. So shopping necessarily has to be done in the later morning or evening hours.
             Instead of running errands for the whole day, you might consider attending to all matters, when going in one direction, if they are geographically suitable, and convenient. Last week, while going to my dentist, for an appointment, I combined with a visit to the Bank, meeting my sister, who was hospitalized and doing some shopping. This was apart from returning the phone calls, which had remained unattended and unanswered, as well as catching up on the reading, when the driver was driving me around. I find that I am at my best early in the morning and so I attend to my highest priority work, which includes writing early in the morning or late in the night, when there are no interruptions. It is to have some schedule, so that you can fit all the activities, in accordance with the importance you want to give them.
             During my prime time, I avoid meeting visitors as some of th wem linger on, long after the work, they came, is over. Most people would like to telephone or meet you, when it is appropriate and suitable for them.  I return their approach, by giving a time, which is most suitable to me. Evidently, it makes some people unhappy, that I do not receive them whenever they want to drop in.  But I have to stuck to my guns and if  some people want to meet me to discuss a few things, then they have to adjust to my timings.
            Another thing, which you should be doing, is to have at spick and span atmosphere, environment and your working place. It is clearly a constant battle as we have a tendency to leave the things, on the nearest open space available. For instance, at the time of writing this piece, I notice, my digital diary, remote control of the TV, speakers for my IPOD, my shirt, my To Do List Diary, lying on my bed and an empty cup of tea on the side table of my chair. I do not attend to all these items, in putting their proper and right places in one go. When I get up, I pick up a few things and put them in their respective home. Incidentally, before finishing this piece, I got up to go to the bathroom attached to my study. It took me less than a minute to put all things in their correct places. Everything must have a home and it had better be there, to make it easy to retrieve it , for future use.
           As a routine, I de-clutter at least four to five times a day, to prevent my study, my work place, my computer, from being a graveyard of miscellaneous items. If do not do the same, we get overwhelmed and inundated by them. A clean place is attractive to work. But it requires a lot of small effort to do so. However, I assure you, that it is worth it.




Source:
Turn Your Creative Spark into a Flame by Joginder Singh, Former
Director, Central  Bureau of Intelligence(CBI), Govt. of India. www.dpb.in
 

How To Be A Winner 3


Re-position Yourself  for
Better Times

God has given every human being a power to discriminate,  between  the best and worst, between excellent and terrible deeds and to know in advance, what will be in his best or worst interest. In spite of that, there are very few people who are willing to cash on that ability and change, for the positive and discard bad practices and tendencies that dent and harm you now as well as in the future. Disappointments and heartaches are a normal part of human existence. Only the hardships harden and sharpen us. For growth in life, you have to endure the winter of frustration, exactly like a seed and the sapling, which has to pass through many freezing winters, before it can blossom. In fact, there is no living e to be man in the world, however successful he may be, who has not faced some despair or gloom in his life.
The beauty of life, is that no failure and disappointment is permanent and it lies within our power to transform ourselves. A poet rightly says that, “Hope springs eternally in human heart.” In other words, whatever may be the position, there is always a room for hope and growth. After a fall, we can get up and begin again. But this message has to come from within us, and not from outside.

When difficulties smoother us and we feel that all is almost, then it is time to auto suggest to yourself, that past is finished and you can begin again. You have  to be, focused in whatever you do, as focus and the driving force and energy are interlinked. Our values and belief mould and shape our actions. Whatever be the position, you must never allow yourself to be, subjected to the negativity. Peter Drucker said, “ The best way to predict the future is to create it.” The best way to create your future is to meet it head-on. If you are not making the desired progress, it may not always be due to lack of efforts on your part. May be you are working hard, but not on the activities that should absorb all your attention. As there a constant change all around, we have to learn to adjust to it. Do not hesitate to have uncommon dreams. Remember that any special and singular ambition will require prudent, judicious and a sensible use of your time.

We all are supported and given confidence by other here we as, in our aspirations. Otherwise, we would not be where we are now, after a long journey in life. You should get up every morning with the resolve, that you would go to bed with a clear conscience whatever you wanted to achieve. Do not be one of those people, who hide behind the excuses, that I have nothing to achieve in my life or I have no excuse. As long as you are alive, and kicking, keep on striving to perform better and better. Do not be one of those crushed, who have lost the will. No harm comes to anybody for dreaming substantially and extensively. Pretexts, justifications and explanations are the gear and tools of the inept and hopeless. The reality is that such people have authorized and approved their fright and dread to paralyze their dreams and objectives. Do not hide behind the bogus security blankets of life. Go out and conquer the world.

Source:
Turn Your Creative Spark into a Flame by Joginder Singh, Former
Director, Central  Bureau of Intelligence(CBI), Govt. of India. www.dpb.in .

बुधवार, 25 नवंबर 2009

FRUSTRATION- A POSITIVE FORCE




Everyone experiences one kind of frustration or another everyday. Whenever we are crushed under it, it becomes a chronic type of negative feeling. But when we derive some stimulation from it, it helps us solve a problem, not to yield to it. So, frustration can be turned into a positive force.

We have a servo-mechanism within us which can create ideas and find solutions to problems transforming us into creative artists. Instead, too many of us jam our creative mechanism with worry, anxiety and fear. This jamming of the creative servo-mechanism doesn’t serve us at all. It inhibits us from our goals, putting a road-block of negation in front of us, creating frustration.

The road blocks of frustration are: We worry not only before making decision but after we carry this in our minds all day. The cure? Express anxiety before, but not after making a decision. Once we choose a road to take, we must stop worrying and call upon the confidence of past successes to guide us in the present.

We must stop the worry and feel about yesterday, today and tomorrow. Think of only TODAY. Treat everyday as complete lifetime. Do your best, respond to the present. Try, Try, Try, - now, now.

Don’t clutter your day. Do one thing at a time. It frees you from the burden of hurry and failure.

Relax well. Put aside everything. A good night’s rest brings a beautiful and hopeful day back. Don’t wrestle with your problems twenty-four hours. So relaxation helps you overcome frustration. Don’t think of it. Work for it. Do it – Now. Remember these words of Plato- “Nothing in the affairs of men is worth worrying about.”

(Source: Wisdom November 2009)

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