EGO vs. Respect

EGO IS FOR ROLE


RESPECT IS FOR SOUL

Ego

Body – Mind – Soul or being.

ATTITUDE AND EGO

Body bears pain

Mind suffers owing to thought of pain borne by body

Soul is beyond body

Mind speaks, hears, loves, hates, argues, plans, reacts, makes strategies, suffers. 

Ego resides in mind.

Pain is inevitable but suffering is optional 

says: 

Sri Sri Ravi Shankar – the founder of Art of Living.

He further says: 

Guilt does not allow a person to live happily.

Attitude, listening and observing are the part of soul 

i.e. being.

Pure thinking for the welfare of living things 

and creating an environment in which the planet earth

may survive for the coming generations is part of Being.

Deepawali Mubarak

12.11.2012

myry ipAwry muhlw~ (swry sNswr dy) invwisa,

Success belongs to those who have faith in

Waheguru,

Almighty Allah,

Bhagwan, God, Lord Christ

are Loyal to God,

Love Honesty and promote Humanity,

Respect Hard Working,

Reject Hypocrisy,

Back Biting and Ego,

Always Act Judiciously

and

take Decision Solemnly.

I alongwith my family wish you and your family a Happy Dipawali.

May Waheguru,  

Almighty Allah, Bhagwan, God, Lord Christ Protect us

 from

Evil Deeds

and

keep us on right path of humanity and bring Thunder Storm, Typhoon of his Love and Blessing in all spheres of Life.

Love and help thy neighbour and you will sit on the side of God.

Prof P.K.Keshap

Ludhiana-141 012.

idvwlI idAwN swirAwN nUN biVAwM biVAwM mubwrkwN

Deepawali Mubarak

12.11.2012

myry ipAwry muhlw~ (swry sNswr dy) invwisa,

Success belongs to those who have faith in

Waheguru,

Almighty Allah,

Bhagwan, God, Lord Christ

are Loyal to God,

Love Honesty and promote Humanity,

Respect Hard Working,

Reject Hypocrisy,

Back Biting and Ego,

Always Act Judiciously

and

take Decision Solemnly.

I alongwith my family wish you and your family a Happy Dipawali.

May Waheguru,  

Almighty Allah, Bhagwan, God, Lord Christ Protect us

 from

Evil Deeds

and

keep us on right path of humanity and bring Thunder Storm, Typhoon of his Love and Blessing in all spheres of Life.

Love and help thy neighbour and you will sit on the side of God.

Prof P.K.Keshap

Ludhiana-141 012.

idvwlI idAwN swirAwN nUN biVAwM biVAwM mubwrkwN

NARROW MINDEDNESS

“Narrow mindedness should be overcome to make

One’s life worth living”

Purification of mind means nothing

but annihilation of the

ego centric idea and removal of selfishness from mind.

The more the mind expands,

the more are the egocentric ideas annihilated.”

P

LOVE

Hatred paralyses life, love releases it.

Hatred confuses life, love harmonises it.

Hatred darkens life, love illuminates it.

If the ego rises, all else will also rise,

If it subsides, all else will also subside.

GODMAN

If an 'O' of Ego is removed from Goodman, it will become a Godman. Ego is fed right from childhood when a small child is appreciated if it wins a game or race or gets more marks in the class. Not only this, even the words, "My child is smarter than that of yours. My child is more handsome or beautiful than that of yours. My child is healthier than that of yours." All these kind of remarks from parents, grandparents and others fan the ego of the child.

When the child grows and goes to school, these remarks take another shape. "My child has scored more marks than that of yours. This child has topped the class by scoring high marks."

This kind of comparison builds the psychological foundation of the child to be better in the society. The child also learns how to feel different from others in the society? This may be called the child is learning "how to discriminate." Blood and flesh is same but there are so many other traits on the basis of which a child learns to differentiate with others in the society. White skin is better than black, my culture and country is better than that of yours, I am stronger than you, I am more intelligent than others are some of the mental developments. This attitude builds ego which in turn teaches the human beings to disdain others one count or the other.

The child less learns about himself which the mother Nature has given to him. It more learns about the artificial living. That's how to accumulate more wealth in this world, how to keep the knowledge upto himself and exploit others. Vanity prevails upon the child and it leads to distancing itself from the real happiness.

Real happiness is not in accumulation of wealth but its use for our brothers and sisters in this world. Real happiness comes from retaining and nourishing relationships howsoever small or insignificant they appear in terms of money and wealth. Real happiness comes from enjoying a good health which comes from treating others alike and sharing their woes and worries. No body cares how much you know until he knows how much you care.

It is the caring of the needy that brings the real happiness. So, stop fanning ego and enjoy real happiness. Shedding ego, we become 90% lighter mentally and start enjoying the journey of our life. Enjoy the light of the lamp without any regard to the lamp. Lamp can be made of clay, mud, silver, gold or diamond but light is same. It does not change. Be BIG and shed ego.

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GOLDEN NUGGETS

1. The most selfish one letter word “I” “Avoid It.”
2. The most satisfying two letter word “WE”

“ AlwaysUse it ”
3. The most poisonous three letter word “Ego”

“ Kill it.”
4. The most used soothing four letter word “Love” “Value it.”
5. The most pleasing five letter word “smile”. “Keep it ”
6. The fast spreading six letter word “rumour.” “Ignore it.”
7. The hardest working seven letter word “Success” “Achieve it.”
8. The most enviable eight letter word “Jealousy”

“ Distance from it.”
9. The most powerful nine letter word “Knowledge” “ Acquire it.”
10.The most essential ten letter word “confidence”. “Trust it.”

WISH YOU -

THE READER -

A VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR 2010

HAPPINESS CANnot BE BOUGHT OR BORROWED.

IT IS BLESSING OF THE WISE THINKING.

LIFE FOR THOSE WHO THINK IS a comedy.

LIFE FOR THOSE WHO FEEL IS a tragedy.

choice lies with you.

TO REMAIN PERMANENTLY HAPPY IS AN ATTITUDE.

DEVELOP THIS ANCIENT WISDOM.

ONLY YOU CAN DO IT.

NONE ELSE HOWSOEVER CLOSE HE IS.

FIND OUT THE TROUBLES AND TROUBLE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU UNHAPPY.

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EGO

Egotism should be shed BY everybody

because otherwise one cannot get enlightenment.

“The sun can give heat and light

to the whole world

but it cannot do so

when the clouds shut out his rays.

Similarly, as long as

egotism veils the heart,

God cannot shine upon it.”