Personality Development
Skills
SLM-1 (Mind Power SPOKEN
ENGLISH Institute)
Hello student,
Here below are the skills
that can enhance your personality for better living.
- There is one difference that makes you different
from others and successful in life. The difference is gut feelings,
enthusiasm and self-motivation. Have you seen your puppy running with extra ordinary energy when it sees the ball i.e. the goal it
loves? This kind of gut feelings, enthusiasm and self-motivation leads anyone
to achieve anything in life.
- For achieving what is at #1 we need to modify
our behaviour. Thoughts pop up in mind – positive and negative.
Thoughts are like air entering our houses. Storm that is also air brings
along with dust too. Same is with negative thinking. It destroys our
dreams. Keep in mind always – positive thoughts. Don’t waste your mental
energy on thinking “why is this difficult or impossible.” Just dare and
think “how can it done” and do.
- Know your rights. You have the right to make mistakes
and not feel guilty. Feeling guilty for mistakes is one of the
biggest stress creating agents. There is none in the world who has not
committed mistakes. Wise don’t feel guilty and mend the mistake next time.
Mistakes are part of your learning process.
3.1 You have right to say “No” to unwanted
demands from others – be it your own kith and kin. Yes learn to say “No” politely, tactfully and
without hurting others’ feelings. Say it graciously.
3.2 You have the right to make and follow
your own priorities.
3.3 You have the right to love yourself.
Never compare. Accept yourself in absolute totality. Celebrate yourself saying
yourself “YES, I have done it. I can do it. God has made me unique. There is
none in the world like me. I will design my life and I will live life of my
dreams.”
3.4 You have the right to dream and follow
those dreams.
3.5 You have the right to take
responsibility of your life. You are a member of the team yet different from
the team.
- Law of success: Love yourself. Accept yourself in
absolute totality and never compare. Comparison is hell. Winners beat
their own records. Losers compare with others. Think positively. Positive
thoughts create health and opportunities, negative thoughts destroy health
and opportunities.
- Learn to handle anger: Anger is a disabling
emotion. Anger increases pulse rate, rises blood pressure. It burns
the vessel (who indulges in anger) more than the vessel (who faces anger)
upon which it is poured. It is like acid. Whenever you feel that the
situation will provoke you to be angry (1) Drink 2 glasses of water (2)
Closing eyes do deep breathing (3) Just keeping mouth shut count up to 20.
These are some of the ways suggested by world renowned psychologists.
Anger destroys internal immunity, decreases patience which is very
essential for becoming GREAT from good. In anger, the root of the problem
is clouded. Save yourself. Say less, observe more is GOLDEN rule to find
the root of the problem. Instead of unexpectedly exploding on some person
or situation, let your brain question the root of the problem. YOU CAN DO
IT.
- Think positively to live happily. Send positive
messages to your mind and heart. Count your blessings and feel the
gratitude. Whenever in doubt for happiness, think about the people who
don’t have what you have and enjoy. Deep breathing and meditation
(not medication) make a person her/his own cheerleader. Permanent
happiness does not come from mental possession and expectation, it comes
from feeling of self-fulfillment.
Knowledge is knowing the dots, wisdom is connecting those dots to achieve what you desire.
A BIG BILL BOARD
INSIDE THE TATA STEEL PLANT,
JAMESHEDPUR.
One who knows not
but knows not
that he knows not
is a fool,
leave him.
One who knows not
and he knows
that he knows not
is simple,
teach him.
One who knows
but he knows not
that he knows
is asleep,
awake him.
One who knows
and knows
that he knows is
wise,
follow him.
Philosophy guides the course of action and life.