Focusing

 What ever 

YOU

Focus 

Upon:

that 

Succeds

Florishes and 

Grows.

But ensure

It is

YOU.

जिस भी तरफ *तुम*

फोकस (ध्यान)

करोगे

उस में

सफलता मिलेगी

वढोतरी होगी

और 

वड़ते

जाओगे

*तुम* का ध्यान जरुरी है

फोकस विरोधी घटनाएं

   Every conflict has generally two sides 🙂

1 Outer=gives pain.

2 Inner =gives suffering

Example 1

On the road 🙂 a driver knocks a bike driver.

The driver is strong with visible muscels.

He gives a strong slap to the bike rider.

The bike rider starts the bike and goes silently but starts planning he will beat the driver of the car.

He joine a gym. Spends about Rs 6000 on getting gym training.

In 3 months, he is strong enough to fight with the 3 months old episode player I.e the car driver.

He went to the area where the condlict was arisen.

He enquired a lot and after 2 weeks intensive enquiries found the house 🏘️ of that car driver.

He enquired from his father about the driver but was sad to know that driver had joined a new job in a City 1000 miles away.

The bike driver was very sad 🤣 and upset.

He was thinking:

Rs 6000 wasted.

3 months of life wasted.

3 months mental suffering - day and night -was suffered unnecessarily.

Learning: 

External Pain of an event lasts for hours.

But Internal self generated suffering disturbs for days, months and years. 

Learn to leave and forget such small conflicts over petty issues that cause bitterness in relationship with papa, mummy, brother, sisters, neighbours and others that cause lot of internal suffering.

And live happily 😃.

Revive and repair your broken relationships.

झगड़े ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌का‌ 2 मिनट में हल। 

1

जीवन में ‌‌‌‌‌हम ‌  स्वयं ही दुःख ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌देते हैं।

कैसे?

एक दिन ‌‌‌‌‌एक‌ लड़का वाइक पर ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌जा रहा था।

 सामने से कार आई और वाइक से टकरा गई ‌  ।

कार में से एक तगड़ा सा ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌लड़का उतरा और वहस में कार ड्राइवर ने वाइक ड्राइवर को थप्पड़ ‌  जड़ दिया। 

2

अव थप्पड़ ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌की दर्द(पेन) तो आधे घंटे ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌में खत्म हो गई।

 परन्तु ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌उसने जो ‌इ सके वाद अपने ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌अंदर पकाना ‌‌‌‌‌शुरु किया उसकी ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌दरद( सफरिंग) कइ  महीने तक रहा।

कैसे?

उसने सोचना शुरू किया:

मुझे क्यों ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌मारा?

क्योंकि मैं ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌उससे कमजोर ‌‌‌‌था.

मैं ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌उससे जोरावर हो कर वदला लूंगा। 

3

उस वाइक ड्राइवर ने जिम ज्वाइन किया। 6000रु फीस दी। 

3 महीने ट्रेंनिग ली। 

काफी स्ट्रॉन्ग मसल वना लिए।

4

अब चला कार ड्राइवर ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌को ढूंढने। 

2 हफ्ते वाइक का पैट्रोल जलाया। 

तब जा कर घर मिला। 

5

दरवाजा ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌खटखटाया।

कार ड्राइवर ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌के पिता वाहर निकले।

पिताजी ‌ ने वताया कि

 कार ड्राइवर ‌‌ने एक महीना पहले 

किसी दूसरे शहर में ‌   नौकरी कर ली है

 जो जहां से 1000 मील दूर है।  

वड़ा दुख हुआ।

6

अव वाइक ड्राइवर सोच रहा था।

जो काम आधे घंटे ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌मे खत्म हो गया ‌‌‌‌‌था उसे मैंने मानसिक तौर ‌प र 3 महीने जिंदा रखा। और

6000 रू खर्च किया।

3 महीने शरीर को ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌वेवजह तसीहे दिए।

अंत मिला कुछ नहीं।

ऐसी ही मुर्खतापूर्ण व्यवहार करके हम दुखी रहते हैं और अपने तरक्की के रास्ते ‌‌‌‌‌वंद करते रहते हैं।

अपने ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌माता पिता, भाई भाभी, बच्चो , वहनो, पड़ोसियों, दोस्तों से छोटी छोटी ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌वे वजह की वातों से मन की शांति और सौहार्द्र बिगाड़ने में  जीवन यापन करते ‌‌रहते हैं  ।

समय वीत जाएगा,

 वापिस नहीं आएगा।

आओ विगडे रिश्ते संवारे।

 हिम्मत करके सारी कह कर खुशी वड़ाऐं।

पेन ‌‌‌‌‌कोवाहरी स्तर पर ही समाप्त कर दें।

अंदरुनी वनने ही न दें।  

  

मंजिल

 एसी कोई मंजिल नहीं ‌‌‌‌‌

है 

जिसे ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌तक पहुचने कोई 

रास्ता न हो।

2

सोचो, लिख कर सोचें

रास्ता जरुर ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌

मिलेगा।

3

जब मिल जाए तो चलो।

लोगों की परवाह न करो।

4

करो, न ‌‌‌‌‌करो, लोग अपनी ‌

आदतन कुछ न कुछ ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌तो‌ वोलेगे ही।

5

कैसे?

मैं और ‌‌‌‌ मेरा  दोस्त ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌कार‌ में जा रहे थे।

पीछे ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌से एक कार   आई और छूं करके ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌निकल गई।

हमारी कार के दरवाजे ‌‌‌‌‌वंद, शीशे वंद। 

दोस्त ‌    वो ला  : ओलंपिक में गोल्ड मेडल की तैयारी कर रहे हो क्या?

अव ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌आगे‌ एक ‌‌‌‌‌कार बहुत ही धीरे धीरे ‌च ला रहा था।

अव दोस्त ‌‌‌‌‌ फिर वोला: वाप का पार्क समझा ‌‌‌‌  है ‌‌‌‌‌रोड को ?

सीख: 

लोग ‌‌‌‌  विना सोचे समझे वोलते ही रहते हैं,

 कमैट ‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌‌करते          रहते है ‌‌ह।््ते््््ते््ते््््त््ते््््ते््ते्््््ते््््ते््ते््््त््ते््््ते््ते््

आप अपने लक्ष्य पर फोकस ‌‌करे।

मंजिल जरूर मिलेगी।  

 

How To Win 7

Never be a Half Success

     All of us desire to be, known as aces in whatever we do. It is the fondest wish of every human being to be, considered as successful. Generally, success and happiness go together. Instead of inventing the wheel, why not take advantage of the already existing invention. Learn from the experience of successful people, which either many of them have penned down in their own autobiographies or available in the biographies written by other. When faced with a problem, ask yourself what a successful person would have done in similar circumstances and then make your decisions accordingly. If you can directly talk or associate with successful people, try to learn from them as to how they reached where they are.

           As a principle, avoid negative failed, unsuccessful people and gloomy and depressing people. They are devastators and not developers. If you want to succeed, you should direct, focus and concentrate your powers on your purpose and aim. A reason, for failure of most people in life is that they only meander through their life and are not able to decide what they want. The result is that such people never become masters of anything in particular.  Concentration or Focus means, converging totally on this business and directing yourself, to do precisely, what you want to do. Focus is imperative and crucial, to all success in all fields. The person who does not concentrate, will become, a half success, a mediocrity or complete failure. Despite traffic regulations, that you must not use mobile phones, while driving, a number of people do it, leading to fatal accidents. Obviously, they are not focusing on driving.

          Many people say that they are in no mood to work. Remember, that your moods are, primarily the end result, of what you focus on.

The secret and basis of all success is to focus attentively, on the one outcome we desire. Focused mind, aptitude and competence, is one of the strongest forces of the world. A sharp in focus picture of our  head can bring about miracles. Concentration is the basis of all ability and clout. Doctors, who perform complicated operation on heart or eye, for correcting any body default, are able to do so, only through the power of focus.

         Focus, it is nothing but matter of managing our thoughts, through concentration. It is fastening or gluing, your concentration on a given issue or a subject matter, at will, regardless length of time, you choose. This is the secret corridor to power and prosperity.

        Winners and Champions whether in science or humanity or sports, or studies, develop this to a remarkable degree. We need to be learning to focus all the timeabout wonders , whether during the training or during actual performance.

       Our life is governed and directed by our thoughts. Thoughts symbolize energy and verve. Our habitual thoughts, whether conscious or unconscious, whether factually and plainly, bring into being our existence. Our thoughts attract similar people, events and circumstances to our life and our inclinations. By becoming skilled to deliberately and by design, to guide our thoughts, in a specific direction, we can replace any bad habit with a good one. This approach can bring  about wonders and marvel in our life. Keep in view, that the quality of a person’s life, depends upon his commitment to excellence, regardless of his chosen field of endeavour. Concentrate all your efforts, on one definite chief aim and you will attain it. We should be committed to concentrate. Whthat erever we are, we should be there and when we work, we should work and when we play, we shou8ld be playing. v

Source:

Turn Your Creative Spark into a Flame by Joginder Singh, Former

Director, Central Bureau of Intelligence(CBI), Govt. of India, www.dpb.in

 

True Success

On Sun, Jan 1, 2012 at 10:00 PM, Dr. Robert Anthony wrote:

Hi Prof,

I wanted to take a moment to say Happy New Year to you and yours...

Are ready for a great New Year?

To help you get off to a running start I would like you to consider changing your perception of WHAT SUCCESS MEANS TO YOU!

As I mature and have a better understanding of how things work, I have come to understand that HOW WE MEASURE SUCCESS will determine our happiness, or lack of it.

We tend MEASURE SUCCESS in relation to achieving our goals. In other words, we set a goal and if we achieve it, we are happy and satisfied. If we don't, we feel like a failure. This creates anxiety, fear and sometimes even depression.

You will never be happy or satisfied if you keep focusing on what you DON'T HAVE, or what you have NOT ACHIEVED.

Instead, consider this; The way to MEASURE SUCCESS, and still be happy and satisfied, is to look at WHERE YOU HAVE COME FROM.

In other words, LOOK BACK and notice how you have IMPROVED in any area of your life - even if it is a VERY SMALL improvement.

If you LOOK BACK and celebrate your INCREMENTAL IMPROVEMENTS, the next steps become so much easier, because you are happy and satisfied right now.

So, if you did not achieve everything you wanted in 2011, when you finish reading this take a look at the INCREMENTAL IMPROVEMENTS you have made and give yourself a pat on the back. Make a short list and then give yourself some credit instead of focusing on what went wrong or did not happen. Seriously. I mean it. MAKE THAT LIST. I'm watching you!

Start the New Year with the feeling that you have already started to make some incremental improvements in 2011, and you are ready for more. NEVER, I repeat NEVER, judge yourself. Other people will be happy to do that for you. Give yourself credit for what you have accomplished - no matter how small those accomplishments may seem.

This will get you off to great start in 2012 because you will START OFF with a sense of ACCOMPLISHMENT instead of a sense of failure - which is never useful. If you build on your incremental accomplishments you can do EVEN BETTER in 2012.

Before I sign off I want to point out the quote below my name. It says...

"Any dream that can pass through one's screen of logic into the Subconscious
and is earnestly desired, can be obtained".
- Dr. Robert Anthony

This is so true, and I want to keep pointing it out.

Once you give up all the "logical reasons" why something cannot work for you and allow your new dream or goal to enter your Subconscious, it's an idea whose time has come. If you truly desire it and your Subconscious agrees to it - it's yours!

Cheers for a great New Year,

Dr. Robert Anthony

"Any dream that can pass through one's screen of logic into the subconscious
and is earnestly desired, can be obtained".
- Dr. Robert Anthony

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FOCUS

Undivided attention on one thing

at a time which one does is

the surest way to success.

“I take up one thing in order after another,

I try to fix my whole thoughts upon the one thing that lies before me,

as if I had nothing else to attend to. In this way,

I get on very well as what is done systematically.”