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सोमवार, 8 जनवरी 2024

Work and home 🏠 balance.

 A good interaction with a CA.


Yesterday, I met one of my old friend's son .


He is Chartered accountant.


He gave me a great learning. 


To have separate work place (office) and home.


2

He shared:


Uncle I was fed up from my family members, and friends who aren't as educated as I am.


3

I had office at home for about 4 years after my getting CA certificate of Practice. 


To save office expenses and devote more time to office, I started my practice at home.


BUT this caused lots of stress.


4

I was stressed. 


Because all family elders, my parents, my wife, brother's kids, brother interfered a lot in my work.


 My professional work responsibility demanded more focus, more conentration and my family did not understand. 


I felt.



Entire day, all family members remained in preparing tea and serving to clients.


 No privacy at all.

 This destroyed family's peace ✌️ of mind.


I felt 

"I earn, family must follow me." Wrong.


Father felt: 


I am head of family. Family must obey whereas owing to old age, he was unable and capable to do so.


Brother felt:


 Younger brother( me) must obey though he was matriculate.


Wife felt: 


I am wife.


 In All financial and family matters, ALL should follow.


 She was highly emotional and less rational as she was just graduate domestic woman. 


Always wanted to win and not listen 👂 to others.More stubborn and static attention 


 No experience of एजुकेटेड educated world. Every day, world is changing.



Later I realized that it's not family that's wrong.



 It's me who is wrong.


 Because I am CA, not family. 


I operate from home. 


I must have separate OFFICE.



5

Last year, I shifted my office to this isolated place after great hitches and hackles.


And have realized:


* More spare time for thinking


* My own brand is boosted.



* Productivity boosted. 


* Clients increased 3 x.


* Finances improved.


* Mental health improved.


* More planning, more freedom.


* Full office work, full family time.


* More transaction, more transparency.


* Less tension, more clarity as I write ✍️ diary for daily routines and planning for next 2 years.



Lesson learnt.

 Work from office

 away from home

boosts self productivity.