Mom and Dad

Mom and Dad

 

Parents are visible God

God is invisible parents.

 

When I came in this world;

Young, helpless to defend myself.

 

My mom, grand mom and elders

Helped me to grow
Always taught me respect elders,
Respect Almighty with a bow.

 

Dad earned, I learned and yearned

Mom with daily chores, 
cooking  food, washing clothes  felt deadly burned.

 

But I never felt the heat of their will 

They always crushed their sweet wishes to fulfill,
But always care to save me from worldly ills.

 

Sent me to school,

Whereas they never saw the temple of learning.
Sacrified their youth for me and for my earning 

 

My mom, my aunt, my grand ma are my first teacher,

Dad taught to be honest , upright and creator 

 

As my knowledge through education and learning

Went on increasing 

I with my behaviour and words with them 
went on decreasing 

 

 

Never thought my MBA is their favour

That in my life added all the flavour 

My mom and dad are very dear to me
Every day and night I yearn to see  

 

When my children came into the world,

And they treated as I treated my mom and dad.

 

I felt the unexpressed anguish and  pain
I analysed, in life , 
what I lost,what I gain 

Then I realized my mom and dad’s pain.

Tears welled up my cheeks like a rain.

 

I wrote a letter to my pa

I am your son and will mend the behaviour and words
That I could not tolerate from my own wards.

 

Pa and Ma though old and frail

Wished me “ Be happy and be blessed.
We will pray to Almighty 

New heights in life,  you should scale.”

                         - by P.K.Keshap

 

तुम कहती हो कि मैं दुनिया छोड दूँ तेरे लिए 
क्या करूँ एक और है जो मेरे बिना खाना नहीं खाती ।  हर रात मेरी राह  देखती है।
बह है मेरी माँ  उसका पलु थाम कर मुझे दुनिया से  डर नहीं लगता है।  तुम भी चाहिए बह भी।  है तुम हिम बताओ में करूँ।  सोचो तुम मेरे जगह हो तो क्या करती।  सही सलाह के लिए इंतज़ार है। 

LOVE

To my friend,we might not see things eye to eye.
But lets not have time pass us by.
There's so much we share
please be aware of
the love.

To my friend,
Too much wasted time
like a thief can rob you blind.
Leave the past behind,
and you will find
the love.
 
To my friend,
I'm sorry if I did something wrong.
I wrote it here in this song.
Now everyone will agree.
and I'm sure they all will see
the love.

To my friend,
life is too short to go on
avenging some sort of a wrong.
Let us repair
what we had already there
the love.

                      - By Sandra Wylie

 

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF BABY

Just believe in yourself, baby.
You wonder who you are.
I see you as a rising star.

Maybe I'm a dreamer
but I know this much is true
just believe in yourself
and you'll come shining through.

What does it matter what people think?
Look at all the disbelievers.

It's sad to say,
but they'll never find their way.

They don't know wrong from right.
Insecurity leads them to spite.

And who are they really hurting?

Only themselves; it's true.
But if you believe in yourself
then you'll come shining through.
 
Just believe in yourself, baby.
You wonder who you are.
I see you as a rising star.
Maybe I'm a dreamer
but I know this much is true

Just believe in yourself
and you'll come shining through.
                     - Sandra Wylie

IT'S NEVER TOO LATE

For Jim with love........

Through all your bad breaks
and heartaches
only on yourself were you relying.

Now the years are spent.
Who knows where they went.
Your losses leave you crying.

It's never too late.
I'll wait.

Don't give up trying.
I'll be there for you;
I'll support what you do.
Don't give up trying.

You never realized all your dreams
and now it seems

That those dreams are dying.
Don't be afraid to wake them up!
You can make them up
with just a little more applying.

It's never too late.
I'll wait.

Don't give up trying.
I'll be there for you;I'll support what you do.
Don't give up trying.

What's this you're too old?
So I've been told.
What are you implying?
You can start over again
any time when
you stop denying.

It's never too late.
I'll wait.

Don't give up trying.
I'll be there for you;
I'll support what you do.
Don't give up trying.
                  - Sandra Wylie USA

OF FAITH, NOT A WHIM

I am not afraid this time
of taking chances.
Like the mighty oak tree
I extend to you my branches.

And you are not afraid
of going out on a limb.
You climb up these branches,
on faith, not a whim.

We have risen to the heavens
in answer to this calling,
and clung to our beliefs.
Neither one of us is falling!

So build us a nest,
and settle us right in.
We won't be bowled over
by any north wind.

We built this on faith
and not on a whim!

                        by Sandra Wyllie

SELF-FAITH

A bird was sitting on a weak branch of tree, told the grandpa to his grand-daughter. It did not fear despite knowing that the weak branch of the tree will break. Tell me why?

The young grand put the finger into mouth, raised the eyes and childishly replied : The bird knew the branch will not break with its weight.

Grandpa laughed. No my little soul, the bird believed in its wings and always felt : my wings are stronger and I will fly when this WEAK branch will break.

Grand daughter looked in awe with wide spread eyes.

Grandpa further advised: Little young lovely child : Believe in your wings and no weak branch any tree can make you fear.

The young little soul nodded in affirmative. YES, YES, YES, I will build stronger wings through learning and education grandpa.

                                                   - by Prof P.K.Keshap

THE STAIN

You grew up as a stain,
a blotch that spread
and couldn't self-contain.

Whereas purity lies
in the heart,
yours was broken
from the start.

Dirtied and laundered,
still soiled
in fearful disdain
you recoiled.

Loves wounds
unseen
can never be
washed away clean!

You've lived life
trying so hard to scour
when deep inside
you have not of the power.

And doesn't it bring
you such pain
To always be wearing
THE STAIN

                  - by Sandra Wyllie

 

INNER CHILD

"Inner Child"

Please release him;
let him show.
He's hiding behind
the wall of shame
he's come to know.

Don't deny him
his pain
he's carried with him
all these years.
It still remains.

Hold him in your arms.
To him be true.
After all
he's growing up
inside of you.

Show him compassion
Give him praise.
Maybe he'll succumb
with these
gentler ways.

So he's unruly,
and he's a bit wild.
But to love yourself
you must first love him,
your inner child.

                     - Sandra Wyllie

 

THESE THINGS

We can't erase these things
that have been done.
Long before we started
when it had begun.


We bring these things with us
wherever we go.
They're so much apart of us;
we keep them well in tow.

These things from the past
hurt more even now.
We don't know when it's happening
or for that matter even how.

But we are affected
by what we grew up in.
We've been disrespected.
We grew up in sin.

I'm trying to undo
the damage these things have done.
If we don't get help with this,
then these things have won!

We both have come so far
from what we were back when.
These things can't change
who we are.
Let us stand up to them, then!

                           - Sandra Wyllie

 

DON'T MAKE IT OWN YOU

If you hold onto the hurt you suffer inside the pain you keep shall never subside. You're forsaking a heart that's been breaking. You lived your life in sterile control. How does that not damage one's soul? You're aching from a heart that's been breaking. You need to release all of the pain. By holding on, you've nothing to gain. Don't make it own you. Don't suffer alone too. It's hard when the damage is done to go back to where it begun.                             - Sandra Wyllie I'm waking a heart that's been breaking. It's going to be hell that I pay. But I won't let you push me away. I'm taking a heart that's been breaking. You need to release all of the pain. By holding on, you've nothing to gain. Don't make it own you. Don't suffer alone too.

IT DIDN'T START WITH ME

It didn't start with me.
It happened long ago.
Why couldn't we see?
We just never let it go.

We can't go on
clinging to our past.
It's all over now.
It didn't last.

Give me one more chance
to make things right.
A lesson learned
prevents another fight.

It didn't start with me.
But I guess I took it on.
I couldn't free
the demons that held strong.

We can't go on
clinging to our past.
It's all over now.
It didn't last.
Give me one more chance
to make things right.
A lesson learned
prevents another fight.

It didn't start with me.
But I share the same shame.
We both agree
neither one of us is to blame.

We can't go on
clinging to our past.
It's all over now.
It didn't last.
Give me one more chance
to make things right.
A lesson learned
prevents another fight.

                  by Sandra Wyllie

 

LET IT HAPPEN TO YOU

Let lips part
to wear a smile.
Not be fraught in words
that run a mile.

Let eyes open wide
in pure delight.
Don't see the view
with narrow sight.

Let arms succumb
for an embrace.
Why stay stationary
in one place?

Let your mind drift
inside of a dream,
instead of being orderly
in the same regime.

Let your heart float
totally unaware,
instead of holding onto it
so afraid that it shall tear.

Let it happen to you
this mystery of life.
Don't allow it to be common!
It's far more than rife.
                       - by Sandra Wyllie

 

A HEART IN FULL BLOOM

Some people are so sadly mistaken. They don't see a heart that is breaking as one that's alive, one fully waken!   There is nothing alive in a heart that is closed; Life only exists in one completely exposed. And even in sorrow and even in pain a hearts capacity to love shall never thee wane. For a broken heart has even more room, It's petals are spread; it's a rose in full bloom!   You see that's what makes a heart real. It has weeped, it has bled; it has learned how to feel.                        - by Sandra Wyllie

I ALWAYS GET IN YOUR WAY

There must be some understanding. Where do I ever find the truth? Maybe you just see me as demanding. And maybe I only see you as uncouth. I don't always know how to please you. I don't always know what to say. It seems no matter what I do I always get in your way. It's hard to always know the right thing. The situation we gots a bit strange. I hope I'm not just a passing fling. I hope that soon something will change. I don't always know how to please you. I don't always know what to say. It seems no matter what I do I always get in your way. You never tell me that you love me. I never know just where I stand. It's so hard to live without the answers 'cause the questions get so out of hand. I don't always know how to please you. I don't always know what to say. It seems no matter what I do I always get in your way.                         by Sandra Wyllie

LOVE WEATHERS ALL STORMS!

Love weathers all storms.
It comes to you
in many forms.

Not always a warm
caressing, gentle breeze.
In fact it can be
an agonizing tease!

Awakens you like
rolling thunder in the night.
Props you up,
through blinded sight.

Torrid is the burning sun,
peeling away the layers
of your skin
as morning creeps in like a nun.

Exposing you like the bitter cold.
How it has you in its hold!

Tear streaming icicles
upon your face.
Frozen are you in its embrace.

Caught in the middle
of the eye.
It's a rage of destruction
as it passes by.

Whipping, whirling, upheaving,
bless be thou; it's never leaving!
But how I give a mighty hearty laugh,
because I so do love
to bask in its aftermath!

               by Sandra Wyllie


 

THE STAIN

You grew up as a stain, a blotch that spread and couldn't self-contain. Whereas purity lies in the heart, yours was broken from the start. Dirtied and laundered, still soiled in fearful disdain you recoiled.   Loves wounds unseen can never be washed away clean!   You've lived life trying so hard to scour when deep inside you have not of the power.   And doesn't it bring you such pain To always be wearing THE STAIN

           by Sandra Wyllie

Life

The best and worst thing of life.

 

The worst thing of my life

Someone’s eyes are filled with tears

owing to my behaviour , words or act;

 

The best thing of  my life

Someone’s eyes are filled with tears because

I am in trouble.

Self-Freedom

सम्पूर्ण स्वतंत्रता

क्या आप तनाब में रहते हैं? क्या आप अपने भविष्य के बारे में इतना सोचते हैं कि अपने बर्तमान का आनन्द भी नहीं ले पाते ? तनाब का सबसे बड़ा कारण जो हमारे पास है उसका आनंद न ले कर जो नहीं है उसके बारे में सोचते रहना व उन लोगो से तुलना करना जिनके पास है।  हमेशा याद रखें की खुश रहना एक सोच है धन दौलत और दुनियावी पदार्थो से मन की  शांति नहीं मिलती।  अकेले बैठ कर सोचें की जो विचार आ रहे हैं बह मन को शांत कर रहे हैं या अशांत कर रहे हैं। 

दुनिया में सबसे बड़ा दुःख का कारण राग और द्वैष है।  दुनिया बैसी जैसे हम ने मन में अपने ज्ञान और बुद्धि से  बनाई है।

क्या आप बार बार अपने भूतकाल यानि बीते हुए समय के बारे में सोचते हैं ? नकारत्मक या सकारत्मक।

सकारत्मक में पुरानी खूबसूरत यादेँ  जैसे आपकी उपल्बधियों की यादें या कहानिंयाँ , आपके रंगीन और हसीन तजुर्बे।  आपके साहसिक कारनामे  आदि।

नकारत्मक  में अपराध बोध (guilt )अहम (pride ) आक्रोष , क्रोध, पश्चात्ताप या आत्म दया आदि।

यदि आप ऐसा सोचते हैं तो आप केवल अपने झूठे भूतकाल को ही अपनी सोच में बार बार बैठा रहे हो बल्कि अपने बुढ़ापे को भी समय से पूर्व दस्तक दे रहे हो।

यदि इसको जाँचना चाहते हैं तो अपने इर्द गिर्द किसी को देखें जो इस तरह से भूतकाल में डूबा रहता है।

दुनिया खुश लोगों से मिलना पसंद करती है।  इसका प्रमाण T.V पर कॉमेडी सीरियल को देखें।  बहां देखने बालों की संख्या अधिक होती है।

कुछ लोग जो तनाब ग्रस्त रहते हैं उनका कारण एक और भी है।  वह हमेशा सोचते रहते हैं की बह लाइलाज वीमारी से ग्रस्त हैँ।  एक बार डॉक्टर से चेक उप करवा कर उसी प्रेस्क्रिशन पर कई कई साल दूकान बालों से बही पर्ची दिखा कर दवाई कहते रहते हैं।  जैसे पोदे को यदि अधिक पानी डाल दिया जाये तो पोदा सड़ जाता है कुछ इसी तरह से बिना डॉक्टर की सलाह से ली दवाई करती है।


क्या आप भूतकाल के बहुत से पल पल डर के मर रहे हैं?

आपको ऐसा करने की जरूरत नहीं है।  केवल उसी समय भूतकाल को सन्दर्व मे ले जब इसकी जरूरत है।

पल में जीने की शक्ति को बढ़ावा दीजिये।  भूतकाल या भबिष्य काल के बारे में न सोचें।  पल बर्बाद तो बभिष्य बरबाद खुशियाँ बरवाद।

बर्तमान के पल में अपनी सम्पूर्ण स्वतंत्रता का आनंद लें। 

क्या आप चिन्तित रहते हैं? हमेशा if what के विचार आते रहते हैँ ? अपने आप को इनसे ऊपर उभारे। आप कर सकते हैं यह संभव है मैंने किया हैं।  मैं अब खुश हूँ। . अब ऐसा लगता है जिअसे भूतकाल एक सपना था सब बीमारीआं सपना थी  10 -15 साल का एक समय ऐसा लगताथा जैसे अब जीवन समापत  हो गया है।  परन्तु अपने देव में  विश्वास के सहारे आज लगता है जैसे वह एक सपना था और अव अनंत जीवन खुशीआं ही खुशीआं हैं। में आशावादी हूँ।

आपकी पहचान आपके मन से है। जो भूतकाल या भविष्य की कल्पनाओं में खोया रहने में मग्न रहना पसन्द करता है।

आप इस तरह की सिथति से मुकाबला कभी नहीं कर सकते क्यूंकि यह यथार्थ तो है नहीं केवल कल्पना है अपने मन से बनाया हुआ भूत है।  तो इसका इलाज़ कहाँ होगा।  केवल आप ही खुद इसका इलाज़ कर सकते है।  आप का सकते हैं।  आप अपने विचारों के मालिक हैं।  नकारत्मक िचारों।  को सकारत्मक बना सकते है। All is well . सभ कुछ ठीक है  का 108 बार दोहराने से मन में शांति भरे सकूँ भरे विचार आने शुरू हो जाते हैं।  शरीर ठीक होना शुरू हो जाता हैं।  21 दिन में बहुत अन्तर आ जाता है।  कर के स्वय महसूस करें।  नकारत्मक लोगो से बात न करें।  केवल चुपचाप करें।


अपने साँसों के बारे में सतर्कता बरतें।  सांस शरीर को ऊर्जा देते हैं जैसे पेट्रोल स्कूटर , कार आदि को ऊर्जा देता है।  साँसों को धीता गहरा लें और ऑंखें बंद कर के शरीर में रहने दें केवल सांस पर ध्यान दें और महसूस करें की शरीर में सांस कहाँ कहाँ जा रहा है।  मुख से अन्दर शरीर के ले जाएँ आँखें बंद रखें 2 से 5 मिनट तक सांस शरीर में रखें फिर नाक की तरफ से छोड़ दें।  बहुत हल्का महसूस होगा।  कुछ दिन करने से आप महसूस करेंगे की आपका क्रोध करना और स्वाभिक चिड़चिडा पन  कम  हो गया है।







 

Congratulations

CONGRATULATIONS

                TO

Dr. TERRI HELLYAR

     brilliant daughter

of  Mr. & Mrs. Hellyar

on her starting  corporate

career.

Prof P.K.Keshap

 

Founding Member Education Consultants of India.

 

 

Dreams

सीढ़ियाँ तो उनके लिए है 
िजनेह छत  पर जाना है 

मेरी मंज़िल तो आसमान है 
मुझे रास्ता खुद बनाना है 

Stairs are for those whose  dream is to reach the roof ;
My goal is to reach the sky and I myself  have to craft the way to the sky .


Means small dreams have ready made ways to achieve
But for BIG DREAMS  you need to craft the way

 

Happiness

Quote of the Day

“Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.”

Robert Brault

“छोटी छोटी बातों में आनन्द खोजना चाहिए, क्योंकि एक दिन ऐसा आएगा जब आप पिछले जीवन के बारे में सोचेगें तो यह पाएंगे कि वह कितनी बड़ी बातें थीं।”
राबर्ट ब्राउल्ट

स्ट्रेस्ड हो तो कोई कॉमेडी सीरियल देखो डेस्ट्रेस्सेड हो जाओगे।  डेली सोप नहीं।