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शुक्रवार, 19 नवंबर 2010

ACTIVE LISTENING - YES, YOU CAN


Talk Low, Talk Slow and Do Not Say Too Much

Dear Friend,

You must have observed that the two words "LISTEN" and "SILENT" are made of the same six letters. This makes think of the powe of active listening. It means that active listening is a must for talking in the real sense.

You should never think that by merely talking to somebody you can make yourself understand. In fact, there is a big difference between talking and making yourself understood. They are alone best talkers who know the value of listening. If you analyse closely and carefullly, you will find that the best talkers use the value of listening as a tool to make their own arguments more compelling; as tool for making their audience more receptive. In other words, great communication is not about making yourself sound good; it is about making your message clear. Now, the question arises- How should you get the message across? The answer is very simple- use body language; be careful while using words and use them powerfully; remember that you have to act as a regulator to bring the talk to a logical conclusion, to convince the person who is talking to you.

As far as using body language is concerned, you have to learn how to communicate with your eyes. Besides, you have to be aware of meaning of non-verbal signals which include gestures too. If you have the ability to check physical clues for underlying emotions, your job becomes easier. If there are any barriers to communication, you have to work keenly to remove them. Next to using body language comes use of words in a powerful manner. A powerful use of words consists in choosing your words with care and it can be possible only when you avoid jargons.
Jargons always complicate the expression of ideas clear and by using simple language, you can avoid misundertstanding. Use your words in such a way that they can appeal to all the five senses. Your feelings should always be intense, because it is your feelings that reinforce your point.

You have to always bear in mind what you are talking for. Be very clear about the4 purpose of negotiation. Then comes your situation, your needs and your intersts. Not that you can negotiate without having the basic knowledge about negotiation techniques. While negotiating something, you should use negotiation techniques.

Now comes the most important part of the whold exercise. You have to take decision with regard to what you actually want to achieve after winning the argument. You have to get sure that your argument is well planned and it does not make any mention of the points which are vague and misleading. You should also bear in mind that simple and clear points, and lucid language help you carry on your argument to a logical conclusion and convince others. You can convince an individual only if your argument is logical. The logical process can be mastered through practice.

Never forge that talking is the most personal, direct and forceful way in which you communicate your thoughts and feelings everyday. The way you talk has the greatest impact on how other people interact with you. That is why you should always remember that it is a skill. Not everybody in this world can talk effectively. Talking should neither be taken for granted nor misunderstood, Talk in in the proper way to succeed. Talking is a skill which should be cultivated and improved on very sincerely and carefully. Talk low, talk slow and do not say too much. Too much talk will include errors.

Wishing you all the best for success.











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शनिवार, 13 नवंबर 2010

WORLD CONFERENCE OF AIAER

World Conference of AIAER
ON
PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT
OF
TEACHERS AND TEACHERS’
EDUCATORS

NOVEMBER 12-13, 2010
***
HOST

Lovely Faculty of Education
Of
LOVELY PROFESSIONAL UNIVERSITY
And
Educational Research Association (ERP)
Phagwara, PUNJAB (INDIA)

Presented by:

1. Dr. Anil Kumar G.Kachhia,
Dean, Faculty of Education, Gajarat University & Principal of Smt. S.I.Patel Ipcowala College of Education, Petlad, Distt. Anand(Gujarat)
2. Dr. Bhagubhai I.Prajapati
Principal, Narayan Vidhyalaya, Bharuch-Gurjarat
&
Recipient of International Gold Star Award at Bangkok(Thailand)
PROFESSIONALISM IN TEACHERS’ EDUCATION\

Dr, A.G.Kachhia
Dr. B.I.Prajapati


Abstract


Teaching is a holistic profession like any other profession. The teacher’s role like most of the other professional roles has been defined by the society in which he/she works. Different social groups have different professions and these professions change with the passage of time. The teacher or “guru” in ancient Indian society was next only to God and one’s parents. But that is not the case today. The teacher’s role in India today is not the same that of Western Countries or cultures. Teachers’ education programme aims at preparing the teachers for the school level teaching institutions. With the changing world, expectations from the teacher are also being changed by the society. Therefore, teacher is required to have not only academic and professional competence of high order but also earnest responsibility and commitment to strive constantly to raise students’ learning, capability, achievement and make them autonomous, self-reliant and self-actualizing persons. Only then he will be able to face the changes and challenges of his professional career. This paper focuses on the meaning of professionalism, need and strategies for the professionalism of teachers’ education.





PROFESSIONALISM IN TEACHERS’ EDUCATION\

Dr, A.G.Kachhia
Dr. B.I.Prajapati

Introduction

Teaching is a holistic profession like any other profession. The teacher’s role like most of the other professional roles has been defined by the society in which he/she works. Different social groups have different professions and these professions change with the passage of time. The teacher or “guru” in ancient Indian society was next only to God and one’s parents. But that is not the case today. The teacher’s role in India today is not the same that of Western Countries or cultures.

Teachers’ education programme aims at preparing the teachers for the school level teaching institutions. With the changing world, expectations from the teacher are also being changed by the society. Therefore, teacher is required to have not only academic and professional competence of high order but also earnest responsibility and commitment to strive constantly to raise students’ learning, capability, achievement and make them autonomous, self-reliant and self-actualizing persons. Only then, he will be able to face the changes and challenges of his professional career.

Is teaching professional today?

• So far as India is concerned, teaching is not professional today.
However, in England, U.S.A and in other countries also, professional confidence and autonomy which is found in the practice of law and medicine is not be seen in teaching. The reasons are that in comparison to other professions, teachers’ activities are less exact and narrow. (judge, 1980). Nobody can definitely assert that the work of teaching can be done effectively by the teacher. Today, teaching is done and knowledge is given through other agencies. How can professionalization come in teaching under these circumstances? As in the case of a doctor and a lawyer, there is no fixed territories.

• It may be taken for granted that teacher is a person who is paid to instruct according to some programme- pupil’s choice or his contemporaries that follow the programme given by the institute. This situation is against professionalization. In India, this is the existing situation. Hence, today teaching is not professional.

• There is a belief in society and among teachers that teaching is an art and it is not science. There is a mentality that successful teaching is a practical skill and such skill does not come through the study of principles of education.

• The status of teachers is low. The teacher does not enjoy that prestige, which a doctor, a lawyer, an industrialist or an engineer enjoys. Certain prejudice is prevailing in the society that the teachers are the idealistic, impractical and not capable of fighting reality. They have no voice in the society.

• Teachers are under-paid as compared to other professions.

• The standard of entering into the profession is not so high. Little scientific knowledge is available in the teaching profession because pedagogy is in its early stage still.

• Teachers are not united. They are scattered and are not grouped. They are divided as primary, secondary, higher secondary and college teachers. Teachers’ unions are no so effective and powerful.

• Teaching is done in the midst of pressures and conflicts, which are social, economic and political.

• There is a restriction on the individual freedom of teachers and our society is very critical about their manners, habits, clothes or social interaction as well as relations.

For above all stated reasons, teaching cannot be said to be a full fledged profession.








PROFESSIONALISM IN TEACHERS’ EDUCATION\

Dr, A.G.Kachhia
Dr. B.I.Prajapati

The need of professionalization o f teachers’ education.

The present age is the age of professionalization. Different occupations like law, medicine etc. are considered as profession today. The need for professionalization has become so acute today that every occupation including teaching is considered to be taken a profession because it has to go in time with modernization, which has entered in every field of life. More over, it has a social responsibility, such as preparation of responsible future citizens.

Today, teaching is no more than simply an occupation aimed at making money for livelihood but it is social service for the national development.
And that is why today there is a need for professionalization in teaching. Thus its social responsibility and function is very crucial. The teachers themselves remain unclear about whether they do or do not belong to a profession (Judge, 1980). The reason of this is that teachers have never enjoyed that degree of professional confidence and autonomy which is found in the practice of medicine and law.

A teacher has to play an important role in the preparation of individuals who are patriotic, committed, responsible and conscious of what they are doing. This account for the need of professionalization in teaching.

A number of recent U.S. federal state and foundations report have focused on the quality of public education. In U.S.A also crises are found in teaching. Children are not learning their basics and better instructions are needed to maintain the spiritual, cultural and economic climate of the nation. (Popkewitz, 1994). So, the need for the professionalization of teach is found to be essential. According to him, there is a concern for providing teacher with more autonomy, privilege and status. This is possible only if professionalization takes place in teaching. Taken as profession, teaching will require modernization as well as perfection. In short, professionalization in teaching is the prime necessity of the day.

Strategies for the professionalization of teachers’ education

According to Joshi & Bhogayata (1999) the criteria for professionalization are the following:-
1. When the occupation is full time, it is a profession. And it is a main source of income for the practitioner of profession.
2. The choice of an occupation is a strong inspiration of that profession and that person committed to the profession for the whole of life.
3. Such a professional has acquired special knowledge and skill through teaching and thinking and raw material is acquired through science and study.
4. A professional draws the conclusion for the welfare of his client on the basis of universal law.
5. The profession chosen by him is aimed at the service of people and he uses his knowledge for
6. The work of the professional is aimed at satisfying the objective requirement of his client. He totally ignores his personal likes and dislikes.
7. The client and professional have faith in each other. The professional enjoys autonomy. He knows more than his client and wishes welfare of his client and his life.
8. Professionals form their unions and these unions control the admission and continuation of that profession and the union fixes the standard for the test in training and teaching of the profession.
9. The position and capacity of the professional in his field is very high.
10. A person in his profession can not attract client or customers through advertisement.

When majority of this ten criteria are applicable to a particular occupation, that occupation is called profession. Historically, the occupation of doctors and lawyers are oldest professions. We can identify several important strategies to make teaching a profession on the basis of above criteria.

A teacher has an important role to play in the society. Teacher builds up a strong, durable and ideal society. His role is important in the creation of nation. In order to achieve this goal, teacher’s education must be made professional.

HOW CAN IT BE ACHIEVED?

Teaching should not be a part time activity. If should be a full time job. However, it should be the main source of income for the professional. A teacher could be permanently committed to his work. Those who have chosen teaching as a profession must acquire necessary knowledge and skill. The professionals work for the welfare of his client without any person gain. He/She enjoys full autonomy in his/her profession.

For the professionalization in teachers’ occupation, the persistent study, research, and investigation are essential. Teacher as researcher can be a professional (Ganihar & Nilavar 1999). The client satisfaction and good reward can make teaching professional.

According to Schnook(1987), teaching can achieve the status of a profession through reflective practice (i.e. reflection in and on practice). So, teaching must become reflective, intellectual activity, a very high level of thinking ability, a very creative and imaginative faculty, a proactive reasoning ability and superior communication can make teacher’s occupation more professional. (Ghanchi, 2000)










References:
1. Ganchi, D.A (2000), Professionalism in Teacher Education, University News, 38(5), 25.
2. Ganihar, N.N.& Nilavar S.S (1999). The need for professionalism in teacher education, University News. 37(5), 1-5
3. Joshi, B.& Bhogayata, C.(1995). Education and Teacher in Engineering Indian Society(Gujrati Verson), Ahmedabad, Anda Prakashan.
4. Judge, H.(1980) Teaching and Professionalization – An Essay in Ambiguity. I.E.Hoyle & Megary (Eds.), Professional Development of Teacher – World Year Book of Education. (pp340-349), London: Kogan Page.
5. Popkewitz, T.S.(19994), Professionalization in Teaching and Teacher Education – Some Notes on its History, Ideology and Potential. Teaching and Teacher Education. 10, 1-14
6. Schnook, D.A.(1987), Educating the Reflective Practice. A Presentation at the annual meeting of the American Research Association. (Received from the web site http://edu c queensu. Cal-ar/section 87. Htry on January 4, 1999)

शुक्रवार, 5 नवंबर 2010

India welcomes Obama

Sir, we are waiting for you eagerly. A new era of mutual trust will begin. We are sure about this. Indians I talked about spoke highly of you and are satisfied that this visit to India will be very very fruitful in terms of relationship between the two countries and trade between the countries. WE WELCOME YOU SIR.


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रविवार, 31 अक्टूबर 2010

A Honour

MIT Sloan Management Review SUMMER 2010 ISSUE.


MIT Sloan Management Review sent an electronic survey on Sustainability of Business and it was offered if the survey is correct and accepted by MIT Sloan Management Review, a hard copy of the prestigious world renowned Business Magaizine will be sent to the person filling the survey. I am glad that my survey has been accepted and I have been honoured with a hard copy of the magazine.Thank you MIT. It proves that I have adequate business sense of International Standard. MIT Sloan School of Management, Massachussettes, USA is a world renowned business management school.

Lecture on French Culture




A lecture on French Culture was held in Punjab Agricultural University, Ludhiana's student home and a contest of French Language speaking was held. On the dias in the picture are : R to L : Dr. Charan Kamal Singh, a distant son in law of Dr. Manmohan Singh, Prime Minister of India, Dr. J.S.Bains Former Head and Professor of French, PAU, Ludhiana and President of Club Francais, Mrs.Vice Chancellor, Dr. M.S.Kang, Vice Chancellor of PAU, Ludhiana, Dr. R.S Sidhu, Dean College of Basic Sciences and Humanities, PAU, Ludhiana, Dr. J.S Dhiman, Additional Director, Communication and International Linkages, PAU Ludhiana and me Prof P.K.Keshap

MIT Sloan Management Review

MIT Sloan Management Review sent an electronic survey on Sustainability of Business and it was offered if the survey is correct and accepted by MIT Sloan Management Review, a hard copy of the prestigious world renowned Business Magaizine will be sent to the person filling the survey. I am glad that my survey has been accepted and I have been honoured with a hard copy of the magazine.Thank you MIT. It proves that I have adequate business sense of International Standard. MIT Sloan School of Management, Massachussettes, USA is a world renowned business management school.

गुरुवार, 28 अक्टूबर 2010

Gujarat visit





The wonderful happy moments spent from 19th October to 25th October, 2010 during my visit to Narayan Vidhayalaya, Bharuch (Gujrat)have been stored in my permanent memory.

Alongwith me in the photo No. 1 are Bhai Ranchchod Shah, Director Amity Education Campus, Bharuch, District Education Officer, Bharuch and Hemant Bhai, Chairman Narayan Vidhalaya, Bharuch. In the 2nd and 3rd photos, enjoying last meal with Gharia Sahib, retired principal of Narayan Vidhyalaya, Dr. Bhagubhai Prajapati, principal of Narayan Vidyalaya, Bharuch, principal of another institution of Narayan Vidhalaya, Hemant Bhai Chairman of Narayan Institutions. I will never forget the hospitality accorded to me by the host community from Narayan Vidhayala, Bharuch.

बुधवार, 20 अक्टूबर 2010

KABIR BADDHI






My visit to Bharuch (Gujrat) India is really exciting and new experience with new people of my country. I have been invited by Narayan Vidhyalaya, Bharuch principal Dr. Bhagu Bhai Prajapati who was the co-recipient of International Gold Star Award at Bangkok (Thailand) on 28th May,2010. I am here to give talks and trainings on BRAIN POWER TECHNOLOGY to 991 students about 600 parents and 44 teachers. Students of +1and +2, 5th, 6th and 7th have been given the seminar.I am the Chief Guest and motivational trainer and speaker to address all these audience.

Yesterday, we swam in Narmada river. We were 4 people- me, Dr. Bhagu Bhai, Mr. Gariyar a retired principal (B.Sc.M.A, M.Ed) Narayan Vidhalaya, Bharuch and my son Ankush aged 17 student of +2 - boarded the boat and crossed the river Narmada. It was an experience par expression. The thrill and experience can only be felt not told in words. The waves of the river were coming from the ocean and the co-passengers were saying that the ocean is Arabian sea that is experiendcing tide. The waves going in opposite direction are due to this experience by the sea.

Having crossed the river Narmada, we reached Kabir Badh. The Badh (Banyan tree) was a huge tree. We were asked a question. Tell the original root of Badh or mother tree. We tried our best but could not find. All the roots and trees were appearing to be original. That question was very big to answser. Photographs, sitting on the branches and live logs, were taken. We enjoyed the swimming in the river Narmada. Narmada is said to be holy river and is known as the life line of Gujarat.

On the way back, we visited Neel Kantheshwar Mahadev Temple on the Narmada river, Ashram of Ma Anand Mai. Sardar Sarovar Narmada DAM that gives electricity to Gujarat is going to be visited by all of us. We are going to visit the dam in a vehicle. I was much interested to visit this dam. Why? In 1980 I appeared for IAS exam and at that time the dam was perhaps under constrction and we the students used to discuss a lot about this dam. Today the dream is going to be filled. I am posting this while enjoying the ride in the vehicle as we are going to see Narmada Dam. The dam is about 150 km from Bharuch. Bharuch is about 50 km away from Vadodara- one of the biggest cities of Gujarat.

बुधवार, 29 सितंबर 2010

22 SELF-GUIDANCE CLUES


21 Points to Remember

1. Work at something you enjoy and that’s worthy of your time and talent.
2. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
3. Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.

4. Be forgiving of yourself and others.
5. Be generous.
6. Have a grateful heart.

7. Persistence, persistence, persistence.
8. Discipline yourself to save money on even the most modest salary.
9. Treat everyone you meet like you want to be treated.

10. Commit yourself to constant improvement.
11. Commit yourself to quality.
12. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige but on relationship with people you love and respect.

13. Be loyal.
14. Be a self-starter.
15. Be decisive even it means you’ll sometimes be wrong.

16. Be honest.
17. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
18. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you’ll regret the things you didn’t do more than the ones you did.

19. Take good care of those you love but don’t be possessive.
20. Marry the right person. This one decision will determine 90% of your happiness or misery. Turn your misery into understanding with your cooperation and wisdom.
21. RICHNESS is not Earning More, Spending More Or Saving More, but.....

'RICHNESS IS WHEN YOU NEED NO MORE".\
22. Be positive. Spread positivy and hope. Rumour mongers are nation's and society's enemies.

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सोमवार, 27 सितंबर 2010

DIABETES CURE


Dear All

Please share this information …it is the cure of the trouble disease called diabetes…..


Please note that another name for Lady Finger (Bhindi ) is " OKRA ".
Take two pieces of Lady Finger (Bhindi) and remove/cut both ends of each
Piece. Also put a small cut in the middle and put these two pieces in
Glass of water. Cover the glass and keep it at room temperature during
Night. Early morning, before breakfast simply remove two pieces of lady
Finger (bhindi) from the glass and drink that water.
Keep doing it on daily basis.
Within two weeks, you will see remarkable results in reduction of your
SUGAR.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

This is an forwarded email received from Nirmala Kapilaji.

बुधवार, 15 सितंबर 2010

A DAY




TWIST. TURN. RELAX. ENERGISE.

IDEAT.CONFER.LEARN. UNLEARN.

RACE.PAUSE. CELEBRATE. INTROSPECT.


ESCAPE. CAPTURE. BUZZ. CHILL

SIN. INDULGE.ARRIVE.DEPART.


WHISPER.SHOUT.GROUVE.WALTZ.


PLAN.UNPLAN.ROCK.ROLL.


EVOLVE.TRANSFORM.CREATE. ABSORB.


PLAY.WORK.SHINE.SEE. DO. UNDO.

A day is not a day, but a million moments waiting to surprise you.
It's time to discover a brand new signature in hospitality.

Source: The Tribune.
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Kidney Stone Remedy


This posting is based on the talk I just heard on TV program "Pehla Sukh Nirogi Kaya".
An Ayurvedic and Unani Hakim Tilak Raj who is having a hospital at Jalandhar was giving very useful tips for managing and getting the kidney stone cured without operation.

He suggested:
1. Get your stone diagnosed. Don't start any medicine without diagnosis.
2. For immediate relief (till you go to a doctor) from acute pain, pain killer was advised.
3. Foods to avoid: Tomato, Spinach
4. Take water and soda water in plenty so that urination may be caused. It will give relief.
5. Ayurved and Unani medicine can cure the kidney stone fully whatever be the size, he asserted.
6. Only light exercise useful. Hard exercise strictly forbidden.
These are just suggestions for your awareness. Consult your doctor if faced with this problem. No need to panic unnecessarily.

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शुक्रवार, 10 सितंबर 2010

HAVE HEALTH, WEALTH AND HAPPINESS





Dear Friend,

He, who has health, has hope. And he, who has hope, has everything. Every human being is the author of his own health or disease. It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver. Health is a state of complete physical, mental and emotional well-being, and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity. So, if a person is not healthy, then he or she will find it very difficult to enjoy life. A lot many people spoil their health for gaining wealth, and then have to spend their wealth to regain their health.

Good health is the consequence of good energy levels. Energy has three pre-dominant levels a) Physical b) Mental and c) Emotional. Physical energy can be gained by eating a balanced diet and exercising regularly. A balanced nutritious dies must contain carbohyderate, protien, fat, vitamins, mineral salts and fibre. It must contain these things in correct proportions. Next to the chart comes regular exercise. Proper exercise benefits every part of the body including the mind. Walking, deep-breathing and meditation are three very productive exercises for your well-being.

Mental energy comes from three significat sources a) Thinking b) Reasoning and c) Solving of Problems. You must develop honest and good thoughts. A good thinker is an asset to the society. And learn to take complete control of your thoughts and mental processes. To gain mental strength and vitality, cultivate the quality of reasoning well and with conviction. As long as there is life, there will be problems. The art lies in your approach to problems. Do not make hotchpotch of all the issues. Solve problems one by one at a time. Similarly make plansin such a way that you can execute them on a daily basis. Remember, to prioritise your time and do the most important things first.

The third type is emotional energy coming from enthusiasm, motivation and resilience. Emotional energy is the master of all energies. Emotions can be a useful and powerful tool to handle different situations in life. This energy depends on how much zeal, drive and toughness you have. Enthusiasm comes from optimism. Optimism is a magnet. It attracts people and prosperity to you. Positive thoughts are powerful constructive thoughts. They give energy to both mind and body. If we have positive thoughts it is sure that we will succeed. They make us more joyful and happy. Using them on all occasions will make us live a better life than ever and help us to build a better social, cultural and work relationship. All is Well is not just catch-phrase popularised by the movie 3 Idiots but a generator of positivism. These three magical words will not heal our sores or soothe our sorrows, but the essence within them will provide us the courage to do so.

The next component, motivation, results from our passion and commitment. Passion is an attitude and can be developed. Vhoose the career that is perfect for you, one that inspires you and leads you to perform better, work harder, live more happily. Such a career will make you passionate about your work. If you are passionate, you will inevitably be committed to your task at hand.
Motivation is a combination of will power, goals, ability to continue attaining the highest level of success.
Last but not least, you need to develop resilience. Resilience is the flexibility in response to changing situational demands, and the ability to bounce back from negative emotional experiences. Resilient individuals experience positive emotions even in the midst of stressful events, which explains their ability to rebound successfully despite diversity.
To wish you to be well is a part of becoming well. A man too busy to take care of his health is like a mechanic too busy to take care of his tools. Health is first muse, it gives us the required motivation and energy to work. In health, there is freedom. Health is the first of all liberties. It is the greatest possession a person can accumulate.
Helping you to gain healh, wealth and happiness.

Contributed by Prof Keshap author of e-book Personality Development wwww.mypersonalitydevelopment.com from Competition Success Review .
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सोमवार, 6 सितंबर 2010

E-Book Release Personality Development



Er.Surindera Singh, Dr. M.A.Zahir, Capt.J.S.Kular and Prof P.K.Keshap at the release of e-book Personality Development (A New Inner Engineering for Success in Exams, Competitions, Career and Life)


Dr. M.A.Zahir, an eminent academician and Chairman of Synetic Business School (SBS), Ludhiana formerly Head, Department of Business Management and Dean, College of Basic Sciences and Humanities, Punjab Agricultural University, Ludhiana released e-Book “PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT” (A New Inner Engineering for Success in Exams, Competitions, Career and Life) co-authored by Prof P.K.Keshap, Associate Professor to MBA/PGPM for Personality Development and CPS.

Others present at the release were Capt. J.S.Kular, Executive Director of STEP, formerly director SISI and Er. Surindera Singh, Registrar of STEP (Science and Technology Entrepreneurs’ Park) Govt. of India, GNE, Ludhiana. Prof Keshap is recipient of “RASHTRIYA GAURAV AWARD” and “INTERNATIONAL GOLD STAR AWARD”. He is a world-famous author of net based Go Articles and his articles “BASIC PERSONALITY” and “ Pathways to Knowledge” are widely read by the readers all over world. Recently Google ranked Prof Keshap world’s #1 blogger for his interest in “PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT” and “Communication Skills.” Prof Keshap is the founder director of Mind Power Institute.


In the e-book, Prof Keshap has detailed case-studies from his experiences and observations gathered from over 2000 students, candidates and teachers over a period of 18 years. He conducted campus interviews, inspired, motivated, trained and taught the students who have settled in India and abroad. Among his students are Mrs. India 2004(Naina Dhaliwal) and certain professors teaching in Canada and India.


Prof Keshap opines that the e-book is exceedingly useful for students who are aspiring for career in Civil Services ( IAS, IPS, IRS) , Military(SSB, NDA), Management (MBA, MCA) Education (B.A/B.Sc.B.Ed./M.Sc./M.Ed./M.A, Ph.D)
and competitions like Banking, CAT, MAT, XAT, Insurance, IELTS, TOEFL, SAT, GMAT. The e-book is equally useful for working people, educated housewives, executives and businessmen. Job and Visa seekers can use the e-book as guide for having insight about the possible interview techniques and questions.


The e-book is equally good guide for parents. The e-book basically enables the reader to find the grey areas of his/her personality and improve upon those grey areas which in turn ensures higher rate of success in exams. Prof Keshap further opines that the difference between failure and success is doing the thing nearly right and exactly right. The e-book is available on www.mypersonalitydevelopment.com or just by typing “Prof P.K.Keshap Personality Development” on Google search bar and clicking the link .

www.mypersonalitydevelopment.com

रविवार, 5 सितंबर 2010

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गुरुवार, 2 सितंबर 2010

AIM OF EDUCATION





The aim of education should be rather to teach us how to think, than what to think, rather to improve our minds, so as to enable us to think for ourselves, than to load the memory with thoughts of other men.

- John Dewey
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Personality Development E - Book by Prof P.K.Keshap


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शुक्रवार, 27 अगस्त 2010

BE YOUR BEST SELF



Be your best self


by I.M.Soni
You have been troubled by infereiority feelings which are often based on memories or on remarks made by others.
Your feelings lead to self-concepts that are flagrantly wrong, but as long as you believe in them, you are inluenced by them.
Threrefore, it is important for you for to keep telling yourself that you are a much better individual than you are made to believe by envious people.
If you accept this as a fact, it will begin to influence your life because what you do with your self life depends on your own self-concept.
Your self-concept makes real things happen to you. You may say, "I can do this" and "I can't do that" simply because of remarks that other have made about you.
You underestimate your own abilities. Your inherent abilities are much greater than those you actually use. No one ever gives his best, is not a joke. Henry Ford once said, "Everyone can do more than he thinks he can."
No matter what your abilities are, they can be developed only if you choose to develop them. It is up to you.
According to Prescott Lecky, every human being strives to be a consistentent whole. He rejects what he thinks contradicts his self-image. Sometimes, he rejects traits that would be greatly to his advantage, because in a thoughtless moment, someone has told him that he was very dull.
If he accepts this, it becomes part of his mental picture of himself, and from that time he behaves accordingly.
A poor speller, for example, can be turned into a good one by changing his idea about his ability. When he changed his idea about his opinion of himself, a high school student, who previously misspelled 55 words out of 100 and had failed in most of his school subjects, became one of the best spellers in his school and got a general average of 90. He overcame his ,"disability" and became proficient.
Self-concept may be compared to building houses. If a man, in a fit of alcoholism, builds up an image of himself that has no basis in reality, he's building a mental house of straw.
A daydream that has no follow-up can be blown away as easility as a house of straw.
You can build your mental house out of sticks, and it can also be blown down. If you build your self-concept on casual remarks made others, you are building it out of sticks.
If you build your mental house out of bricks, who can knowck it down? Bricks that build your self-concept show what you can do and achieve.
If you have personal experience in succeeding at something, small or big, you can build a house of your self-esteem on what you have done. Forget the failures you have met with.
Build your life and career on what you have already done successfully. Success breeds success.
Nietzche says, "Become what thou art!" He knew that if we only became as great as we really are we would be better than we dream.
You have potentialities that you have never realised. The first step in changing your life is to believe that you can change. Here are some suggestions.
Accept yourself. In a study of group of college students, it was found that those who were mentally healthiest accepted themselves with all their faults as naturally.
Dont tear yourself apart because you do not think you are worthy.
You should try to be at your best.
Believe in yourself. You have some talent. If you do not know what your talent is, that does not mean that you do not possess one.
Keep seeking till you find what your talent is.
Think of how to make yourself better.
If you spend too much time wondering whether or not you are good, you won't be.
Keep your hands and your mind occupied.A man is nothing if not a worker.
Keep recreational activities in your life.
Always have an activity that will be fun for the sake of it.
Make others comfortable and at ease.
When you meet someone for the first time, concentrate on trying to make him feel at ease.
That will keep you from feeling self-conscious.
If you cocentrate on the other person, you are not self-centred.
Do something about your negatives. If you have some worries you cannot do anything, try to be fair about them. Look for their good points.
Believe in some power higher and greater than yourself.
Bury the past. Yesterday was a dream, tomorrow may never come. Use this fragment of time, as though it were your last day.
Work for your future.The beauty of the future is that it comes one day. And anybody can handle one day positively and creatively.

Source: The Tribune August 27,2010
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DADDY AT DIFFERENT AGES







A must read for every kid.
AT 4 YEARS
My daddy is great.
AT 6 YEARS
My daddy knows everybody.
AT 10 YEARS
My daddy is good but short tempered.
AT 12 YEARS
My daddy was very nice when I was young.
AT 14 YEARS
My daddy is getting fastidious.
AT 16 YEARS
My daddy is not in line with the current times.
AT 18 YEARS
My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.
AT 20 YEARS
Oh! It's becoming difficult to tolerate daddy.
Wonder how mother puts up with him.
AT 25 YEARS
Daddy is objecting to everything.
AT 30 YEARS
It is becoming difficult to manage my son.
I was so scared of my father when I was young.
AT 40 YEARS
Daddy brought me up with so much discipline.
Even I should do the same.
AT 45 YEARS
I am baffled how my daddy brought us up.
AT 50 YEARS
My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up.
I am unable to manage a single son.
AT 55 YEARS
My daddy was far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.
AT 60 YEARS
My daddy is great.
THUS, it took 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the first stage.
WHEN GOD SOLVES YOUR PROBLEMS,
YOU HAVE FAITH IN HIS ABILITIES,
WHEN HE DOES NOT SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS,
HE HAS FAITH IN YOUR ABILITIES.

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गुरुवार, 19 अगस्त 2010

FIGHT OR FLIGHT













The person who has never failed in life is the person who has never attempted any act in life.



Amitabh Bachchan - the great legend of Indian Cinema when went to face the interview by an advertisement agency faced this fact. The interviewer retorted, "Your voice resembles with beast of burden. You can never be success in life." Amitabh Bachchan spoke nothing but determined internally "I will become a great actor and my voice will be my strength." Rest is the reality you all know.



Had Amitabh Bachchan bogged down at that time, he would have gone to seclusion and nobo0dy would have bothered about him. But he rose and fought and won the battle of failure in a befitting manner.






Whenever anyone faces failure in exam, competition, career or life first thought comes to mind is quitting. A person never fails until he/she quits. Brave rise and fight and win laurels for themselves and for their family and friends, nears and dears. Scociety salutes them. Success salutes them.






There is nothing between success and failure except right and adequate effort.






Passing an exam needs studying hard. One hour study should be spread like:



-20 minutes reading



-20 minutes closing eyes reflecting upon what has been read.



-20 minutes - writing for knowing what has been read is right and worh or not.






Generally, we tell to others more than doing. George Bernard Shaw - the great writer- says, " When we tell about our plans to others, they comment, criticise and complement. But when we achieve our goals, they appreciate and believe." So, don't tell others until you achieve.






Commonly diagnosed reasons for failure in exams are:



- Wrong daily routine



-Not attending the class for one reason or another.



- Excessive socialisation



- Excessive friendship and wasting of time in activities other than studies.






Improving upon these habits forces success to salute the aspirant.






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बुधवार, 18 अगस्त 2010

PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT





DISCOVER YOUR SECRET PERSONALITY. MAXIMIZE YOUR PERSONAL PRODUCTIVITY. KNOW YOUR USP. ACHIEVE MORE WITH LESS.

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रविवार, 15 अगस्त 2010

INDEPENDENCE DAY




HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY






TODAY IS OUR INDEPENDENCE DAY - THE MOST IMPORTANT DAY OF WE ALL INDIANS.






AFTER MR. JAWAHAR LAL NEHRU (17 TIMES) AND SMT. INDIRA GANDHI (16 TIMES), DR. MANMOHAN SINGH (7TH TIME) has become the 3rd Prime Minister to hoist 'TRINGA" maximum times from Lal Kila today.






All patriotic Indians are celebrating the Independence Day in India and abroad.



Our ancestors have paid a very heavy cost by laying their precious lives for this hard earned freedom.



We have yet to fight the menace of corruption and alleviate the poverty from our country.



We will endevour to proliferate education for one and all. Only education can make we Indians live with dignity. Edducation will also eradicate social evils like terrorism, domestic violence, dowry, honour killings, human exploitation and human traffic interalia.



Let's educate ourselves, motivate others to get educated and behave like eduacted law abiding citizens.
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Mental health is National Wealth.



Let's be the builder of the nation and the world.



Leh has suffered a worst calamity in the form of cloud burst. Let's help our suffering brothers and sisters.
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PURPOSE OF LIFE





"We are here to add what we can to life,

not to get what we can from life."

- WILLIAM OSLER
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रविवार, 8 अगस्त 2010

GENERAL RESPONSIBILITY

You cannot hope to build a better world without improving the individual. To that end, each of us must work for his/her own improvement and, at the same time, share a general responsibility for all humanity.
- Marie Curie.


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Character And Desity

Floyd Patterson, the worlds's heavyweight champion once said that he must change his mental attitude and work hard . And he did work hard hard, developed inspiration to action, know-how, and activity knowledge. He once again regained the world's heavy weight champion crown. At that time his future was ahead of him.
Now, is your future ahead of you or behind you? The answer for this question depends on your success in eliminating any existing unseen walls such as negative habits and undesirable thoughts and actions = and strengthen and build positive thoughts and deeds. For character is the Key stone to success. The essence of perfection is never reached, but you gain character by trying to reach it. Good luck or bad luck, success or failure - which will it be for you?
The choice is yours. You hold the tiller. You can steer the course you choose in the direction of where you want to be - today, tomorrow, or in distant time yet to come.
Now is the time to find where you are. And now is the time to check your habits of thought and action, for these have brought you to where you are now. Are you on the right course to get from where you are now to where you really want to be? regardless of what you are or what you have been, you can still become what you may want to be. As a ship captain does, you will have to steer the course of your voyage. Remember, many a ship that lost its rudeder and many a person who lost character have become derelicts, lost to the world. This can happen at almost any point in a voyage at sea or in life.
For Character is the one common denominator of all perssonal qualities that will insure a truly successful future.
In order to develop good character, you've to win over yourself. The development of good character is battle that you, I and everyone must fight for himself. The battle is from within, but we can get help from wtihout from good persons and good books that motivate the reader to try to become a better person. But whatever may be the source of help it all depends on what you learn and put into your life. You have the power to affect, use, control or harmonize with all of them.
And you can direct your thoughts, control your emotions and ordain your destiny. Whoever can stop you from doing it?
Source: Wisodom May 2010

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शनिवार, 7 अगस्त 2010

HOW CAN I LEARN










SPIRITUAL MESSAGE



To commit mistakes is the only way to learn.



To move according to one's own understanding is the only way to grow.



If you are looking at somebody else to dictate to you,



you will never know what life is.



It has to be lived, and you have to follow your own small light.



says Osho, the Zen Master



Source:
Tarot Power by Ms Prem Ritambra published in Hindustan Times of 8th Aug.2010.






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COMMONWEALTH GAMES

EMOTIONAL APPEAL
Like any proud citizen, I am filled with pride that our great country is hosting the Commonwealth Games, 2010 which are symbolic of our national honour.
India is a country of immensely constructive, progressive & cultured people with a rich heritage and our recent economic growth has drawn worldwide admiration. As such, the whole world today looks upon us with respect and hope.
The recent continuous and negative media coverage of Delhi Commonwealth Games, 2010 has resulted in absolute negativity among our people and the whold world talking adversely about our country.
Due to this continous and extensively negative coverage, we are creating a withdrawal feeling in thousands of organizers, 23000 volunteers, who are feeling totally demoralized and dejected. This would totally mar the successful conduct of the Commonwealth Games and give a bad image to our beloved country for all times to come. Participating players, officials and even the guests will have a very negative feeling, right from the beginning. The smallest of flaws will be magnified in their minds and they will go back with quite a weak forthcoming Commonwealth Games at such time when they should all be participating in, contributing to and celebrating it as the Grand Festival of India.
I do not know at all as to who are cultprits, how many people have misappropriated the country's funds/resources and pushed back the preparations with regard to the completion of infrastructure, as the reports say. If so, the culprits most definitely need to be punished with all their misdeeds thoroughly investigated and all sorts of checks and audits duly conducted by going deep into the matters related to purchase, negotiations & payments etc. But if should all be done after our country's greatest ever sporting event is over. Of course, all the culprits should be serverly punished, thereafter.
I am asking in all humility and cordialiality whther for the wrongs of may be a hundred people, should the hopes and aspirations of 1.2 billion people be crushed? It would be such a huge blot on our country's image if we do not conduct the Games successfully.
I myself am running a media network thoughout the country and I appreciate that Media has done its duty to expose Organisers' misdeed but at the same time with all humility, we must accept that Media ha alread overdone it, causing a very big damage in maligning the image of our country. Certainly the media on its part should not forgive culprits but should postpone its campaign until after the successful staging of Commonwealth Games. The immediate need is to create an exceedingly positive environment for the present organisers and genuine workers to make the Games a grand success befitting the great image of our nation.
I threfore appeal to anybody and everybody to rise as one united nation maintaining absolute positivity and dedicate themselves whole-heartedly to the cause of the Delhi Commonwealth Games, 2010 for the pride of our beloved country. We stuill have almost 2 months to go and can work wonders if we rise together collectively on war footing and contribute in all possible ways so that we may hold our heads high before the entire world.
Yours always
A Humble Citizen,
Subrata Roy Sahara
Sahara India Pariwar
Source: The Tribune 7th August, 2010
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मंगलवार, 3 अगस्त 2010

GODMAN







If an 'O' of Ego is removed from Goodman, it will become a Godman. Ego is fed right from childhood when a small child is appreciated if it wins a game or race or gets more marks in the class. Not only this, even the words, "My child is smarter than that of yours. My child is more handsome or beautiful than that of yours. My child is healthier than that of yours." All these kind of remarks from parents, grandparents and others fan the ego of the child.
When the child grows and goes to school, these remarks take another shape. "My child has scored more marks than that of yours. This child has topped the class by scoring high marks."
This kind of comparison builds the psychological foundation of the child to be better in the society. The child also learns how to feel different from others in the society? This may be called the child is learning "how to discriminate." Blood and flesh is same but there are so many other traits on the basis of which a child learns to differentiate with others in the society. White skin is better than black, my culture and country is better than that of yours, I am stronger than you, I am more intelligent than others are some of the mental developments. This attitude builds ego which in turn teaches the human beings to disdain others one count or the other.
The child less learns about himself which the mother Nature has given to him. It more learns about the artificial living. That's how to accumulate more wealth in this world, how to keep the knowledge upto himself and exploit others. Vanity prevails upon the child and it leads to distancing itself from the real happiness.
Real happiness is not in accumulation of wealth but its use for our brothers and sisters in this world. Real happiness comes from retaining and nourishing relationships howsoever small or insignificant they appear in terms of money and wealth. Real happiness comes from enjoying a good health which comes from treating others alike and sharing their woes and worries. No body cares how much you know until he knows how much you care.
It is the caring of the needy that brings the real happiness. So, stop fanning ego and enjoy real happiness. Shedding ego, we become 90% lighter mentally and start enjoying the journey of our life. Enjoy the light of the lamp without any regard to the lamp. Lamp can be made of clay, mud, silver, gold or diamond but light is same. It does not change. Be BIG and shed ego.
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सोमवार, 19 जुलाई 2010

MAMA'S GIFT

Four brothers left home for college, and they became successful doctors and lawyers and prospered. Some years later, they chatted having enjoyed dinner together. They discussed gifts to their elderly mother, who lived far away in another city.

The first said, " I had built a big house for Mama."


The second said, " I had hundred thousand dollar theater in the house for Mama."


The third one said, " I had a Mercedes dealer to deliver LS600 for Mama."

The fourth said, " You know how Mama loved reading holy Bible (you may read religious book of your own religion) and you know she can't read now as she can't see being old. I met the preacher who told me about a parrot that can recite the entire Bible. It took twenty preachers 12 years to teach him. I had to pledge to contribue $100, 000 a year for twenty years to the
church, but it was worth it. Mama just has to name the chapter and verse and the parrot will recite it."

The other brothers were impressed. After the holidays Mom sent out her Thank You notes.


She wrote, " Milton, the house you build is so huge I live in only one room, but I have to clean the whole house. Thanks anyway."

" Marvin, I am too old to travel, I stay home, I have my groceries delivered, so never use the Mercedes. The thought was good. Thanks."

"Michael, you game me an expensive theater with Dolby Sound, it could hold 50 people, but all of my friends are dead, I've lost my hearing and I'm nearly blind. I'll never use it. Thank you for the gesture just the same."

"Dearest Melvin, you were the only son to have the good sense to give a little thought to your gift. The chicken was delicious. Thank you."

Luv Ya
Mama
Moral: Gifts should be need based.
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शनिवार, 17 जुलाई 2010

TEST

TEST YOUR ENGLISH

NAME:_____________________________________________________________
ADDRESS:__________________________________________________________
QUALIFICATION____________________DOB_____________________________
SCHOOL/OFFICE____________________________________________________

QUESTION: Naming words are : (1) Verbs (2) Adverbs (3) Adjectives (4) Noun (5) Pronoun
_________write the number.

Naming words are names of persons, places, animals and things. Write 25 naming words each.
1.Persons 2. Places 3. Animals 4. Touchable 4.2 Non-touchable things
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गुरुवार, 8 जुलाई 2010

TEST YOUR ENGLISH

SEMINAR ON 11TH JULY, 2010
SET 'A' (6th to 8th class) SEAT NO._____________
NAME: MISS/MASTER_________________________________________________
FATHER'S NAME_____________________________________________________
DATE OF BIRTH______________________________________________________
CLASS_________________ CONTACT NUMBER (M)__________________________
SCHOOL____________________________________________________________
ADDRESS___________________________________________________________
E.MAIL ID___________________________________________________________
Write the right answer:
1. Grass is yellow/green/white ____________________
2. Sun is yellow/green/white ____________________
3. Ice is yellow/green/white ____________________
4. Dr. Manmohan Singh is Prime Minister/President of India ________________
5. Smt. Sonia Gandhi is chairman/chairperson of Congress __________________
6. Sun rises in the west/north/east/south ___________________
7. Girls sing/sing a sweet song. ___________________
8. Does/do players play well? ___________________
9. Mohan goes/go to school daily. ___________________
10. I shall/will reach the station at right time. ____________________
11. John and mary belongs/belong to good family. _____________________
12. Orange smell/smells sweet. _____________________
13. He did not went/go to school yesterday. _____________________
14. Supriya and Seeta sit/sits on the desk. _____________________
15. My house is in/at Ludhiana in/at Punjab. ______________________
Why is spoken English important these days?____________________________
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Would you like to join this course?
If Yes why______________________________________________________
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If not why_________________________________________________________
Date__________ Sign.________________

बुधवार, 7 जुलाई 2010

VANITY


Vanity is empty pride. It is futility and unsubstantiality. Thoma a Kempis said, :He himself and that maketh no account of any height of hour." These words are the quintessence of humility, when one is not arrogant of his successes nor does he complain about his misfortunes.

He insists on living creatively everyday, every minute, to give happiness to himself and to share it with others.


The reverse of this characteristic is vanity, a common trait that infects the mind and spirit of huminity. As a matter of fact, no one can escape it entirely in a lifetime.


When we have vanity, we have conceit; and in both instances we tend to falsely believe we are more than what we are, when, as a matter of fact, we know the truth - that we are less, much less than what we can be. Then, in our secret embarassment, we scratch for attention, but it ends in a fruitless effort. It's like scratching on marble. If truth be known or realised, we wind up disliking our own self, neglecting opportunities to find our 'big self' and worthwhile goals.


Once this realizations dawns on us, we feel that there is nothing vanity but defeat. Perhaps we would think twice before being vain if we realised that we are playing a depression game, a losing

game that automatically makes us a member of the opinionated club; that we become little dictators who cannot win, who cannot relax, who cannot sleep.


The cure for our ailment is simple: Let us think kindly of ourselves, but don't gloat over successes. Be a good friend to our own self and be a good friend to others. Like Thomas a Kempis said, we will be great if don't make too great an account of our honours.
Source: 'WISDOM JULY 2010"
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शुक्रवार, 2 जुलाई 2010

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