Dream fulfilled

Success dreamt
Success designed
Success achieved

This is a story of a village girl. She was married to a guy in the city. The story is real.

On the day of her 31st Birthday, her husband asked her "what would you like as a gift on your birthday?" Humble, meek slow but morose voice came back: I want to do M.A English.

She had completed her B.Com in local language in the village. Her father was a teacher. Now she had family - elder daughter of about 4 years lying on the bed and getting treatment for nervous breakdown and a son aged about 2 years.

The husband listened well and consoled her. He said: Fine you will do. But she was not sure. So she replied: I don't know English as I had local language as medium of instruction.

Husband reassured: No issue, my uncle will teach you English.

In May 2013, both came to the teacher/trainer/mentor. The trainer assured her of success. 2 months English foundation course was advised. The girl I mean the woman was very excited. Every day she was learning new techniques and improving because she had understood that the best results will come not from coaching but from self learning.

She worked very hard. She performed well. She learnt Mind Power Techniques and Self-discipline techniques to achieve anything in life. Right Sustained efforts were the key to achieve the right results.

When the course was over, she expressed the desire to go for M.A English. Husband agreed readily and the trainer/motivator guided her to take the admission in M.A English through distance learning mode.

Trainer/motivator forgot everything about this girl. But the day before yesterday i.e. 28th April, 2015
after about 2 years, she met on the road, driving her scooter while bringing her son from the school.

She stopped. She bowed her head to the teacher and told the entire story. She was very happy rather overwhelmed while telling the story of her SUCCESS in M.A. English part 1. Now she was a student of M.A. English Part II.

She heaved a sigh of relief and had in her eyes gratitude for the teacher/trainer/motivator as he was instrumental in making her GROW in life.

Touching someone's life  really pays a great dividend throughout life.

 

MIND

PROGRAM

YOUR

MIND

FOR YOUR

PURPOSE

OF LIFE

OR

SOME BODY

ELSE

WILL

PROGRAM

IT

FOR

HER/HIS

PURPOSE OF

LIFE

 

What binds marriage.

दोपहर का समय था।  सूर्य तप रहा था। एक ज्ञान बान  अपने चरखे पर सूत कात  रहे थे। 

तभी एक जवान लड़का परेशानी की हालत में उनके पास आया।

लड़का बोला : बाबाजी में क्या करूँ ? मेरी बीबी मुझ पर शक करती है , छोटी छूटी बात पर झगड़ती है , में काम काज से थक कर आता हूँ , बजाये इसके की मुझे शांति से मुस्कराहट से पानी पिलाये, आराम करने दे बह दिन भर की शिकायतें मेरी शिकायते बच्चों की शिकायतें ले कर मुझे आराम की बजाये बेआराम कर देती है।  फिर शुरू होती है वेबजह की बहस।  यदि मैं चुप रहूँ तो बह कहती है  कि दिन में आफिस या काम पर ऐसा क्या हुआ की मैं चुप हूँ। उसकी पुछ्ताश मुझे किसी पुलिस बाले की तफ्तीश से काम नहीं लगती।  लड़ाई झगड़ा अपशब्द बोलना , बहस करना तो हमारारोज़ का काम है. मुझे काम से इतनी दिमागी थकाबट  नहीं होती जितनी घर आ कर होती है।  मुझे कोई हल बताएं।  में शादी को सफल कैसे बनायुं।

इस समय तक ज्ञान  बान  की पत्नी लोई जी पानी का गिलास लेकर आ चुकी थी ; बह बोली पानी पीजिये।

जवान लड़के ने गिलास लिया और पानी पि लिया।  मन कुछ शांत हुआ।

ज्ञान बान अपनी पत्नी से बोले :                        लालटेन ले आईये। 

जवान लड़का बड़ा हैरान था की दोपहर के तीन बजे पूरी धूप में ज्ञान बान लालटेन क्यों मँगबा रहे हैं। 

उनकी पत्नि  जी लालटेन ले कर आ गयी।

बह लालटेन ज्ञान बान के चरखे के पास रख कर चली गयी।

ज्ञान बान ने दोबारा पत्नि  जी को  बुलाया और कहा :          कुछ मीठा मेहमान के लिए ले आईये।

पत्नि  नमकीन ले कर आई और नमकीन मेहमान को दे दिया।    मेहमान और ज्ञान बान ने  उसे खा लिया।

ज्ञान बान फिर मेहमान से पूछने लगे :            तो आप क्या कह रहे थे ?

जवान बोला "मुझे मेरे प्रश्नों का उत्तर मिल गया है।

 आप ने लालटेन मांगी आपकी पत्नी ने बिना पूछे लालटेन ले आई।  कोई प्रशन नहीं किया।  आप ने मीठा माँगा और बह नमकीन ले आई।  आप ने कोई प्रशन नहीं पूछा न ही कोई शब्द बोले।

आप की पत्नी समझदार है जो समाज गयी की लालटेन केवल रौशनी ही नहीं देती आप को किसी और काम के लिए चाहिए होगी।  आप समझदार है  बिना बोले समझ गए कि घर में मीठा नहीं होगा तभी तो आपकी पत्नी नमकीन ले कर आई।  जिस पति पत्नी में सूज  बूज है बह घर स्वर्ग है।

पति  पत्नी का आपसी विश्वास व् सूज बुज ही गृहस्थ जीवन का आधार हैं।  दूसरों की दखलबाजी घर बर्बाद कर देती है पति घर का राजा है पत्नी रानी।  बाकि  सब राजपथ के मेहमान हैं।  हाँ सबका अपनी अपनी जगह पर महताब जरूर है।  लेकिन बह पति पत्नी का पर्याय नहीं है।  अच्छा में चलता हूँ।

ज्ञान बान मुस्कराये और मेहमान को द्वार तक छोड़ने के लिए आये
 

What binds marriage?

UNDERSTANDING ALONE

Once a wise man was sitting on his wheel and spinning the wheel. It was after noon. The sun was shining.

A young man turned to him for counseling and said:

Baba I am fed up from the churlish talk, acts and daily nagging and quarrels on petty issues of my young wife. Please tell me some techniques "how to handle her to save my marriage."

The wise man kept  on spinning on his wheel. He kept on moving the wheel and the young man felt that the wise man was not moved a bit internally from his question.

He repeated the question again assuming that perhaps wise man  has not listened the question well.

The wise man called his wife  and asked for lighted lantern. Lantern is a lamp used in villages generally where there is no electricity. People use it at night to give light to their environment i.e. houses, outer places etc.

His wife brought the lantern with wick burning and giving full light.

The young man was surprised to see that full sun is shining and the wife has not cross questioned the husband :                  why is the light needed when sun is shining?

The wise man  again beckoned the wife  to bring some sweets for the guest.

The wife brought some salty eatable. Wise man  did not cross questioned the wife and fired her with words.  But instead offered the salty eatable to the guest.

"So, what were you asking?" asked the wise man .

"No, I was not asking any question. I have got the answer to the question. Your wife brought lantern and she did not cross question.  You asked for sweets but she brought salty eatable. You did not cross question or raised hue and cry. I know to bind the marriage as a pious relationship is understanding between two persons.

"Your wife did not cross question you because she understood that the burning lantern may be needed by you for another purpose than light.

She trusts you and just obeyed you blindly. She brought salty eatable.

You trust her intellect so much that you did not cross question "why?" It may be there is no sweets at home and only salty eatable is there.

So, I have got the answer to my irritations and I will improve. I will share this with my wife too."

Wise man  smiled and young man went to his home.

MORAL:
Trust and understanding build and bind the marriage.
No third person's interference should shake it if you want to enjoy your married life.

 

What holds back in life?

ਸਭ ਤੋਂ ਬਢ਼ਾ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਨੂੰ ਜੀਵਨ ਵਿਚ ਪਿਛੇ ਧਕਨ ਵਾਲਾ ਰੋਗ


ਕਿਸੇ ਭੀ ਕ਼ਮ ਨੂਕਰਨ ਤੋ ਪਹਲੇ ਇਹ ਸੋਚਣਾ

ਕੀ ਕਹਨ ਗੇ ਲੋਗ

ਲੋਗ ਕੁਝ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੋਚਦੇ

ਅਸੀਂ ਹੀ ਦਸਦੇ ਹਨ

ਉ ਹ ਤਾਂ ਸਿਰਫ ਬਿਨਾ ਜਾਣੇ ਬਿਨਾ ਸੋਚੇ ਆਪਣੀ

ਜਾਣੀ ਅੰਜਾਨੀ ਰਾਏ ਦੇਡਨ ਹਨ

ਕੀਨਾ ਦੀ ਰਾਏ ਲੇਨੀ ਹੈ ਕੀਨਾ ਦੀ ਨਹੀ

ਇਹ ਤਾਂ ਸਾਧੀ ਮਰਜੀ ਹੈ

ਰਾਏ ਲੈਣ ਤੋਂ ਪਹਲਾ ਇਹ ਮਨ ਵਿਚ ਤੈ ਕਰਨਾ ਜਰੂਰੀ ਹੈ

ਇਕ ਇਹ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਰਾਏ ਦੇਣ ਦੇ ਕਵੀਲ ਭੀ ਹੈ

ਡਾਕਟਰ ਟੀਚਰ ਪੜੇ ਲਿਖੇ ਹੁੰਦੇ ਹਨ

ਸਲਾਹਕਾਰ ਯਾ ਨੁਕਤਾਚੀਨੀ ਕਰਨ ਵਾਲੇ ਨਹੀਂ

Work in silence . Let the results speak .

Creating Student Focussed Lessons

One framework to help create intentional, focused lessons is described in Understanding by Design by Grant Wiggins and Jay McTighe (2005).

Often referred to as backward design, the process has teachers set clear, measureable targets before they create instructional activities.

The stages of backward design can be seen in below Figure ;

Figure  UbD: Stages of Backward Design

Source: From Understanding by Design (expanded 2nd Ed.) Alexandria.

Identify desired results:

What should students know, understand, and be able to do? These outcomes typically come from standards, curriculum expectations, and pacing guides.

Determine acceptable evidence:

How will we know if students have achieved the desired results and met the standards? This can include both formal and informal evidence of student understanding and proficiency.

Plan learning experiences and instruction:

What activities will equip students with the necessary knowledge and skills? By choosing activities and strategies after clear, measureable results have been identified, instruction becomes more purposeful and intentional.

Important decisions must be made in each of these areas, but much of the real work of instructional design lies between the boxes in Figure in the arrows. How do we translate the results we desire into behaviors we can measure? And how do we create tasks and experiences that lead to these measureable outcomes?

 

 

 

Best Regards

Areef Irfan Mohammed

​M.Com; MBA;CICTL and CICEL from Cambridge University, UK​

arifirfanmd@gmail.com

This is an email received from Mr. Areef. Found worthy of reading and hence shared.

 

--
MTC GLOBAL- Educate, Empower, Elevate
---

Patience

Patience is an

essential ingredient

of the recipe

called "wisdom."

Work

Work in silence

Let the success speak loud.


Work hard,

Worship hard,

Share with others.

Be it wealth, knowledge or prosperity.

3 Attitudes

1." I" attitude: The most common among the people but least important. The speaker uses the word "I" in his speech frequently that represents that the speaker is self -centered and does not care for others' views. Quite dangerous and damaging for the society. Limited thinking, limited knowledge and limited learning. Humans having this attitude are pseudo to animals.

2. "You" attitude: The person having this attitude listens to others with a view to understand. This is better than the attitude #1. Most of the communication bridges are the outcome of this attitude. Like minded people are found by using this attitude.

3. "We" attitude: This attitude is difficult to develop but not impossible. Spirituality helps a lot in developing this attitude. Feeling of soul, god in all living creatures including humans irrespective of caste, creed, color, nationality, gender is the ingredient of this attitude.

Efforts

स्वपन और आकांशा के लिए
परिश्रम इतनी धीरता और सहजता
से करें

कि सफलता चारों दिशाओं में शोर मचा दे।





सहज व् शीतल शब्द श्रोता का मन की शुद्धि, उसकी बुधि और
समृधि में सहायक होती है।


 

Power of Education

 A good email received from the group is shared. I thank the sender professor. His information is shared below. In case, the honorable professor, wishes the information will be removed. Please send an email for this.

Dear friends,

Good morning.

“Education is the best friend.

An educated person is respected everywhere.

Education beats the beauty and the youth.”

-- Chanakya

With regards,

 

Dr. K. Sampath Kumar,  B.A. (Economics), BGL, M.Com., M.Phil., Cert. A.I.I.B.,
                                        MBA (Finance), MBA (HR & Marketing),  ACS, FCMA, Ph. D.,
Professor, SSN School of Management
C/o. SSN College of Engineering
Rajiv Gandhi Salai (OMR)KALAVAKKAM - 603110 Kancheepuram District, Tamil Nadu, India

 
Success consists of getting up
just one more time than you fall
-- Oliver Goldsmith

--
MTC GLOBAL- Educate, Empower, Elevate

Google Groups "Management Teachers Consortium, Global" group.
 

ATTITUDE CHECK

HOW CAN WE CHECK OUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS OTHERS.

The day before.  yesterday, I happened to accompany a student to an embassy for visa.

Scene at 8.50:

1. Security guards: a female and a male announcing: All those who have interview letters sent by the embassy submit their letters at the counter. Inside the counter, there was an attendant who was enquiring on the mic.

2. A white skinned male came and started performing yoga feats. I noticed that he was expert in yoga. He was wearing shorts and short vest. His hair was long and tied on the top.

3. Many persons came for the interview were laughing or commenting while he was performing yoga near the interview letter submission window.

4. After 10-20 minutes, the performer went inside the embassy premises.

5. A young white skinned girl seemed of my daughter's age wearing very small shorts and loose vest listening to music on her mobile phone kept on coming and going on the roads outside the embassy. She was having tattoos and long written something on her naked legs.

6. I observed that these two white skinned persons were not performing or moving without any reason. They were keenly  observing the behavior of the applicants who had come for interview.

7. My doubtful observation was confirmed by the tea vendor who shared:
   7.1 Both are the very high officers of the embassy.
   7.2 Both keep on observing the interviewees.
   7.3 Those who laugh, tease, taunt or interfere in their activities are not granted visa.
8. I observed: All are human beings. Everybody has the right to live her/his life in his/her own way. Nobody has the right to interfere in their living. Whosoever interferes without any reason or asking is in others' life  is treated as an intruder. Different cultures have different way of living. We should accept, adapt and respect them.
9. The fact was further confirmed by the student:
    Sir, the performer and that moving girl were the officers of the embassy and sitting on the interview table. Thank God I did not laugh, taunt, or raised my eye and have got visa.

So, BEWARE AND BE AWARE OF YOUR BEHAVIOUR WHEN YOU GO FOR THE INTERVIEW AT EMBASSY FOR VISA OR ANYWHERE ELSE FOR INTERVIEW

जव भी कभी इंटरव्यू पर जाएँ या किसी के साथ व्यव्हार करें तो यह ध्यान रखें की कोई आपके व्यव्हार से आतंकित , भयभीत या शर्मिन्दा न हो। ऐसा करना  आप को  जीवन में महंगा साबित हो सकता है।

 

Dr. Bhagubhai

                          CONGRATULATIONS

                                                  TO

                       Mrs. Kokila Ben

                         And

                 Dr. Bhagubhai Prajapati

                   

                  On the auspicious occasion

                              

                            of the marriage of   Their beloved son

                    

                                  Dr. Aplesh Prajapati

                                             With

                                   Dr. Pinal Prajapati

                On 9^th February, 2015.

                                                                                 

                                                                        With best compliments from

                                                                                              Prof P.K.Keshap

                                                                         Education Consultant of India

Detoxification of body

OIL PULLING

- AN AYURVEDIC WAY TO DETOXIFY YOUR BODY

AND FEEL FRESH

Today my daughter suggested me to go for oil pulling for detoxifying the body.

I agreed.

1. I put into the mouth two caps  of the bottle full with sesame oil.

2. I gargled with it for 3-4 minutes.

3. I spat out the oil and cleaned the mouth with warm water and salt mixed in it.

WOW :
Within next 15 minutes, I felt that

1 my head is light,

2. nose is clear.

3. Breathing is easier than earlier.

Other Benefits:

Regular use of this "oil pulling" an Ayurvedic way of detoxifying the body are:
1. It pulls the toxins from the body.
2. It improves the immune system.
3. Ailments of stomach like constipation are curtailed.

More practice and experience and feel.


तेल क्रिया -

शरीर को अंदुरनी तौर पर साफ रखने का आयुर्वेदिक तरीका

1 तिल के तेल से अपने मुँह को भरें
2 इससे अगले 5 मिनट तक कुरले करें
3 उसके बाद इसे थूक दे
4 उसके बाद पानी कोसा करें और इस में थोड़ा नमक मिलाएं
5 इस नमक के घोल से मुख को  साफ़ करें।  बहुत ही हल्का महसूस करेंगे।
इसके बाद अपने पितरो का धन्यबाद करें।  अपने इष्ट कर धन्यबाद करें।  आपका सारा दिन सफल होगा।

अब महसूस करें कि शरीर की शुध्दि कैसी हुयी है ?
मेरे अनुभव

मैंने महसूस किया
1 . मेरा सर बहुत हल्का महसूस कर रहा है
2   दांत साफ़ और चमकीले हो गए हैं
3   सांस  आसानी से आ रहा है।
4  नाक की क्रियाएँ बहुत आसान हो गयी हैं

यह एक आयुर्वेदिक तरीका है।  यदि तेल तिल का न हो तो सरसों के तेल का प्रयोग कर सकते हैं।

लगातार प्रयोग से फ़ायदे :

1  पेट के रोगों से नजात मिलेगी
2. शरीर की रोग प्रतिरोधक शक्ति बढ़ेगी
3  साँस लेने में आसानी महसूस होगी
4 दांतों की विमारियां समापत होंगी
5 मुख से बदबू काम होगी
6 नाक की क्रियाएँ आसान होंगी

आसान है।  करें और मेह्सू करें।

सुप्रभात सभी को

Pic courtesy: http://www.fashionlush.com/wtf-is-oil-pulling-why-im-hooked/

Be Responsible

जिम्मेबार बने

अपनी और अपने परिवार

की सेहत

और सुरक्षा  को समझें



पहला सुख निरोगी काया
दूसरा सुख जेब में माया

चलोगे तो पहुंचोगे

हिम्मत करने बालों की कभी हार नहीं होती

बेहिमतों की नय्या कभी पार नहीं होती।

अपने जीवन की जिम्मेबारी आप लें।
भूतकाल से सबक लेकर आज में भविषय के लिए सोचना और करना सफलता और सुख का साधन है।

जो इंसान मिले हुए अवसर (मौक़े ) गँवाता है
वही भबिष्य में पछताता है।

चेंज शॉप चेंज लाइफ






 

Gift of Life

जिंदगी

सीखते रहो      पढ़ते रहो     चलते रहो        बढ़ते रहो   जिंदगी चलने का नाम है   सफलता आपके हाथ में है  

जिंदगी सोचने और करने से बनती है सम्बर्ती है   केवल सोचने  य बातों से नहीं।

आप अपनी जिंदगी के खुद मालिक हो।

बनाने बाले ने आपको अपने जीवन को चलाने के लिए सब कुछ दिया है। उसका हर रोज धन्यवाद करें की उसने जीवन रूपी उपहार आपको दिया है

 अब आप अपने जीवन में सुगंध भरें या दुर्गन्ध मर्जी आपकी  है।  बुरी संगत  और आदतें अबगुण -पैदा करती हैं

सत्संगत  और अच्छी आदतें सद्गुण पैदा करके आपको महान बनाती।

गलती किस से नहीं होती।  दूसरों की गलतियां उछालो नहीं बल्कि उनसे सहानुभूति करके उनको दोवारा जीवन में आगे बढ़ने के लिए प्रेरित करें।

प्यार और सहानुभूति से संसार को जीता जा सकता है नफरत से नहीं।  मन में प्यार और सहानुभूति की ज्योति हमेशा जगाये रखें।

 अच्छे जीवन के लिए अपने खान पान ,चारों व् व्यव्हार (बचन व् आचरण )पर नियंत्रण जरुरी है।  आप सुखी परिवार , सुखी परिवारों के समूह राष्ट्र को सुखी बनाते हैं , सुखी समृद्ध राष्ट्र संसार को।  इसलिए परिवार सुखी संसार सुखी। 

Change Thinking Change Life

What you focus upon

intensely

becomes the reality

over a period of time.

सोच को बदलो

 सितारे नज़र आएंगे 




नज़र को बदलो

 नज़ारे नज़र आयेंगे 

Keep Learning

ਸੀਖਤੇ ਰਹੋ 


ਪੜਤੇ ਰਹੋ 


ਚਲਤੇ ਰਹੋ 


ਬੜਤੇ ਰਹੋ 


ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਚਲਣ ਦਾ ਨਾਂ ਹੈ 

CHALLENGE

DON'T LET YOUR CHALLENGES
LIMIT YOU

CHALLENGE YOUR LIMITATIONS

BENEFITS OF LEARNING

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करते रहो 

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