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बुधवार, 30 जून 2010
शुक्रवार, 25 जून 2010
STRESS AND ITS REMEDIES.
1. SLEEPLESS IS THE MAJOR CAUSE OF STRESS
2. MODERN DAY ATTITUDE FOR ACCUMMULATION OF WEALTH AND SHOW OF WEALTH IS THE SECOND REASON.
3. COMPARISON STRESSES MIND
4. QUALITY TIME SPENT WITH FAMILY REDUCES STRESS
5. UNRALISTIC UNACHIEVABLE GOALS ALSO CAUSE STRESS
6. STRESS AMONG CHILDREN IS GENERALLY CAUSED BY THE COMPARISON MADE BY THE PARENTS.
7.PARENTS GENERALLY FORCE THIER WILL UPON THE CHILDREN WHICH IN TURN TELLS UPON THEIR HEALTH.
8. PARENTS THROUGH THEIR BEHAVIOUR MAKE THEIR CHILDREN PUPPETS TO PERFORM BEFORE THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO MEET THE PARENTS.
9. PARTICPATION IN GAMES AND GOOD BEHAVIOUR BY PARENTS CAN REDUCE THE STRESS.
10. PARENTS SHOULD NOT COMPARE THE CHILDREN ON THE BASIS OF MARKS ONLY. RATHER THEY SHOULD TRY TO KNOW THE GOOD POINTS OF THEIR CHILD.
11. DON'T KILL SILENTLY YOUR CHILDREN FOR FALSE EGO AND SOCIAL REPUTATION.
12. NO BODY CAN STOP COMMENTING FROM THE PEOPLE. LEARN TO BEAR WITH THE COMMENTING FROM OTHERS. COMMENTING IS GENERALLY DONE BY ILLITERATE LESS EDUCATED PEOPLE. DON'T SACRIFICE YOUR KIDS FOR THE SAKE OF SAVING YOURSELF FROM THE SOCIAL COMMENTING. NOBODY REMEMBERS WHAT HE SAID AFTER A DAY.
13. TAKE HONEY TO BE MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY STRONG. WEAK MIND CANNOT TAKE COMMENTING EASILY. WORDS OF COMMENTER GO ON RINGING IN THE HEAD AND RESULT IN REACTION.
14. LIFE IS FOR ONE TIME. ONCE GONE, IT NEVER COMES BACK. FOLLOW LAW. LAW IS VERY HARSH FOR SUCH KIND OF BEHAVIOUR BY ANYONE. BEWARE.
2. MODERN DAY ATTITUDE FOR ACCUMMULATION OF WEALTH AND SHOW OF WEALTH IS THE SECOND REASON.
3. COMPARISON STRESSES MIND
4. QUALITY TIME SPENT WITH FAMILY REDUCES STRESS
5. UNRALISTIC UNACHIEVABLE GOALS ALSO CAUSE STRESS
6. STRESS AMONG CHILDREN IS GENERALLY CAUSED BY THE COMPARISON MADE BY THE PARENTS.
7.PARENTS GENERALLY FORCE THIER WILL UPON THE CHILDREN WHICH IN TURN TELLS UPON THEIR HEALTH.
8. PARENTS THROUGH THEIR BEHAVIOUR MAKE THEIR CHILDREN PUPPETS TO PERFORM BEFORE THE PEOPLE WHO COME TO MEET THE PARENTS.
9. PARTICPATION IN GAMES AND GOOD BEHAVIOUR BY PARENTS CAN REDUCE THE STRESS.
10. PARENTS SHOULD NOT COMPARE THE CHILDREN ON THE BASIS OF MARKS ONLY. RATHER THEY SHOULD TRY TO KNOW THE GOOD POINTS OF THEIR CHILD.
11. DON'T KILL SILENTLY YOUR CHILDREN FOR FALSE EGO AND SOCIAL REPUTATION.
12. NO BODY CAN STOP COMMENTING FROM THE PEOPLE. LEARN TO BEAR WITH THE COMMENTING FROM OTHERS. COMMENTING IS GENERALLY DONE BY ILLITERATE LESS EDUCATED PEOPLE. DON'T SACRIFICE YOUR KIDS FOR THE SAKE OF SAVING YOURSELF FROM THE SOCIAL COMMENTING. NOBODY REMEMBERS WHAT HE SAID AFTER A DAY.
13. TAKE HONEY TO BE MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY STRONG. WEAK MIND CANNOT TAKE COMMENTING EASILY. WORDS OF COMMENTER GO ON RINGING IN THE HEAD AND RESULT IN REACTION.
14. LIFE IS FOR ONE TIME. ONCE GONE, IT NEVER COMES BACK. FOLLOW LAW. LAW IS VERY HARSH FOR SUCH KIND OF BEHAVIOUR BY ANYONE. BEWARE.
सोमवार, 21 जून 2010
TRUE LIVING
Mr. Singh, a youngman of 34 years, migrated from Punjab (India) to Canada six years back. He is Master of Science by education. He did his Masters in Plant Breeding from world renowned University, Punjab Agricultural University. His mentor found that Mr. Singh's soul is more than he appears to the people around him. He motivated, mentored and encouraged him every time. Despite certain physical disabilities, Mr. Singh was able to overcome them. He was able to combat family, friends and peer pressure boldly. The first job he did in Canada was driving of the truck. This enabled him to visit every nook and corner of Canada and America. Many times he confessed scornfully that job was not upto his education. But his mentor always suggested to love the job and do not attach a tag of education. Today he is self-employed- an independent person, a contributor to the real world and its progress. Had he quit the job, he would have not reached the level he is today.
Having become aware about the topography of these two renowned countries of the world, Mr. Singh moved further in his career. Recently he bought a truck for C$ 60000- an achievement beyond his expectations and calculations. Today he is self-employed and is very happy.
He appreciates the continuous daily mentoring by his mentor in India over phone. Encouraging words make a person bold and brave to go up the ladder of success. Discouragers drag downward. Beware. This is his self development tale.
Now I switch over to his heart and the invisible natural help. A few years back, a young girl from Canada, not remotely known to him asked for help. The girl's mother is from UK and father from another country. Girl was born and raised in Canada. Mr. Singh helped her with C$ 1200 .
Last week , he was unable to lift the load from his company that had to earn him C$ 700. But his vehicle was not fit. He pleaded with his company," This kind of small loads will not enable me to earn enough to pay the instalment of my vehicle." "Sorry, Mr. Singh, I will take care in future to give you a heavy load for long distances so that you may earn well, " was the humble and quick answer from the company owner. He appreciated his gesture and kept enjoying his off-day sitting in his room.
Just then the phone rang, " Hello Mr. Gurmeet Singh Aitiana. How are you? You remember me." Before he could recollect who the caller was, the voice was heard, " I am Christie, the girl you helped a few years back. I am very thankful to you that you helped me when I needed the help very urgently. I am now able to repay you C$ 1200. I rang up so many times, but you appeared to be in USA and hence the network answered - the phone is switched off. Thank God I am able to contact you. I am coming to pay back your C$1200."
Now Mr. Singh was thinking, how God works. He lost load that could earn him C$700 but he earned C$1200 without even stepping out of his house. He raised his eyes and hands in appreciation and thanks to the invisible God saying "Waheguru, you are great. You show your presence by small, small events in our daily. " Helping our brothern and sisters is TRUE LIVING.
It is not the first case. Earlier too he had shown compassion for humans from other countries. A Philipine girl expressed her desire to get education. She expressed her inability because she could not pay her fee. Very intelligently, Mr. Singh, asked her to inform the name of the educational institution and he immediately remitted US$ 200. The girl though unkown, never met face to face is studying in the that educational institution.
In another incident, Mr. Singh helped a Russian boy who was in trouble. They became friends and Mr. Singh visits his home regularly. The Russian's mother, though does not know the language to communicate her feelings and thanks to Mr. Singh, keeps on scrolling her fingers through his hair. Looking into her eyes, one can easily gauge and infer that she is blessing Mr. Singh for what he has done for her son.
Helping humans with money or otherwise when they are in need is TRUE LIVING of which Mr. Singh is an embodiment.
Hats off to Mr. Singh.
Having become aware about the topography of these two renowned countries of the world, Mr. Singh moved further in his career. Recently he bought a truck for C$ 60000- an achievement beyond his expectations and calculations. Today he is self-employed and is very happy.
He appreciates the continuous daily mentoring by his mentor in India over phone. Encouraging words make a person bold and brave to go up the ladder of success. Discouragers drag downward. Beware. This is his self development tale.
Now I switch over to his heart and the invisible natural help. A few years back, a young girl from Canada, not remotely known to him asked for help. The girl's mother is from UK and father from another country. Girl was born and raised in Canada. Mr. Singh helped her with C$ 1200 .
Last week , he was unable to lift the load from his company that had to earn him C$ 700. But his vehicle was not fit. He pleaded with his company," This kind of small loads will not enable me to earn enough to pay the instalment of my vehicle." "Sorry, Mr. Singh, I will take care in future to give you a heavy load for long distances so that you may earn well, " was the humble and quick answer from the company owner. He appreciated his gesture and kept enjoying his off-day sitting in his room.
Just then the phone rang, " Hello Mr. Gurmeet Singh Aitiana. How are you? You remember me." Before he could recollect who the caller was, the voice was heard, " I am Christie, the girl you helped a few years back. I am very thankful to you that you helped me when I needed the help very urgently. I am now able to repay you C$ 1200. I rang up so many times, but you appeared to be in USA and hence the network answered - the phone is switched off. Thank God I am able to contact you. I am coming to pay back your C$1200."
Now Mr. Singh was thinking, how God works. He lost load that could earn him C$700 but he earned C$1200 without even stepping out of his house. He raised his eyes and hands in appreciation and thanks to the invisible God saying "Waheguru, you are great. You show your presence by small, small events in our daily. " Helping our brothern and sisters is TRUE LIVING.
It is not the first case. Earlier too he had shown compassion for humans from other countries. A Philipine girl expressed her desire to get education. She expressed her inability because she could not pay her fee. Very intelligently, Mr. Singh, asked her to inform the name of the educational institution and he immediately remitted US$ 200. The girl though unkown, never met face to face is studying in the that educational institution.
In another incident, Mr. Singh helped a Russian boy who was in trouble. They became friends and Mr. Singh visits his home regularly. The Russian's mother, though does not know the language to communicate her feelings and thanks to Mr. Singh, keeps on scrolling her fingers through his hair. Looking into her eyes, one can easily gauge and infer that she is blessing Mr. Singh for what he has done for her son.
Helping humans with money or otherwise when they are in need is TRUE LIVING of which Mr. Singh is an embodiment.
Hats off to Mr. Singh.
शनिवार, 5 जून 2010
NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
This is an email received from Karim Hazi creator of www.creatingpower.comGET RID OF NEGATIVE THOUGHTS
Negative thoughts can and will destroy your life!
A mind filled with negative thoughts will make you feel miserable, inadequate and will lead you to failure after failure no matter how hard you try to succeed.
If you have a pattern of negative thinking you'll be in debt and end up in destructive or negative raltionships.
If you want to succeed, enjoy happiness and live a life of abundance, and prosperity- you have to eliminate any nagative thinking and negative beliefs.
You'll also have to replace those negative thoughts with positive thoughts that allow you to succeed and enjoy life.
While this may sound challenging, it's a lot easier than you think and today I'm going to oputline just how you can eliminate naegative thinking and begin creating the life you want in a few simple steps.
Let's face it, we all have negative thoughts. As much as you try you won't be able to eliminate all your negative thinking.
But you can eliminate the nagative thoughts and negative beliefs that prevent you from succeeeding and achiving your goals.
Where do these thoughts come from?
They come from your friends, your family, your fellow co-workers, achievers, teachers, even strangers- and they come from you - that's right! You often create most of the negative thoughts that you have - and it's only because you haven't trained your mind to be positive and you haven't created positive beliefs that allow you to succeed.
Everyday you are bombarded with a series of negative thoughts, negative messages, and as you continue to absorb all of these negative messages you create a negative thinking pattern that leads to negative and limiting beliefs.
Negative thoughts are like weeds,- if you don't take care of themj and clear them early on- they will take over your entire mind and destroy positive thoughts and beliefs.
When you're young your mind is more optimistic. But as you get older- the weeds of negative thinking start to pop up. When you don't control them they start to wipe out all that was lush and positive in your mind and in your life.
The weeds of negative thinking not only taint your mind - they spill over into your life and start destroying all that you treasure and appreciate.
But you can turn this around and eliminate the negative thinking. Yoiu can eliminate the weeds, plant new seeds and create a new life and a new way of thinking - One that will allow you to enjoy life of great deal.
How?
You start by replacing the weeds of negative thiking with positive thoughts, positive feelings, and begin spreading this positive message to other people.
When you have negative thought that says you can't do something - think of why you can do something. Write down your abilities to do that something. Give message to your mind that you can do that something. Mind will start searching the ways and means to do that something.
When you think of what might go wrong - change these negative thoughts and think about what can go right!
When you feel that you can't accomplish something - think of why you can accomplish something.
Recite affirmations - these are the seeds of your new positive way of thinking.
Work with as many techniques as you can to get rid of the weeds and plant new seeds for positive thinking and positive living.
When will you see the changes?
When you're ready and when you eliminate the negative thinking. Start removing the negative thoughts that create the weeds of your mind. Begin changing negative and limiting beliefs. Empower yourself with positive thoughts and positive beliefs. Start today .
Say YES I WILL AND START. Don't wait.
Tend to the garden of your mind. Begin removing the weeds of negative and limiting thinking. Replace these weeds with new seeds - of positive thinking, positive feelings and positive living.
Spread the good will by sharing with others- this is infectious and will only allow you to continue to expand your new, positive lifestyle. It will also help you attract more positive situations into your life.
Continue watering your new garden in your mind by working with affirmations and other positive techniques- this will keep the weeds of negative thinking out of your mind and help you move in a new, positive direction.
BELIEVE:
You can and will eliminate negative thinking.
You can re-train your mind.
You can direct your subconscious mind to create the changes you want.
You can achieve all your goals.
You are a powerful human being who can and will enjoy the success and happiness you deserve - but only when you decide it's time to take charge and turn things around.
This is your life - make the most of it.
Don't let the weeds of negative thinking destroy your life.
Eliminate the weeds, plant the new seeds for positive thinking and positive living - and you'll begin creting the life you want.
P.S.: Remember - you only get one life and one choice. Make the most of it. Stop defeating yourself, stop limiting yourself. Create all the success you want and deserve in life.
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बुधवार, 2 जून 2010
INTUTION
A friend of mine has disclosed to me that Mrs. X is reporting the activities of her daughter to us continuously. It appears that she is mentally prepared to marry her daughter off to my son who is in XII class. Her daughter has scored 89% marks in Xth class. My son and her daughter are tall ennough make a best match. Only caste is the problem. This I am posting to see if this intution and apprehension come true in the near future or not.
रविवार, 16 मई 2010
POWER OF TRUTH
PATH OF RELIGION
Truth generates and creates sunshine in the life of an individual. It provides a ladder to human life to reach its zenith. It also protects the self-respect and self-image of the truth seeker and practitioner. Moral strength increases with the practice of truth. Falsehood has a short life.
One more fact about truth. The practioner of truth is always fearless. His mind is never cluttered with clumsy and wavering thoughts. Designing of evil projects and weaving cobwebs of thoughts is alian to truth practioner. Truth results in ever-lasting peace and prosperity as energy is not wated on falsehood.
Humans of truth have been able to achieve unthinkable successes and achievements in the history of human evolution. Truth and surrender are the two pillars upon which great successes have been achieved. The happiness which comes from the actions based on truth cannot be described in words. It can only be felt by the peerson who practises truth.
Human dignity is standing on the pedastal of truth. Falsehood leads to fall in real life.
Falsehood is the biggest enemy of an individual. Falsehood is short lived and does not help even the practitioner. Public criticism and loss of reputation are the two most notorious results of falsehood. Falsehood leads an individual to personal and social decline. One should avoid falsehood at any cost in life. Life is a great gift of Nature. Respect it. Love it. Protect it.
Celebrate it. Lead it in a pious way.
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Truth generates and creates sunshine in the life of an individual. It provides a ladder to human life to reach its zenith. It also protects the self-respect and self-image of the truth seeker and practitioner. Moral strength increases with the practice of truth. Falsehood has a short life.
One more fact about truth. The practioner of truth is always fearless. His mind is never cluttered with clumsy and wavering thoughts. Designing of evil projects and weaving cobwebs of thoughts is alian to truth practioner. Truth results in ever-lasting peace and prosperity as energy is not wated on falsehood.
Humans of truth have been able to achieve unthinkable successes and achievements in the history of human evolution. Truth and surrender are the two pillars upon which great successes have been achieved. The happiness which comes from the actions based on truth cannot be described in words. It can only be felt by the peerson who practises truth.
Human dignity is standing on the pedastal of truth. Falsehood leads to fall in real life.
Falsehood is the biggest enemy of an individual. Falsehood is short lived and does not help even the practitioner. Public criticism and loss of reputation are the two most notorious results of falsehood. Falsehood leads an individual to personal and social decline. One should avoid falsehood at any cost in life. Life is a great gift of Nature. Respect it. Love it. Protect it.
Celebrate it. Lead it in a pious way.
Contrary to this, truth is the invaluable asset of human life. Truth brings welfare to all in the society.
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THE ART OF UNITY
GETTING RIGHT
MAINTAINING A haromonius joing family requires leadership, manaement and communication. Ettiquette exper ^Archie Sehgal tells us how to make it work.
LEADERSHIP SKILLS
BE SELFLESS:
The first step is to surrender the concept of "self". Make an effort to think about others first.
TOELRATING
A joint family arrangement will test you. Annoying habits and conflicting personalities must be tolerated with patience and a positive attitude. Talking it out with the person concerned can build up the foundation for alasting relationship.
A joint family arrangement will test you. Annoying habits and conflicting personalities must be tolerated with patience and a positive attitude. Talking it out with the person concerned can build up the foundation for alasting relationship.
THE BENEFIT OF DOUBT:
If a family member misbehaves in a fit of anger, you should suggest reasons justifying
their actions. Your family members will admire your diplomacy.
SACRIFICE
Find the courage to sacrifice something you may want in the interest of another family member.
Although, do politely mention the sacrifice made. And, your selfless act won't be in vain.
The benefactor will appreciate it and most likely wait for an occasion to recipocate.
SHARING
Share everything with your family. From clothes, jewellery and books to your experiences, worries and problems. Sharing yourself will help your family to better understand you.
GIVE DUE CREDIT
Family members must be appreciated for their efforts. But at the same time, applaud all members, even those who haven't performed. This encouragement will instigate effort.
TAKE IT IN STRIDE
Your patience will be tested and there will be events and behaviour you won't approve of. The moment something undesirable takes place, have the power to tell yourself. "So what?"
EXPRESS YOUR GRIEVANCES
Don't keep your feelings bottled up. Also, avoid complaining about the problem to another family member. Approach the person directly and openly express whatev er is bothering using polite, befitting respectable words and body language. No trading of blames. This will help your overcome the problem and move on. This will forge unity and maintain peace in the family.
IN HARMONY
* Always project your family as one unit.
* While partaking in conversations in public, use 'we' 'our' and 'us'.
* If your achievements make your stand out from the rest of the family, be humble and always share the credit with your family whether it's for their help, cooperation, inspiration or moral support.
* Introduce your family to your friends and colleagues.
TIME MANAGEMENT
If you have hectic schedule, make time for home by involving family members in your morning routine. Have your morning tea, read the newspaper or have your breakfast in the company of other family members. You can also work on the laptop in their company. This enables you to make up on lost time. And, when you reach home, devote the first half an hour to your family. This is also the perfect opportunity to share your experiences of the day. Exercising or going for walks together is another good option. Faith, family and friends matter in life to make life 'heaven'. Remmeber it.
PEACEFUL LIVING
*Greet your elders in the morning.
* Instead of informing, the youngsters should seek permission from their elders. Try to use statements like "May I go?' instead of "I am going. "
*Express your love and afection. This will put others around you in a good mood.
* Create a common sense of belonging among all children of the joint family, irrespective of who belongs to whom . I mean cousins should be treated like siblings.
TAKING A STAND
Every family member is unique so don't be afraid to be yourself. Let your personality shine through. Have the courage to stand up for yourself and don't let other family members take you for granted.
ASSERT YOUR VIEWS
* Initiate dialogue to express your grievances.
* Do not resort to drama in an attempt to alleviate problems - that will only make them worse.
* Have one-on-one cpmversations with the senior members of the family about the problems you are facing. Brainstorm ways to solve them together.
*Perform your duties diligently and politely mention the same if your're ever confronted.
*When a hectic work schedule is approachable, mention it well in advance so everyone can mentally prepare themselves for your absence.
* If unwell, inform the family so they know why you're keeping to yourself.
GEN ERATION CLASH
Pleasing both the older and younger generations can prove to be a challenge. The elders, often overprotective, claim to have the life experience, and the your desire to be more carefree. Find a balance.
GRANDPARENTS' GUIDE TO HAPPINESS
*Do not nag your teenage grandchild over trivial issues, instead discuss the issue as if they are an adult.
* Do not repprimand your grandchild in front of other family members.
* Never draw comparisons between your grandchildren and do not compare them with their parents.
* The more positive you are with your grandchildren, the more positive they will be. Praising them will motivate them to live up to the wonderful image you have of them.
*Surprise your grandchild with one of the latest CDs or DVDs. This will make them feel that you can relate to their age.
* No matter how difficult your teenager may be, just remember that he/she is the same beaultiful child who grew up in your arms.
* Work on develping a friendship with your grandchildren. This will encourage them to spend more time with you.
*Once you have bonded with the younger generation, getting them to listen won't be as much of challenge.
THE TEEN WAY
* Spend quality time with your grand parents and discuss their concerns over your schedule or lifestyle.
*All your life you have been the benefciary of the joint family, now it's your responsibility to follow the norms of the family.
* You should abserve the restrictions to food and other activities while at bome due to religious reasons. This pays in long run during later years of life.
* When you are desparate for permission, talk to your grandparents about it in confidence.
*Introduce your group of friends to your grandparents. it will help you get permission for future outings with them.
*Your grand parents have years of life experience on their side, so discussing your problems with them can be helpful.
^The writer runs a placement institute that provides courses in finishing grooming and corporate training with focus on impression management, etiquette and life skills.
SOURCE: THE HINDUSTAN TIMES, Sunday, 16th May, 2010l.
गुरुवार, 13 मई 2010
RELIEF FOR LANDLORDS
HIGH COURT RELIEF FOR LAND LORDS
Landlords can get house vacated in 6 months.
By SAURABH MALIK
TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE
CHANDIGARH, May 11
Landlords can get house vacated in 6 months.
By SAURABH MALIK
TRIBUNE NEWS SERVICE
CHANDIGARH, May 11
In six months, you may be able to your premises vacated from your tenant on the ground of personal necessity. Decade old cases will be decided in three months.
For, the Punjab and Haryana High Court today issued a slew of directions for cutting down the delay in the disposal of cases. Justice SD Anand ruled: Every petition based upon an averment of personal necessity or a petition filed by a specified landlord would be disposed of within six months of the filing thereof. For expeditious disposal, the judicial courts shall have to accord noticeable and compulsive priority to those cases.
"More than 10-year old cases shall be positively wiped out within 3 months from the cut - off date that is May 14. For that expeditious disposal, the courts would be entitled to prepone the date of hearing after notifying the parties opposite."
"Over five year -old cases shall be completely annihilated upon within six months from the cut off date that is May 14. It will be the administrative responsibility of the district judge to monitor the progress of this type of cases, wherever those are pending, by resorting to whatever methology they may like to adopt in their own discretion. Quality of supervision would be a part of their administrative acumen, which they are expected to display."
For monitoring the progress, Justice Anand ordered Punjab Registrar(Vigilance) would be the nodal officer for the entire state of Punjab and also the Union Territory. Similarly, Haryana Registrar (Vigilance) would be the nodal officer for the entire state of Haryana.
The nodal officers shall be entitled to oversee the progress of these cases on the administrative side and furnish a report in the relevant behalf by the seventh of every month. Their responsibility in this behalf would be an exercise in continuity till further orders of the court on the judicial side. "
Justice Anand added," The current are trying and prying times for our instituion, which is the constitutionally announced sentinel of justice.The former expression has been used to signify that our institution has to redeem itself by annihilating the old pendency particularly in a scenario where certain quarters are even endeavouring a resort to RTI for finding out the causes of delay.
"We have to evolve our own in-system mechanism to take care of the malaise of large pendency. It can also be done by prioritising the pendency."
SOURCE: THE TRIBUNE May 12, 2010.
SOURCE: THE TRIBUNE May 12, 2010.
गुरुवार, 6 मई 2010
CHEQUE BOUNCING GUIDELINES
SC GUIDELINES
TO
SETTLE CHEQUE-BOUNCE CASES
The Supreme Court of India has issued guidelines for encouraging quick settlement of cheque bounce cases, stipulating graded penality ranging from 0-20 per cent of cheque amount, depending upon delay.
If the accused made an application compounding the offences at the first or the second hearing of the case, the trial court would allow it without imposing any costs, a three-member Bench headed by Chief Justice KG Balakrishanan ruled.
The magistrate concerend would impose a penality of 10 per cent on any request made after the second hearing. Similarly, if the application for compounding is made before a sessions court or a High Court in revision or appeal, the accused would have to pay 15 per cent of the cheque amount by way of costs.
At the Supreme Court level the penality would be 20 per cent, the Bench, which included Justice P.Sathasivam and JM Panchal, said. The guidelines issued in view of a legal vacuum on the subject were also aimed at facilitating quick disposal of 30 lakh cheque-dishonour cases pending in various courts.
Source: The Tribune May 6, 2010.
GREEN THOUGHTS
IM Soni brings out the joys of maintaining a kitchen garden in the middle. "Green fingers" (April 30) Man's longing for seeing tiny seed sprouting into beautiful plants is understandable as both have roots in the mother earth.
We can find joy in plants and trees, if we are bored by the rush of bustiling crowds on our streets.
There is a myriad variety of plants, flowers, trees and birds around us which we fail to notice. In the daily rush of our lives, we forget to appreciate nature's bounty. If we sit for a while and clear the cobwebs blurring the memories of our childhood, we can definitely remember climbing up a gauva tree or stealing mangos while the gardener was away.
In the face of catching up with life, the real wonder of life like trees, flowers, birds, dandelions and beetles are left behind. If we stop and look at a tree, we will wonder why we are in such hurry! We can learn a lot from trees- the virtue of patiences, giving fruits and shade to one and all without discrimination.
BHUSHAN CHANDER JINDAL, JALANDHAR
A LETTER TO THE TRIBUNE May, 6, 2010
INVASION OF PRIVACY
NO LIE DETECTOR TESTS SAYS
SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
'NARCO, POLYGRAPH & BRAIN MAPPING INVADE PRIVACY"
The Supreme Court of India is of the view. " No individual can be forced and subjected to such techniques involuntarily, and by doing so it amounts to unwarranted intrusion of personal liberty. "
Source: The Tribune May 6, 2010.
SUPREME COURT OF INDIA
'NARCO, POLYGRAPH & BRAIN MAPPING INVADE PRIVACY"
The Supreme Court of India is of the view. " No individual can be forced and subjected to such techniques involuntarily, and by doing so it amounts to unwarranted intrusion of personal liberty. "
Source: The Tribune May 6, 2010.
बुधवार, 28 अप्रैल 2010
EDUCATION LOAN
EDUCATION FOR ALL. THE ELIGIBILE (6 -14 YEARS OF AGE) CHILDREN CAN NOW SEEK EDUCATION FREE OF ANY FEE UNDER RIGHT TO EDUCATION ENACTED BY GOVT. OF INDIA. EDUCATION IS LIGHT. ILLITERACY IS DARKNESS.
Government of Indian in consultation with Reserve Bank of India (RBI) and Indian Banker's Association (IBA) has framed a Comprehensive Loan Scheme to ensure that no deserving student is deprived of higher education for want of finances. The new scheme covers all types of courses in India or abroad including professional courses in schools and colleges.
The salient features of the scheme are :
1. The scheme envisages loans upto Rs. 7.50 lacs for studies in India and upto Rs. 15.00 lacs abroad.
2. For loans upto Rs. 4.00 lacs no margins or collatoral is required and the interest rate is not to exceed the Prime Lending Rate(PLR). For loans above Rs. 4.00 lacs the interest rate will not exceed PLR plus 1 per cent.
3. Loans are to be repaid in a period of 5 to 7 years with a grace period of one year from the date of completion.
TAX BENEFIT:
Loan Repayment up to Rs. 40000/- is deductible under section 80E of Income Tax Act for a period of 8 years. This deduction is available for the full time professional or other courses.
Reserve Bank of India has instructed all commercial banks to sanction theses loans.\
So, now education is easier to pursue.
In another milestone in the history of India, Unique Identity Card is being introduced. The project is likely to be completed by the end of this year 2010. This unique card will be enough to avail the various welfare schemes of the government. This card has been renamed as "Aadhar" meaning foundation.
In another unique feat by human soul, television is showing a person practising "hath yoga". The 82 years old man has not taken any food or drunk any water for the past over 65 years. 35 renowned doctors have put the man under observation from 22nd April, 2010 to 7th May, 2010 to find out how he has managed to live for so many years without food and water. The doctors from NASA and other countries have come to Hyderabad to observe the old man. The observing doctors conducted a Press Conference and declared that his brain analysis (MRI) has revealed that his brain is as good as that of 25 years' boy. "This is miracle," they say.
The man is calm, quiet, happy and has faith in infinite power of soul. This is "hatth yoga". This proves that man is not body but soul. He says that he gets the power to live from one drop of nectar that drops from his "pituatary gland." Television channels are regularly showing him as agile and awake under observation.
Government of Indian in consultation with Reserve Bank of India (RBI) and Indian Banker's Association (IBA) has framed a Comprehensive Loan Scheme to ensure that no deserving student is deprived of higher education for want of finances. The new scheme covers all types of courses in India or abroad including professional courses in schools and colleges.
The salient features of the scheme are :
1. The scheme envisages loans upto Rs. 7.50 lacs for studies in India and upto Rs. 15.00 lacs abroad.
2. For loans upto Rs. 4.00 lacs no margins or collatoral is required and the interest rate is not to exceed the Prime Lending Rate(PLR). For loans above Rs. 4.00 lacs the interest rate will not exceed PLR plus 1 per cent.
3. Loans are to be repaid in a period of 5 to 7 years with a grace period of one year from the date of completion.
TAX BENEFIT:
Loan Repayment up to Rs. 40000/- is deductible under section 80E of Income Tax Act for a period of 8 years. This deduction is available for the full time professional or other courses.
Reserve Bank of India has instructed all commercial banks to sanction theses loans.\
So, now education is easier to pursue.
In another milestone in the history of India, Unique Identity Card is being introduced. The project is likely to be completed by the end of this year 2010. This unique card will be enough to avail the various welfare schemes of the government. This card has been renamed as "Aadhar" meaning foundation.
In another unique feat by human soul, television is showing a person practising "hath yoga". The 82 years old man has not taken any food or drunk any water for the past over 65 years. 35 renowned doctors have put the man under observation from 22nd April, 2010 to 7th May, 2010 to find out how he has managed to live for so many years without food and water. The doctors from NASA and other countries have come to Hyderabad to observe the old man. The observing doctors conducted a Press Conference and declared that his brain analysis (MRI) has revealed that his brain is as good as that of 25 years' boy. "This is miracle," they say.
The man is calm, quiet, happy and has faith in infinite power of soul. This is "hatth yoga". This proves that man is not body but soul. He says that he gets the power to live from one drop of nectar that drops from his "pituatary gland." Television channels are regularly showing him as agile and awake under observation.
शनिवार, 24 अप्रैल 2010
सोमवार, 25 जनवरी 2010
The MOTIVATION #8
The meaning of man’s life
Matches the marvels of
Man’s labor.
The value of work and its contribution to achievement
Has long been recognized by philosophers, teachers,
Poets, writers, and business people; they all have endorsed,
“Nothing does as much good for a man,
As a hard day’s work.”
Henry Ford II said;
“The first specific qualification for success
In my view is a strong work ethic.”
Paul J.Meyer says:
“Work is PURE JOY!
…work refines character,
….Work weeds-out the garden of the mind,
…..Work overcomes adversity and defeat.
…..Work is the breath of life.
…..Work is the reward for being alive.”
The reality remains
Work is life, and good work is good life.
Hence,
Learn to enjoy your work; work long and hard,
And give your job extra burst and energy,
If you do it that way; you’ll stand a
Much better chance of reaching your goal.
The MOTIVATIONS #7
You will not do
Incredible things
Without
An incredible dream.
Dreams are untapped possibilities
within us waiting to be born.
They are the beauty of the human mind,
To do anything that we want to do.
They are the strength of the human will,
To trust our-self to test out limits,
They are the courage to succeed,
They are the material out of which
We can build our future.
If you want to live a life of greatness,
Don’t let of your dreams or think of them as too outlandish,
Or merely as fantasies; instead honor them; as messages
From the deepest past of your being. Spend some quality
Time with them. They are real to the extent that you value them,
Commit to them, learn the skills you lack and act upon them.
Always remind yourself
“Life rewards those who aren’t afraid to step out in the
directions of their dreams.”
So, be that person today and everyday from now on,
Who claims the dream he has for himself, and believes himself
Of being capable of achieving whatever
He want in his life.
The MOTIVATION #6
Positive anything is better
Than negative nothing
Positive thinking is an amazing tool which can enable
Anyone to achieve a more fulfilling and successful life.
Through harnessing the power of positive thinking
Your mind is tuned in to expect success.
And virtually, it will make you feel sure of it so that
You know deep down you WILL succeed
In whatever you are doing. In fact, all human wisdom
Is summed up in two words – wait and hope.
A POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS THE FIRST PRINCIPLE,
BY WHICH YOU MAY BENEFIT BY THE MAGIC POWER OF BELIEVING.
Thomas A.Edison BELIEVED that he could perfect the incandescent
Electric lamp despite the fact, that he failed more than
Ten thousand times before, he made his belief come true.
Marconi BELIEVED that the ether could be made to carry the vibrations of sound without the use of wires and he carried on through many failures until he was rewarded by victory.
Columbus BELIEVED that he would find land in an uncharted ocean and he sailed on and on, despite the threatened mutiny of his sailors, until he found land.
Henry Ford BELIEVED that he could build a horseless buggy that would provide low cost rapid transportation, and, despite the skepticism of many people;
Positive thinkers are the forerunners of civilization, the builders of industries, the creators of Empires, the revealers of the bountiful benefits made available to us by the Creator (God) of all things.
The MOTIVATION #6
Positive anything is better
Than negative nothing
Positive thinking is an amazing tool which can enable
Anyone to achieve a more fulfilling and successful life.
Through harnessing the power of positive thinking
Your mind is tuned in to expect success.
And virtually, it will make you feel sure of it so that
You know deep down you WILL succeed
In whatever you are doing. In fact, all human wisdom
Is summed up in two words – wait and hope.
A POSITIVE ATTITUDE IS THE FIRST PRINCIPLE,
BY WHICH YOU MAY BENEFIT BY THE MAGIC POWER OF BELIEVING.
Thomas A.Edison BELIEVED that he could perfect the incandescent
Electric lamp despite the fact, that he failed more than
Ten thousand times before, he made his belief come true.
Marconi BELIEVED that the ether could be made to carry the vibrations of sound without the use of wires and he carried on through many failures until he was rewarded by victory.
Columbus BELIEVED that he would find land in an uncharted ocean and he sailed on and on, despite the threatened mutiny of his sailors, until he found land.
Henry Ford BELIEVED that he could build a horseless buggy that would provide low cost rapid transportation, and, despite the skepticism of many people;
Positive thinkers are the forerunners of civilization, the builders of industries, the creators of Empires, the revealers of the bountiful benefits made available to us by the Creator (God) of all things.
The MOTIVATIONS #5
It is the nature of man
To rise to greatness
If greatness is expected of him
When you expect greatness from someone,
You set that stage for them to be great,
You stretch their thinking,
You help them raise the bar on
What they see as possible for themselves,
You force them to realize that playing small is not acceptable,
And they usually rise to the occasion,
George S.Patton said,
Don’t tell people how to do things; tell them what to do
And let them surprise you with the results.
Start to EXPECT
- Share your thinking with your team,
BE SPECIFIC
What would greatness look like from your team?
The MOTIVATION #4
No one is so good
That he has no bad in him, and
No one is so bad that
He has no good in him
We human beings are a complex lot,
Many religious writings and great literary works are based upon
The constant struggle between good and evil
That goes on inside every one of us.
This struggle is as old as mankind itself.
Yet, while we recognize our own inner struggles,
We are often quick to condemn others.
Psychologists tell us that
There is no such thing as bad person;
There are only bad behaviours.
Make it a point to look for the good in yourself and in others.
Nurture the good character trait and work on the ones
That may need improvement.
Like plants in a garden, the character traits that grows
Strong and productive will be those that are fed,
Watered, and weeded regularly.
Source: PAPERPASSION
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