7 Stages of Life- My View

For easy understanding of life, the 7 stages are in general are experienced by a human being : Spills, Drills, Skills, Thrills, Ills, Bills, Wills

Stage 1:

Spills: Child comes into the world and world is a school of learning. Child learns out of curiosity. As the child grows, the curiosity like child goes on declining. Child learns many tricks and tips of life by spilling e.g. spilling the water, milk or messing up with other things of the existing world. He tries, fails and does the wrongly and elders teach him how to do that thing in a proper way. Everything right from toilet management to eating food and drinking milk is taught by the society.

Stage II: Drills: Next comes the more difficult, regorous and regular drills fit for living a good life. Mentally, child resists but when imposed harshly by parents, family and society he reluctantly goes on doing those drills. Parents, family and society believes in the dictum " Practice makes a man perfect." On the basis of this dictum everychild is sent to the school. School drills and inducts the good qualities like discipline, regularity, social living, team spirit, leading and following etc. This stage is also performed by informal learning if the child fails to attend the school. Informal learning is generally wider and provided by the religious institutions. In India , there are family gods, village gods and then religious places like temples, Gurudwara, Mosques and Churches where children get basic learning of life.

Path Ways to Knowledge

Brain is the engine of the train called body. Brain is said to have about 15000 million brain cells called neurons. Neorons may be called store houses of information received by a child. On birth, the child has about 3750 million stores houses and receives the information from the environment. The information is received through eyes, ears, touch, taste and smell. Generally, the elders think and believe the child is young to undertstand their activities. But it is not so. Passively, the child goes recording the informtion in its sub-conscious mind. At the age of abou 18 months the brain cells double to 7500 million and by the age of 6 they go upto 90% of the total i.e. 13500 million. The information receieved and gathered during the first 6 years conciously or unconsciously largely determines the beliefs and basic personality traits like faith in the world - good or bad, just or unjust, worthy of living or leaving, crime free or full of criminals, fit for builders of the world or breakers and many more. This all affects his behaviour in later years of his/her life. That is why wisemen say, "Give the child for the first 6 - 7years and we can make him angel or devil as we wish." Here the basic learning matters a lot. Orientation of mind needs direction at this level. Affection and basic faith in family system of which the mother is most important plays a vital role in establishing child's faith in the established real world.
If the mother loves the child, the child will develop healthy concept of the world and would love to make it and ideal world. On the other hand, neglect and ignorance on the part of the mother and other family members and community develops wrong definitions relating to various relationships in the established world. The child finds himself/herself more confused than clear about existence in this world.
By the age of 18 the brain is developed fully.
This may be more illustrated. We may take brain as a field comprising of 15000 million acres of land. At the time of birth, the child has 3750 million acres of land to be cultivated. This much cultivation is done by the environment in which he is born. His information receiving power is greater than the knowledge imparted to him. By the age of 18 month, this land increases to 7500 million for which the information lacks. Now at 6 the the land i.e. brain cells increase to 90% i.e. 13500 million acreas but where is the new knowledge and new information? In case all the land is not cultivated, what happens. It goes barren. Similarly, our mind which is mostly dependent upon brain as a hardware, goes barren. We have the capability to know more, work more understand more, create more, innovate more but the environment in which we live does not have enough to cultivate. By the age of 18 years, we are fully developed i.e. 15000 million acres of land is ready for cultivation. The family, community and society in which we live imposes so many hurdles and constraints that even 1% of the brain is not used throughout life. It all goes astray.

Basic Personality

The child is born in a family and inherits many traits from his parents and lineage. Biology throughout world is same. Male and females are born and inhabit this world. Neuter gender is also the reality. One Earth and one humanity. We should be mentally world citizens rather than the citizens of a country. It is the socio-cultural factors that differ from place to place. Language and rules of the family, community, locality and nationality make a large difference in a child's personality. For the develoment of child nurturing is plays a greater role than nature. Nurturung is provided by law.As the world is developing and reducing itself into a world village, physical superiority is losing its sheen and intellectual superiority is becoming the reality day by day.

My name is Prof. Keshap. I am an Associate Professor to MBA/PGPM for Personality Development, Communication and Business Communication Skills.I am the trainer, motivator and mentor of Mrs. India and over 1000 students settled in different countries.I am turning ordinary minds into extra ordinary ones since 1998. I respect law. Without law the life in the society is nothing but a wild living where the rule of the "might is right" applies. But law wants us to behave like human beings and not like animals. Human beings respect human beings, protect earth,environment and everything mother NATURE has given.How the law operates. Supposing we - say Jack and Jill (from our old childhood poems)- are two people living in an area where there is no civilization, no development, no community.Obviously, no rules, no law too. We two start living there. Wedo what we like. Eat, drink, sing, cry, quarrel and make merry.But after some time, we get fed up from this unbridled freedom of action. We both sit together and make some rules. I (Jack)request Jill, "please don't sing while I am sleeping." Jill stubbornly says, "why". I convince him that this creates nuisance for me. I assure him saying, "Jill I will not make noise when you sleep. You will enjoy the sleep well and after the sleep you will feel mentally and physically recharged." Jill agrees. This is the first law of our life. As civilizations developed, population increased and laws also became complicated for the purpose of real life enjoyment. Family rules, communityrules, social rules, local laws, state laws, national laws and international law came into existence to govern our lives and make our living better. Law has two ingredients: One is thespirit of law known to the makers of law and interpreters of lawand another is the spirit of law known to the operatingmechanism of law. So, law is a set of rules, governing individuals and their lives, states and countries equally. All these laws prevail in the society so that an individual may live peacefully and peaceably so that he and his neighbor may enjoy full living.
Now you know law is the mechanism that provides safe and sound environment so that good ethical marketing and economic forces may flourish and individuals may develop to the fullest extent of their intellectual potential. There is only one superiority in the world and that is the "superiority of the intellect". Not only this law also protects humanity at large and Nature in its entirety for all the generations to come.Good ethical marketing and economics is largely responsible for the welfare and development of human beings and protection of Earth, environment and everything relating to mother NATURE. I hope the concept of law is clear and you agree.For a human being, it is very important to express his feelings,emotions and sentiments for fullest development of mind.Suppression of free and frank feelings, emotions and sentiments by the human beings as is prevalent in closed societies cause very dangerous mental blocks. Human beings wreathe under this mental suppression.Google the search engine is bringing the human beings of different cultures of the world closer mentally. Thereby,reducing the mental sickness among the human beings. Is there any other mechanism that can do this Herculean Task?

Knowledge of rules and law gives wings to our basic personality.



More I will write in my next post.