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गुरुवार, 18 जुलाई 2013

God and Man

Dear all,

I have put GOD as a wise man and me as a normal person.

Now, you need to find the answers for yourself from this chat with GOD.
God:                    Hello. Did you call me?
Me:                     Called you? No. Who is this?

God:                    This is GOD. I heard your prayers. So I thought I will chat.
Me:                      I do pray. Just makes me feel good. I am actually busy now.
                            I am in the midst of something.

God:                    What are you busy at? Ants are busy too.
Me:                      Don't know. But I can’t find free time. Life has become hectic.
                            It's rush hour all the time.

God:                    Sure. Activity gets you busy. But productivity gets you results. Activity consumes time.
                            Productivity frees it.
 Me:                     I understand. But I still can't figure out. By the way, I was not expecting YOU to buzz
                            me on instant messaging chat.

God:                    Well I wanted to resolve your fight for time, by giving you some clarity.
                           In this era of net savvy people, I wanted to reach you through the medium you are
                           comfortable with. Me: Tell me, why has life become complicated now?
                           God: Stop analyzing life. Just live it. Analysis is what makes it complicated.
 Me:                    Why are we then constantly unhappy?

God:                    Your today is the tomorrow that you worried about yesterday. You are worrying because
                            you are analyzing. Worrying has become your habit. That's why you are not happy.
 Me:                     But how can we not worry when there is so much uncertainty?

God:                     Uncertainty is inevitable, but worrying is optional.
 Me:                     But then, there is so much pain due to uncertainty. .

God:                    Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional.
 Me:                    If suffering is optional, why do good people always suffer?

God:                    Diamond cannot be polished without friction.
                           Gold cannot be purified without fire. Good people go through trials, but don't suffer.
                           With that experience their life becomes better not bitter.

 Me:                    You mean to say such experience is useful.

God:                    Yes, in every term, Experience is a hard teacher.
                           She gives the test first and the lessons afterwards.

 Me:                    But still, why should we go through such tests?
                           Why can’t we be free from problems?

God:                    Problems are Purposeful Roadblocks Offering Beneficial Lessons to Enhance Mental                                    Strength. Inner strength comes from struggle and endurance, not when you are free from                                problems.

 Me:                    Frankly in the midst of so many problems, we don't know where we are heading..

God:                    If you look outside, you will not know where you are heading.
                           Look inside.
                           Looking outside, you dream.
                           Looking inside, you awaken.
                           Eyes provide sight.
                           Heart (Mind) provides insight.

 Me:                    Sometimes not succeeding fast seems to hurt more than moving in the right direction.
                          What should I do?

God:                  Success is a measure as decided by others.
                          Satisfaction is a measure as decided by you.
                          Knowing the road ahead is more satisfying than knowing your road ahead.
                         You work with the compass. Let others work with the clock.

 Me:                  In tough times, how do you stay motivated?
God:                  Always look at how far you have come
                         rather than how far you have to go.
                         Always count your blessing, not what you are missing.

 Me:                  What surprises you about people?
God:                 When they suffer they ask, "why me?"
                         When they prosper, they never ask "Why me".
                         Everyone wishes to have truth on his or her side,
                         but few want to be on the side of the truth.

 Me:                  Sometimes I ask, who I am, why am I here. I can't get the answer.                                        God:                Seek not to find who you are, but to determine who you want to be.
                         Stop looking for a purpose as to why you are here.
                         Create it.
                         Life is not a process of discovery but a process of creation.

 Me:                 How can I get the best out of life?
God:                Face your past without regret.
                       Handle your present with confidence.
                       Prepare for the future without fear.

 Me:                One last question.
                       Sometimes I feel my prayers are not answered.
God:                There are no unanswered prayers.
                        At times the answer is NO.                                                                                                
 Me:                 Thank you for this wonderful chat.
God:                 Well. Keep the faith and drop the fear.
                        Don't believe your doubts and doubt your beliefs.
                        Life is a mystery to solve not a problem to resolve.
                        Trust me.
                        Life is wonderful if you know how to live.
                       "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the moments that took our                              breath away!

Believe me;

 “God and Demons or Good and Evil is within others and us.  God is not in any form or religion.”
“It is concept and that has been created by wise human beings to control the humankind.”

Shared by Devaji through email. 

बुधवार, 17 जुलाई 2013

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I Am Energy. I Am Infinite. I Am Money.

By Greg Habstritt / Source: SimpleWealth.com
Most people think they know me.
They don't.
I am not what most people think I am. I am not the paper in your wallet, or the coins that jingle in your purse. I am not quietly sitting in your bank account, hoping to be used one day.
You cannot see me, feel me or touch me.
I am an idea. I am energy.
I'm neither good nor evil. I am only what you decide that I am, and I fulfill the role that you create for me.
I don't care how smart you are, where you live, what you do, or where you come from.
All I care about is your energy.
Your energy decides what thoughts you have, and therefore your thoughts will determine the relationship you have with me.
I have very simple needs, and simple rules.
I am infinite.
I have no limits, except for those you place on me with your mind. There is no limit to the energy in the world, and because I am simply energy, I cannot be restricted or controlled.
I crave abundance.
I am attracted to those who think without restrictions, who like to think big. When you believe there is enough of me to go around, I am naturally magnetized by that thinking.
I despise scarcity.
Because there is no limit to me, I avoid those who think from a win/lose or scarcity perspective. Those who believe I am in short supply, or difficult to receive, will find that very reality, because I choose to avoid those who think small.

I love value.
What magnetizes me most is the creation of value in the universe. I move to places where value is created, because creation is energy. If you wish to attract me into your life, focus on creating value for others, and I will appear.
I avoid entitlement and complacency.
No one 'deserves' to have me, and I am always moving to the place I am most respected and where value is created. It has nothing to do with 'fair'. Those who take me for granted or become complacent with my energy will find me gone.
I only have one job, and that is to serve you.
It is a matter of energy and value creation. My purpose is simply to move to where I am attracted most, and where I can grow.
My one goal is to replicate myself.
Because there is no limit to energy, my purpose is to reproduce and grow, in order
to bring more energy to the universe. I am created and replicated through value creation. I am an energy of evolution.
The message for you should be clear. Those who create value for others in the world will find me in their lives.
I am whatever you believe me to be.
So what you believe about me can make you miserable, or what you believe can
enable you to perform miracles.
I'm neither positive, nor negative.
I am what you decide I am.
If you fear me in any way, I can crush your ability to survive. If you get to know me, I can make your life flourish and your dreams come alive.

I can be your master, or I can be your servant.
I am only what you make me.
So, the relationship we have together will be determined by you.
Isn't it time we got to know each other better?
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शुक्रवार, 5 जुलाई 2013

HAPPY THINKING

THINKING AND HAPPINESS

  1. Thinking and thoughts affect our happiness.
  2. We torture ourselves mentally for what may not happen for many years in reality.
  3. Live Example: Today morning, my daughter asked me to leave at her office. I asked my son to leave her at the office on the vehicle. As he was enjoying sleep and did not like to get up, he just said “NO” by waving his hand in sleep i.e. without opening his eyes.
  4. I felt lot of arrogance mentally murmuring “the boy does not help me and all are dependent upon me.”
  5. Effect: This kind of thinking caused mental anguish. Mind started burning, muscles started twitching. I was surprised to feel this.
  6. I immediately sent another message to mind: Why am I thinking that my son is not obeying me? If my son was not here at home and even then I had to go to leave the daughter at office.
  7. Just I started thinking like this : mental burning subsided, muscles’ twitching reduced and after 10-15 minutes my body was quite calm and I was driving the two wheeler to leave my daughter at office.
  8. We both laughed and talked a lot during the journey from home to office.
  9. I shared this working of the mind with my daughter too.
  10. I concluded that unhappiness is in the mind only.
  11. Mental possessions and over expectations are the real cause of unhappiness.
  12. Becoming happy is a person’s personal responsibility. Worldly possessions cannot make one happy.
  13. Work is love visible. Work and be rich or sit at the gate of a temple to receive alms from the people who work.
  14. Loving work is happiness. Love work mentally and you will not fall ill. 

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गुरुवार, 13 जून 2013

U-Turn

You Might Have To Make A U-Turn

Once I was travelling in a part of India with which my driver was unfamiliar.

He made a wrong turn at one point but drove on for five miles before he realised he was on the wrong road. He had to stop the car then and make a U-turn, and soon we safely reached our destination. 

This kind of U-turn is made not only while navigating a road; it is a principle of life.

Every person, every community, every nation needs at some point to make a U-turn. Failing to do this could result in an unbearable loss.

For example, the Tatas established a car factory in West Bengal to produce the Nano car in 2007.
Very soon they discovered that West Bengal was not favourable for their industry, so they dismantled their factory and re-established it in Gujarat. Now Nano cars are successfully running in every city of India. This success was the direct result of adopting the U-turn policy.                                                                                                      
The same is applicable to nations. One such example is the course adopted by the United Kingdom after the Second World War. British leaders, especially those who were associated with the Fabian Society, felt that they were now unable to control India and other “British colonies” and proceeded to adopt a policy of decolonisation.
As we know, Churchill emerged as a hero in WWII, but he was defeated in the 1945 election. The reason for this being that a desire for post-war reform was widespread amongst the British population and the man who had led Britain in war was not seen as the man to lead the nation in peace.                                                                                                     
There are numerous examples in history of the success of those who adopted the policy of U-turn and the failure of those who did not.                                                                     
In this world, nothing is certain, neither for individuals nor for nations. So every individual or group of people ought to adopt the U-turn policy where it is relevant. When they find that their journey is taking them down a blind alley, they need to revise their policy, they must reassess the whole matter, and if it appears that they were heading in the wrong direction, they should change course without any further ado.                                                                                                                                    
India is also a good example of this kind of policy. After Independence, India adopted the socialist model for its economy, but the result was hardly encouraging.
Then in 1991, India introduced a new policy in its economic planning. Now, in recent years, Indian authorities have brought about such great changes in economic policies as may be described as a paradigm shift and yet, perhaps the time is ripe for yet another perspective that can cleanse the system of impurities.                                                           
The U-turn policy is a law of nature. No one is able to see the unseen. No one can foresee all that is going to happen in the future. This makes the journey of life a jump into uncertainty.
A wise man is one who can reassess himself, reset his priorities, replan his project and  mould himself according to changing circumstances. Don’t try to fight against realities. Simply accept them. When you cannot change reality, change yourself.                                                                                                                
Sometimes it appears that the U-turn policy will lead to some loss, but any such loss is the lesser evil, while going against reality is to opt for the greater evil.
The U-turn policy is only another name for what may be called acceptance of reality and adjustment to the changing times.                                                                                                                     
The U-turn policy is the policy of the wise: it ensures success, while not adopting it is risking failure. Success and failure are both in your hands. 

 Shared by Devaji.

बुधवार, 12 जून 2013

Life Skills


Personality Development Skills
SLM-1 (Mind Power SPOKEN ENGLISH Institute)

Hello student,

Here below are the skills that can enhance your personality for better living.

  1. There is one difference that makes you different from others and successful in life. The difference is gut feelings, enthusiasm and self-motivation. Have you seen your puppy  running with extra ordinary energy when it sees the ball i.e. the goal it loves? This kind of gut feelings, enthusiasm and self-motivation leads anyone to achieve anything in life.
  2. For achieving what is at #1 we need to modify our behaviour. Thoughts pop up in mind – positive and negative. Thoughts are like air entering our houses. Storm that is also air brings along with dust too. Same is with negative thinking. It destroys our dreams. Keep in mind always – positive thoughts. Don’t waste your mental energy on thinking “why is this difficult or impossible.” Just dare and think “how can it done” and do.
  3. Know your rights. You have the right to make mistakes and not feel guilty. Feeling guilty for mistakes is one of the biggest stress creating agents. There is none in the world who has not committed mistakes. Wise don’t feel guilty and mend the mistake next time. Mistakes are part of your learning process.
3.1     You have right to say “No” to unwanted demands from others – be it your own kith and kin.  Yes learn to say “No” politely, tactfully and without hurting others’ feelings. Say it graciously.
3.2     You have the right to make and follow your own priorities.
3.3     You have the right to love yourself. Never compare. Accept yourself in absolute totality. Celebrate yourself saying yourself “YES, I have done it. I can do it. God has made me unique. There is none in the world like me. I will design my life and I will live life of my dreams.”
3.4     You have the right to dream and follow those dreams.
3.5     You have the right to take responsibility of your life. You are a member of the team yet different from the team.
  1. Law of success: Love yourself. Accept yourself in absolute totality and never compare. Comparison is hell. Winners beat their own records. Losers compare with others. Think positively. Positive thoughts create health and opportunities, negative thoughts destroy health and opportunities.
  2. Learn to handle anger: Anger is a disabling emotion. Anger increases pulse rate, rises blood pressure. It burns the vessel (who indulges in anger) more than the vessel (who faces anger) upon which it is poured. It is like acid. Whenever you feel that the situation will provoke you to be angry (1) Drink 2 glasses of water (2) Closing eyes do deep breathing (3) Just keeping mouth shut count up to 20. These are some of the ways suggested by world renowned psychologists. Anger destroys internal immunity, decreases patience which is very essential for becoming GREAT from good. In anger, the root of the problem is clouded. Save yourself. Say less, observe more is GOLDEN rule to find the root of the problem. Instead of unexpectedly exploding on some person or situation, let your brain question the root of the problem. YOU CAN DO IT.
  3. Think positively to live happily. Send positive messages to your mind and heart. Count your blessings and feel the gratitude. Whenever in doubt for happiness, think about the people who don’t have what you have and enjoy. Deep breathing and meditation (not medication) make a person her/his own cheerleader. Permanent happiness does not come from mental possession and expectation, it comes from feeling of self-fulfillment. 
You are more powerful than what the people around you tell. Write your strengths and weaknesses. You will find that you have less weaknesses. Whatever weaknesses you have that you will be able to control and overcome just within a period of 6 months.  Love what you do. Don’t regret. Enjoy life to the fullest extent. YOU CAN DO. Mind ready everything is easy.  Always say to your mind: YES I CAN. If you are mentally saying, “ I can’t”, you are creating mental barriers and blocks for your body to work. YES I CAN itself is energy. Boost yourself with this energy. Saying “Yes” itself to the people around you itself is creating positive energy or say “least mental resistant”  in your mind. That’s all for the day.

Knowledge is knowing the dots, wisdom is connecting those dots to achieve what you desire.


रविवार, 9 जून 2013

Be Happy- 10 things to avoid

Hotwire
Sometimes the route to happiness depends more on what you don’t do.
Happiness–in your business life and your personal life–is often a matter of subtraction, not addition.
Consider, for example, what happens when you Stop doing the following 10 things:
1. Blaming
People make mistakes. Employees don’t meet your expectations. Vendors don’t deliver on time.
So you blame them for your problems. But you’re also to be blamed. Maybe you didn’t provide enough training. Maybe you didn’t build in enough of a buffer. Maybe you asked too much, too soon.
Taking responsibility when things go wrong instead of blaming others isn’t masochistic, it’s empowering-because then you focus on doing things better or smarter next time. And when you get better or smarter, you also get happier.
2. Impressing
No one likes you for your clothes, your car, your possessions, your title, or your accomplishments. Those are all “things.” People may like your things; but that doesn’t mean they like you.
Sure, superficially they might seem to, but superficial is also insubstantial, and a relationship that is not based on substance is not a real relationship.
Genuine relationships make you happier, and you’ll only form genuine relationships when you stop trying to impress and start trying to just be yourself.
3. Clinging
When you’re afraid or insecure, you hold on tightly to what you know, even if what you know isn’t particularly good for you. An absence of fear or insecurity isn’t happiness: It’s just an absence of fear or insecurity.
Holding on to what you think you need won’t make you happier; letting go so you can reach for and try to earn what you want will. Even if you don’t succeed in earning what you want, the act of trying alone will make you feel better about yourself.
4. Interrupting
Interrupting isn’t just rude. When you interrupt someone, what you’re really saying is, “I’m not listening to you so I can understand what you’re saying; I’m listening to you so I can decide what I want to say.”
Want people to like you? Listen to what they say. Focus on what they say. Ask questions to make sure you understand what they say. They’ll love you for it–and you’ll love how that makes you feel.
5. Whining
Your words have power, especially over you. Whining about your problems makes you feel worse, not better. If something is wrong, don’t waste time complaining. Put that effort into making the situation better. Unless you want to whine about it forever, eventually you’ll have to do that. So why waste time? Fix it now.
Don’t talk about what’s wrong. Talk about how you’ll make things better, even if that conversation is only with yourself. And do the same with your friends or colleagues. Don’t just be the shoulder they cry on.
Friends don’t let friends whine–friends help friends make their lives better.
6. Controlling
Yeah, you’re the boss. Yeah, you’re the titan of industry. Yeah, you’re the small tail that wags a huge dog.
Still, the only thing you really control is you. If you find yourself trying hard to control other people, you’ve decided that you, your goals, your dreams, or even just your opinions are more important than theirs.
Plus, control is short term at best, because it often requires force, or fear, or authority, or some form of pressure–none of those let you feel good about yourself.
Find people who want to go where you’re going. They’ll work harder, have more fun, and create better business and personal relationships. And all of you will be happier.
7. Criticizing
Yeah, you’re more educated. Yeah, you’re more experienced. Yeah, you’ve been around more blocks and climbed more mountains and slayed more dragons. That doesn’t make you smarter, or better, or more insightful.
That just makes you you: unique, matchless, one of a kind, but in the end, just you. Just like everyone else–including your employees.
Everyone is different: not better, not worse, just different. Appreciate the differences instead of the shortcomings and you’ll see people–and yourself–in a better light.
8. Preaching
Criticizing has a brother. His name is Preaching. They share the same father: Judging.
The higher you rise and the more you accomplish, the more likely you are to think you know everything–and to tell people everything you think you know.
When you speak with more finality than foundation, people may hear you but they don’t listen. Few things are sadder and leave you feeling less happy.
9. Dwelling
The past is valuable. Learn from your mistakes. Learn from the mistakes of others. Then let it go.
Easier said than done? It depends on your focus. When something bad happens to you, see that as a chance to learn something you didn’t know. When another person makes a mistake, see that as an opportunity to be kind, forgiving, and understanding. In return, you will be happy. Try it!
The past is just training; it doesn’t define you. Think about what went wrong, but only in terms of how you will make sure that, next time, you and the people around you will know how to make sure it goes right.
10. Fearing
We’re all afraid: of what might or might not happen, of what we can’t change, or what we won’t be able to do, or how other people might perceive us.
So it’s easier to hesitate, to wait for the right moment, to decide we need to think a little longer or do some more research or explore a few more alternatives. Meanwhile days, weeks, months, and even years pass us by. And so do our dreams.
Don’t let your fears hold you back. Whatever you’ve been planning, whatever you’ve imagined, whatever you’ve dreamed of, get started on it today.
If you want to start a business, take the first step. If you want to change careers, take the first step. If you want to expand or enter a new market or offer new products or services, take the first step.
Put your fears aside and get started. Do something. Do anything, that will make you happy.
Otherwise, today is gone. Once tomorrow comes, today is lost forever. Today is the most precious asset you own–and is the one thing you should truly fear wasting.
Originally written by Jeff Haden for Inc.com


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रविवार, 2 जून 2013

GROW YOUR POWER

DISCOVER YOUR UNLIMITED INNER POWER
CHANGE YOUR LIFE.

Friday, May 29th, 2009
What can you do to make the best choices?
Be aware that you always have a choice.

 And, each choice that you make has power—
                            the power to expand you or limit you.
Sometimes the opportunities for choice are not always obvious.

It’s often these situations, when the choice is not obvious, that
you have a great opportunity to increase your personal power.

Jose Stevens, author of many great books on shamanism, suggests
asking yourself the questions below when you’re at a point where
you’re just not sure what to do.

* Is it serving you or are you doing it to please others and get
their approval?

* Is it moving you to a better situation where you can be more
yourself?

* Is it coming from a connection to Spirit, a force higher than you
or is it from a calculation of the rational mind that is limited?

* Will it help you experience personal growth? Does it feel
expansive or limiting?

* Is it practical without compromising who you are at the core?

Sometimes the choice you have is simply to change how you
react,
judge,
 accept
or take action
about something that’s out of your
control.

You’ll be empowered when you consciously choose your attitude and
actions in the direction of expansion. No one can take that power
away from you.

Positive choices are expansive and will connect you with a higher
force.

Negative choices are constrictive and will limit you.

You can choose to be happy or to be miserable. You can choose to
be satisfied or dissatisfied with your life. You can choose to be
judgmental or have an open mind and heart.

To Powerful Choices,
Mary