- Power of thoughts: Nothing changes externally. Change is an inside job. Inside are the thoughts. More the self-acceptance, happier the life. Most of us work on self-improvement by going on adding rather than focussing on accepting and believing self. Mandir (temple) in Hindi means: Mun (Mind) + andar (inside). What is not internally accepted never manifests in reality. So, first step to be happy is self-acceptance. Don't be your own enemy and fight mentally.less
- Sadiq Shariff
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शुक्रवार, 13 सितंबर 2013
बुधवार, 4 सितंबर 2013
SIMPLE LIVING
SIMPLE LIFE IS BETTER LIFE.
Dr. Robert Anthony wrote:
"There is more to life than increasing its speed." - Gandhi
Do you sometimes feel like your life is too rushed or too
complicated?
of being simple or un-combined. It often denotes beauty, purity or
clarity. Simple things are usually easier to explain and understand
than complicated ones.
effort or confusion. It can also mean adopting a simpler
lifestyle."
There is a plethora of information being thrown at us everyday,
options galore and pressure to buy more stuff and do more things.
We are overloaded with decisions that have to be made. Even if
you're an info junkie or someone who thrives on options, there is
benefit in slowing down and simplifying your life, even if only
occasionally. Simplifying your life - internally and externally -
can free up space and time for you and can lead to more joy and
more Flow. There are many ways to simplify your life.
Here are just a few:
-Limit stuff to what you need and cherish.
-Spend time in nature instead of at the mall.
-Clear out clutter (internally and externally).
-Be willing to say "no".
-Get help - pay others to do some of your chores so that you can
have more leisure time.
-Eat simply and healthy.
-Release complicated, unhealthy relationships.
-Let go of worrying about the future and "be here now".
What could you change/release in your life to create more simplicity?
Today will bring you a new awareness, a lesson or a manifestation
that you are making progress - IF YOU LOOK FOR IT! No matter how
large or small, please record it in your Evidence Journal. It will
only take a few moments and will AUTOMATICALLY put you in the Flow.
Truly Caring for Your Success!
Dr. Robert Anthony
P.S. Deliberate Creation is about alignment and simplifying is a great way
to start - my 'Secret of Deliberate Creation' program gives you everything
you need to create the life you desire and I actually 'certify' your success...
मंगलवार, 3 सितंबर 2013
WORLD'S TOP INFLUENCER #1
HARVARD BUSINESS REVIEW - READER'S FORUM
has declared me as top influencer of the week on 3.9.2013.
I am happy. Why I don't know. I keep on commenting on various discussions.
In my view, this is world level influencers' ranking.
has declared me as top influencer of the week on 3.9.2013.
I am happy. Why I don't know. I keep on commenting on various discussions.
In my view, this is world level influencers' ranking.
Business Mentoring
MENTORING BOOSTS RESULTS
Well educated people
develop lot of inner fears and phobias about the real world and are unable to
launch their own ventures.
They are surrounded by the people who have failed in
ventures and lives. The weak talks and detailed losers’ experiences impact the
minds of the well educated and experienced people that these brilliant brains
are unable to take bold steps and contribute to the society. Their intellect
remains caged due to these imaginary fears and phobia. Once these mental
hurdles are overcome with the help of a good mentor, the same person, same
circumstances, same education and skills turn into great successes.
Here below is a case
of grand success by a young boy aged 35
years mentored by me.
- In July, 2012 I guess, a young bachelor aged about 35 connected me on Linkedin.
- His qualification is MBA, M.Com., PGDHR, PGDCA, LLB.
- He had worked as Advocate in a High Court, Lecturer to MBA.
- He was working in July 2012 as Vice President to a company.
- Linkedin connection turned into personal relationship and mobile phones were exchanged.
- Then one day, he told me that another company is offering double the pay.
- My quick reply was : Why don’t you start your own venture? You are so much qualified.
- He expressed lots of limitations and weaknesses and major weakness was finance.
- I assured him that when you have the skill finance cannot be a limitation. Just start. It took many rounds of discussion to convince him “YOU CAN DO”.
- He started: Education, Training, Placement and Consultancy.
- In between he came to meet me in person. His cousin was with me.
- I told him that you are a great mind. Don’t waste your mind by working as salaried person. Use your creative mind for your own venture.
- When he returned to his place, he told me over telephone that all the relatives and family members now recognize me as intelligent person. It is only due to your few words and appreciation sir. They never recognized my qualification and intelligent. I thank you from the core of my heart. He had come to attend marriage.
- I told him: I am a mentor and to speak positive words is my first dharma (religious duty). To make the young people realize their potential through my words is my skill and personal duty too.
- Yesterday, I received an email from this mentored bachelor which says: Started with 30k a year back, the organization has turnover of 5000 k with about 20 direct and indirect employees. Thank you for your identifying my potential, sir. I really thank you. I may become a millionaire or billionaire but I will never forget you.
- Then he spoke to me on phone and I just blessed him and wished him to work more and more and get married too. He laughed a lot.
- I am going to be 56 and have recently completed my MBA and am going to join Ph.D in January 2015 in Strategic Management.
- I was thinking just 20 calls and many emails made this venture and person successful, happy and self-fulfilling. Qualification is a small car stuck in a quagmire and mentoring is like a big trucker that can pull that car out of the mud. Once the car is out of the mud, the car owner thanks the trucker driver for the help and car runs, runs and runs for many years without any hurdle.
- He is progressing. Now nothing can stop him.
- I am feeling happy that I have been able to make a person realize his dreams.
- In my entire life, if I am able to mentor 100 young men and they employ 100 people each and mentor other 100 people each it will be 10000 people earning bread and 10000 people mentored by them starting their own ventures. In case they employ at least 20 people (directly or indirectly) which is easy in India total 200 k people will become respectful bread earners. If those 200 k people each had 5 people in their families 1000 k will be enjoying. What a great contribution to the society! Support my vision. This is possible.
- More
the ventures, better the economy. My life will be become worth. I will be
happy without money. It is better not to give fish but to train the person "how to fish." The person will never demand fish from you. Both will become independent and support each other.
सोमवार, 2 सितंबर 2013
Happiness
Possessions are a poor measure of happiness.
Possessions are subjective and relative to the individual and the individual's viewpoint. Instead, we will use a philosophy as an example.
This philosophy is about enjoying things you like, avoiding or changing things you do not like, and accepting what you cannot avoid or change by the skillful use of your viewpoint.
The use of this philosophy, as embodied in the five rules, will allow you to test many problem areas in your life and find solutions. With this philosophy, you will be well on your way on your pursuit of happiness.
Rule Number One:
If You Like a Thing, Enjoy It.
Now that seems outrageously simple. At first you might say, "That's ridiculous, of course if I like something I'm going to enjoy it." But when you stop to think about it you'll probably agree that there are many things in life that we like but don't enjoy. The reasons we don't enjoy things we like are (a) guilt, and (b) fear. You will not enjoy something you like if you feel guilty after having done the thing, or if you are fearful of the consequences of doing it.
Rule Number Two:
If You Don't Like a Thing, Avoid It.
The second rule seems simple enough, but reflect for a moment on how many people are involved with things they do not like -- a job, a person, a vehicle, a type of food, any one of a thousand things -- and for some reason they don't avoid those things. "Well, I can't avoid it. I have to work there because I need the money." Or, "I have to be involved with this person for many valid reasons." How many justifications can you think of for not avoiding the things you do not like to do?
Rule Number Three:
If You Don't Like a Thing, and You Cannot Avoid It, Change It.
Here again, the answer is simple: change it. But just as in avoidance we rationalize that we need something about it -- the money, the time, the security -- something is holding you to that particular thing if you don't like it, cannot avoid it, won't change it, but are still involved with it.
Rule Number Four:
If You Don't Like a Thing, Cannot Avoid It, and Cannot or will Not Change It, Accept It.
Acceptance -- now there is a catch. How can you accept something you don't like? How in the world do you accept something that is 'unacceptable'? How do you accept a situation that you're not happy with? How do you accept a person that you're not happy with? Well, you really don't have to accept anything; you can, of course, be unhappy. If you don't like it, won't change it, cannot avoid it, and will not accept it, I guarantee that you will be unhappy. There are, however, five rules to the secret of happiness, and within the fifth lies the key.
Rule Number Five:
You Accept a Thing By Changing Your Attitude Towards It.
You are the result of your viewpoints and attitudes. Everything is relative to the person experiencing it. There are no absolutes -- nothing is good, nothing bad, except as it relates to you. Nor is life good or bad. Life simply is. You change those things you wish by changing your viewpoint about them.
Source: An email from Shri Vijaykumar Deva.
Possessions are subjective and relative to the individual and the individual's viewpoint. Instead, we will use a philosophy as an example.
This philosophy is about enjoying things you like, avoiding or changing things you do not like, and accepting what you cannot avoid or change by the skillful use of your viewpoint.
The use of this philosophy, as embodied in the five rules, will allow you to test many problem areas in your life and find solutions. With this philosophy, you will be well on your way on your pursuit of happiness.
Rule Number One:
If You Like a Thing, Enjoy It.
Now that seems outrageously simple. At first you might say, "That's ridiculous, of course if I like something I'm going to enjoy it." But when you stop to think about it you'll probably agree that there are many things in life that we like but don't enjoy. The reasons we don't enjoy things we like are (a) guilt, and (b) fear. You will not enjoy something you like if you feel guilty after having done the thing, or if you are fearful of the consequences of doing it.
Rule Number Two:
If You Don't Like a Thing, Avoid It.
The second rule seems simple enough, but reflect for a moment on how many people are involved with things they do not like -- a job, a person, a vehicle, a type of food, any one of a thousand things -- and for some reason they don't avoid those things. "Well, I can't avoid it. I have to work there because I need the money." Or, "I have to be involved with this person for many valid reasons." How many justifications can you think of for not avoiding the things you do not like to do?
Rule Number Three:
If You Don't Like a Thing, and You Cannot Avoid It, Change It.
Here again, the answer is simple: change it. But just as in avoidance we rationalize that we need something about it -- the money, the time, the security -- something is holding you to that particular thing if you don't like it, cannot avoid it, won't change it, but are still involved with it.
Rule Number Four:
If You Don't Like a Thing, Cannot Avoid It, and Cannot or will Not Change It, Accept It.
Acceptance -- now there is a catch. How can you accept something you don't like? How in the world do you accept something that is 'unacceptable'? How do you accept a situation that you're not happy with? How do you accept a person that you're not happy with? Well, you really don't have to accept anything; you can, of course, be unhappy. If you don't like it, won't change it, cannot avoid it, and will not accept it, I guarantee that you will be unhappy. There are, however, five rules to the secret of happiness, and within the fifth lies the key.
Rule Number Five:
You Accept a Thing By Changing Your Attitude Towards It.
You are the result of your viewpoints and attitudes. Everything is relative to the person experiencing it. There are no absolutes -- nothing is good, nothing bad, except as it relates to you. Nor is life good or bad. Life simply is. You change those things you wish by changing your viewpoint about them.
Source: An email from Shri Vijaykumar Deva.
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