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Tuesday, August 16, 2016

SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE



SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

VS

UNSUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

Following are some of the characteristics observed over a period of time by the experts about

Successful people and Unsuccessful/struggling people:

SUCCESS PEOPLE

- Do not storm the head for explanations or discussion but focus on SEEKING SOLUTION to a problem. They are real and believe in real world.

- Have podcasts and audio books to boost their knowledge through learning. They don't waste time on reading physical books.

- They always focus to create a future rather than delivering a commentary on future or regretting past.

- They keep failing and learn from their failures. They try and fail and abhor quitting. 

-  They set goals.   Dreams when dated become goals.
-  They act and trust act changes the life.

- They know money is only a tool. 

UNSUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

-  Sees problems 
- Watches the news  and reads the newspaper especially takes interest in negative news.
- Stuck in the past and regrets it. 
- Criticises - this world, the people around, the situations
- lives in comfort zone
- Believes - money is the root of all evils. 

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EFFORTS NOT
RESULTS ARE PAID


DO WHAT IS RIGHT ...............

NOT


WHAT IS EASY 

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Principles of Life





This is an email from my dear friend from Australia Mr. P.G.J. Sinclair. Whatever good I receive and feel useful, I share with world community. 

ProfHere are the principles that I personally aspire to have operating in my life - just thought I'd share them with you... PGJS(Peter)
  • Show respect.
  • Keep your word.
  • Pursue excellence in all that you do.
  • Take time to listen.
  • Be  a giver more than a receiver.
  • Think the best of others.
  • Encourage others to become the best they can possibly become.
  • Offer a timely and encouraging word.
  • Say sorry.
  • Smile first.
  • Remember a name.
  • Lend a hand.
  • Give in secret.
  • Let others do the job of ‘blowing your trumpet’.
  • Be there.
  • Spend quality time.
  • Be kind.
  • Write the random love note.
  • Give the unexpected gift.
  • Return the vehicle with the fuel tank full.
  • Go the extra mile.
  • Pay someone else’s bill.
  • Say please and thank you.
  • Lift up in preference to pulling down.
  • Overlook faults.
  • Say nothing when withheld words represent wisdom.
  • Speak up when spoken words are necessitated.
  • Correct in private.
  • Applaud in public.
  • Hold the hand of another when words fail.
  • Refrain from trying to fix everybody.
  • Be the student, even though you may be the teacher.
  • Walk in humility.
  • Live in serenity.
  • Appreciate the simple.
  • Express gratitude.
  • Live in a state of thankfulness.
So let me encourage you to always seek to do as you would want to be done, and that way you will live a fulfilled life.
Be blessed!
Peter G. James Sinclair
Outasight Enterprises, PO Box 1218, Mudgeeraba, QLD 4213, AUSTRALIA

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Monday, July 4, 2016

Know your world.


Which world do you live in?


Digital world or
Physical world

Physical world(the real people i.e. family and friends) is always around you throughout life

But digital world cannot help you when you need physical help: 

for example if you meet with an accident and need someone to attend on you in the hospital, you need physical presence of loved one (s), not gazettes from digital world or digital relationships.



Choose well. 

Which relations to be developed – digital world or the world around you i.e. people you meet every day. 

By relations, I mean the time, one spends to develop the relation with. 

In modern days, understanding of humans is decreasing and attachment to digital gazettes is increasing. Balance is required.

Digital gazette cannot hug you and you cannot feel the pleasure of hug you get from your loved one or mom. 

When over expectations meet with rejections, it hurts. So, beware. 

Sunday, July 3, 2016

Got Negative Thoughts?



Date: 2016-07-03 20:21 GMT+05:30
Subject: Fwd: Got Negative Thoughts?


NEGATIVE THOUGHTS NAG THE MIND AND MAKE OUR LIVES WORSE. This is an email from one of my mentors in Canada. Read and benefit dear students.


Got too many negative thoughts?
Here's how you can get rid of them.

Negative thoughts are sneaky, and once
they pop into your head they keep coming.
You get another, then another and then
you're feeling down or you've got that doom
and gloom attitude.

You don't even know they're there.
Yet, they control and destroy your life.

Once they enter your mind you easily accept
them without realizing just how much damage
they do

You think it's okay to be a little negative.
You can justify your negative thoughts.
You tell yourself "that's the way it is."

Something doesn't work out, the negative
thoughts come up and you accept them, you
think that's the way things are and that
there's nothing you can do.

Maybe you want to make more money.
But what ever you do doesn't work out and
instead of making money, you lose money.
You tell yourself:
"What's the use? Nothing works.
There are no good ways to make money."

Then the negative thoughts expand, and
you believe them.

Or maybe you want to meet the right person
but you're not having any success. You think:
"There are no good men or women."
The negative thoughts expand and you doubt
that you'll ever meet anyone.

Before you know it you get that hopeless
feeling in your stomach.But it gets worse.

Because those negative thoughts spread.

Before you know it you think and believe it
will never get better. You doubt yourself.
You lose your confidence.
You don't even want to try because you don't
think you'll succeed.
You're afraid you'll fail again.

That's what negative thoughts do to you.
They force you to give up when you
really can succeed.

It doesn't have to be that way.

You can and will succeed... when you get rid
of the negative thoughts and the negative beliefs.
Just follow the simple steps I share with you and
you'll quickly get rid of the negative thoughts
and negative beliefs so you enjoy greater
the success you want sooner
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Your thoughts and beliefs are picked up by
your subconscious mind.
These are the instructions that you give to
your subconscious.

You communicate with your subconscious
through your thoughts and beliefs.

It creates your life based on those
thoughts and beliefs.

So if you constantly have negative thoughts,
look at the worst in situations, focus on
what's wrong, complain, doubt yourself or
have a negative outlook you'll end up
struggling and feeling miserable.

And it will get worse.

Because thoughts are energy. You draw things
into your life based on your energy

Negative thoughts attract negative energy.
When you have negative energy you'll attract
more negative situations.

You'll go after opportunities that will lead
to more failure.
You'll get into relationships that just
don't work out. You'll meet people who really
won't help you. You make the wrong choices.

You end up creating a negative cycle that gets
harder and harder to break.

You don't realize it but with all that negative
thinking you've programmed your subconscious
mind to create more and more of what you
don't want.

You keep telling it to create more and more
negative situations.

Now I know that's not what you want
Nobody wants to struggle and be miserable.

But no one showed you how to direct your
subconscious powers so that you get exactly
what you want.

Today I'm showing you how to do that.

And the first step is to change those
negative thoughts. Get rid of them.
If you have a negative thought change it.
Push your mind to focus on something positive.

Next get clear on what you want.

And only think about what you want
not what you don't want.

Saying you don't want to be in debt is the
same as thinking about what you don't want.
Your subconscious will focus on creating more debt.

Saying you don't want to be in a bad
relationship is the same as asking for more
bad relationships.
Your subconscious will just direct you to
more bad relationships.

Think about what you want.

Once you know what you want you can direct
your subconscious mind to bring you what you want.
So start telling it exactly what you want.
Give it the right directions.
Get rid of the negative thoughts and negative
beliefs that are holding you back.
Now you turn things around - just follow the
steps I share with you today
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Your subconscious will do anything that you ask

You just have to give it the right instructions
and the right directions.

If your mind is filled with negative thoughts, and
negative beliefs then you're sending the wrong
message. Your Subconscious will just create more
of what you don't want and life will continue
to get worse.

You want to be successful.
You should be successful.
You should be in a great relationship.
You should be wealthy and have as much money as
you want. You should have great health and
be in great shape.
You should be living the life you want.

If you're not then you need to change the thoughts,
beliefs and instructions that you send to your
subconscious mind

You can create the life you want.
You can enjoy the happiness you want.
You can direct your subconscious mind to create
exactly what you want. Start directing your
Subconscious power to give you more of what you
want today. Remove those negative thoughts,
replace them with thoughts and beliefs that
automatically drive you to succeed
I give you the step by step instructions
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Yes You can get rid of those negative thoughts
and negative beliefs which are holding you back.

You can achieve your goals.
You can live the life you want.
You can make more money.
You can meet the right person.
You can enjoy better health.
You can be free do what you want when you want.

You are a powerful person.
More powerful than you realize.
You can achieve anything you want when you get
rid of the negative thoughts, remove those
negative beliefs and get your subconscious mind
to help you succeed and get what you want in life
Now you can take charge and turn things around
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Wishing you tremendous success...

Karim Hajee
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Saturday, July 2, 2016

Mentor

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Mentor plays a very vital role in the life of a learner.

Learn, unlearn and relearn are the 3 stages that come in the life of a learner.

1, Formal learning is done in schools/colleges/universities or attending skill development programs. Informal learning happens from the elders and siblings in the family. Experience with real life situations and events also gives the indelible learning.

2. In school and colleges, many subjects and many aspects of idealist life are learnt. But when faced with reality of the world, a lot of difference is found. Adaptation to the real world practices is then felt. Unlearning of greater part of knowledge is then done. Or lot of confrontation, confusion, stress, frustration caused by theory vs. practical happens. Hence, unlearning skill and focusing on the real demand of the real world that requires tact for presentation of the knowledge gives the real results.

3. Wise say : money is the religion of the wise. For earning 3 stages are there: saraswati - i.e. acquiring knowledge, ganesha - i.e. taming and trimming the knowledge to fit the area of your choice of work,   then 3rd comes i.e. Lakshami (Money) Yes when true humility is practised despite having wealth, the person is incarnated in the hearts of the humans.

4, Re-learn: Acquiring knowledge is just an entry into the business or job. Real learning is working in the business or job. It comes through re-learning i.e. focusing, focusing, focusing, reading, reading, knowing, knowing, knowing, translating that knowing into understanding and understanding into real action. No action. No use. Generally, 3 kinds of personalities have been found on the basis of action and words.

4,1 They just assimilate information and keep on presenting to others without listening to them. Their mantra of life is : say, tell, say, tell and don't listen.

4.2 They just tell, say less and listen more. They gain from the knowledge of others. Then they apply the knowledge and gain. They say, listen and act.

4,3 They are great listeners. They listen and gain knowledge. AND DO. TAKE ACTION. THEY ARE THE BEST. THEY ARE THE ACHIEVERS. Knowing helps, But knowing alone does not change life. IT IS DOING THAT CHANGES LIFE.

WHY IS THE COURSE PRACTICE ORIENTED?

This course is like learning "how to cycle" Any body who can drive cycle, scooter, car etc. can learn English Speaking in our course.

90%            (You read, speak and write)
10%            (We guide, counsel, mentor, appreciate, motivate and inspire)

And you become confident to speak English in 2 months. Mind Power makes you so.

NOW over TO MENTOR:

1. Removes fear i.e. imaginary or mental. Real fears are rare. Mostly fears are imaginary gathered from the environment we live in.

2. Plans for your career and life.

3. He  helps with his wise, experienced advice and motivating counselling.

4. He motivates, appreciates and encourages you to achieve more.

5,  He does  not discourage you.

6.  He is true partner in your true success.

7.  He lets you know your hidden strengths i.e. untapped inner powers. All are unique.

8.  He are positive and make you think positive. Positive thinking creates opportunities in life, makes life happy. Negative thinking is virus that destroys opportunities in life. A negative mind sees difficulty in every opportunity while a positive mind sees opportunity in every difficulty.

9. They say: Brain is the engine of the train called body. So, focus more to correct the brain (hardware) and mind (software) to keep the body fit, hale and hearty.

10. Mentor helps you understand setbacks to success and how to handle them in future.

11. Mentor teaches you how to handle the errors committed in the past that have generated "guilt" and blocking your success.

12, Self-help is the best help. Others just help. It is you who have to change and act, Nothing can be achieved if habits and routine is not changed. Mental change helps in leading change but real change in life comes through "Action Taken"

13. Written intentions with date are goals. Otherwise, they are intentions. Intentions are like bubbles in the rain water.

14. Mentor makes the journey of life and success easier and helps you reach your destination in less time through his guidance, motivation and inspiration. For example: 40 years experience is taught in 40 hrs training.

15, He trains you to remain positive and self-motivated when you face setbacks in real life attempts.

16. He trains you to turn meaning of negative words into positive messages in the mind so that you may remain motivated and keep struggling for achieving what you want to achieve in life e.g. FAIL= First Attempt in Learning,     END = Efforts never die        NO =  Next opportunity.

17. Emotions play a vital role in achieving success. Mentor helps in turning negative emotions into positive powers.

This is that English that is spoken and written in countries like USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Singapore, UK etc. This is simple and powerful because each and every word is understood by the reader.

 It is conversational and communicative English, rarely taught in schools/colleges. So, join to learn International English Speaking and writing.

Regular Course:  5 days a week. 1 hr class. 40 hrs course over 2 months. (Only one course:  Certificate course in English and Mind Power)

SUNDAY SCHOOL: For working people who cannot join regular class. During week they work in office or business and on Sunday they will attend the class. Class on Sunday alone. 2 hrs for 40 hrs over 20 Sundays.

Job Oriented Courses Offered: (SUNDAY SCHOOL)

1. Certificate course in English and Mind Power (for Business Correspondence Skills)

2. Certificate course in Reception and Front Office Skills

3. Certificate course in Sales and Marketing Skills

Who can join?

Min:      Any matriculate from Punjabi/Hindi or English medium SCHOOL.

Max.:    Any graduate/post graduate/degree/diploma holder or professional like C.A, C.S, MBA, MCA etc.

What you get FREE with the courses.

1. Research based Practical English Speaking Book
2. Research based Practical Pocket Book for practice anytime and anywhere.
3. Audio Cds for revision at home.
4. Workbook for practicing Powerful English Writing.
5. Certificate
6. Identity Card of the institute.
7. Booklet by Prof P.K.Keshap - Self-Grooming for Success.

Note: Mind Power course is Free but Mind Power Music  cassette/CD and Mind Power Study Technique book is paid.

Benefits of the courses:

1. You will get better job/promotion.
2. You will gain better control on business. English is power.
3. You will become universal i.e. you will be able to write and speak to most of the people in the world.
4. You will create your own personality and fulfill your dreams.
5. More.............................................

Language and its importance in life:

A. Punjabi is spoken in Punjab and is our mother tongue. It means Punjabi speaking people have job opportunities in Punjab only.

B. Hindi is our national language and spoken in India alone. It means Hindi speaking or writing people can have opportunities in some states of India.

C. English is an international language. It is spoken and written in majority of the countries of the world. ENGLISH IS POWER.    Asian Development Bank report says: Those who write English and speak English earn 3-5 times more than non-English speaking people.

What our students say:

1. Sir, I studied in Punjabi medium school in a village. I did B.Com in Punjabi medium. I was married in Ludhiana. Now I am 33. I have 2 kids. I told my husband on our marriage anniversary that my dream of life was to do M.A. (English). I joined your course and completed it in 2 months. Now in 2 years I am M.A(English) . I scored 58% marks in Part I and 63% in Part II. Mind Power and Meditation is very good. I really love them. They build the inner powers. Yes, as you say, self-help is the best help. I thank you.

2. Sir, I am +2 from Punjabi medium school in a village. I got about 80% marks in +2 from Punjab School Education Board. I applied for Bank Clerks exam. I failed 3 times. My father got angry and threw my luggage out of the house. I came to Ludhiana with tears in my eyes. I joined a factory and worked there for Rs. 4000/- per month. I had come to know that I was failing due to my weak English. I joined 2/3 institutes.  But no improvement in English. One day, while travelling in 3 wheeler, one professor who was your student, told me to join your course. I joined. After 2 months, I took the exam and passed the Bank Clerical exam successfully. I thank you from the core of my heart. Mind Power course is very powerful course. Your encouragement boosted my confidence. Your words: What is holding you to achieve anything in life? You and your books are there. Keep reading, reading, revising and in the end you will become master. Success will be yours. I just followed this. Now I will earn more than Rs. 1 crore in life time. 35 years service. 2.50 lacs every year salary. Pranam.

Negative vs. positive evaluation.

A student wrote an essay of about 400 words which was the requirement of the test. But he committed some mistakes. In totality, only 20 words were wrong. It means 95% was correct. But the checker used red pen and pointed these 20 wrong words. It discouraged the brilliant to the extent that he lost interest in the studies and remained less educated throughout life. 33% make a person pass in an exam but 95% made him fail. Why ? Because checker's mindset was negative.  Students are like uncut diamonds. Every student need to be trimmed, developed and polished so that the student may become diamond.

THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN THEMSELVES CAN ACHIEVE ANYTHING IN LIFE.

PRAG MIND POWER SPOKEN ENGLISH INSTITUTE,
1ST FLOOR, MOHINDRA JEWELLERS,
KWALITY CHOWK, SHIMLA PURI, LUDHIANA.

Serious students should visit personally.

“अगर एक व्यक्ति को मालूम ही नहीं कि उसे किस बंदरगाह की ओर जाना है, तो हवा की हर दिशा उसे अपने विरुद्ध ही प्रतीत होगी।”


“If a man does not know to which port he is steering, no wind is favourable to him.”
Seneca - the great Greek philosopher.

हमारा जनून 

अापको अंगेजी बोलना लिखना सिखाना ता कि अाप जीवन में अागे जा सकें।  अाप अंग्रेज़ी से 

घबराएँ नहीं। English is power . Learn from the expert. 

Knowledge is multiplied when shared.

Believe it: You are more intelligent and powerful than what others tell. What you know matters more than what you do. 

Note: I use images from Google images. If anybody's copyright is trampled, it may be brought to my notice and the same will be deleted. No intentions to violate anybody's copyright. 
जिंदगी मेे पीछे रहने या सपने पूरे न होनें का कारण : एक दिमागी रोग: क्या कहेंगे लो्ग  . लो्ग हमेशा कुछ न कुछ कहते ही रहते हैं ,करने बाले करते रहते हैं चुपचाप। 

THINK BIG. THINK HARD. KEEP AN EVIDENTIAL JOURNAL. HANG AROUND POSITIVE THINKERS AND ENCOURAGING PEOPLE. Work hard, have patience, wait a while and best results of your choice. Use your untapped unlimited inner power i.e. creative visualization. Plan for 1, 2,3, 4, 5............. Don't fret or regret what you are today. Think what you can be after 1,2,3,4,5, .................. when you are skilled. Develop your skills. 

EDUCATION IS A BETTER GUARD OF LIBERTY THAN STANDING ARMY.

A day spent with a good teacher is better than reading 1000 books. says a former student (M.Sc., B.Ed)

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Wednesday, June 22, 2016

Life

 
  





Pics source: Happy Life Wallpapers

1. Life is too short to live with regrets.

2.  Love the people who treat you right and affectionately.

3.  Forget those who don't.

4. Believe that everything happens for a reason

5. .If you get a chance take it.

6.  Nobody says life is easy but it is worth.    

7. The person who lives the life for money, fame, achievements is called successful but who lives the life for satisfaction is remembered as "legend".

8.Choose well so that no regret in later age.

9. Read others's thoughts. Good. But not dirty, bad or torturing thoughts. Good reading generates good feelings while bad reading burns. Scan a book or email and see if it is worth or use "delete".

10. Surround yourself with positive good likeable people and create good environment in the room or place by using posters or pictures of nature that boost your mind up and energise you for the day, week, month and the coming years. Bury the past. It is dead and gone. Enjoy present. Yes, work in present for creating "future of your choice"


11.But write yours too in Evidence Journal daily so that you may know yourself well. Write what you feel, how you feel, what are your plans, what are your dreams, how those plans and dreams will be made reality in say: 1 year, 2 years, 10 years, 20 years or 30 yrs + .

12.Focus on work and happiness. Close the eyes and focus what you need to be happy. Universe will give you when you will keep focusing for 1 to 2 years and that focused  desire will become subconscious i.e. go to cell level.

13.Each day is celebration. Celebrate it with positive mind. Positive mind refers to seeing everything and every situation through the eyes of a child.

I am an observer. One day, out of curiosity, I stood outside a garden. Where lot of families were enjoying. Now to mindset:

I asked small kids and their parents one question:

How you liked the garden?

Kids:   Yes, Uncle it is a beautiful garden. Beautiful flowers. Big lawns. Very good fountains. Monkey statue was very good.

Parents: No, garden is in a very bad situation. Authorities do not maintain it. Corruption is the problem. Fountains were broken. Lawns were not well maintained.

I really wondered : one question two answers. Quite opposite. Then I inferred that there is nothing good in the world, only beauty lies in beholder's eye. Once the mental eye is changed, everything looks beautiful and life becomes beautiful. Since then, I write only what is good in situation, in a person etc. And my life has become happy, better and really beautiful.

I HAVE THE BEST PERSONS OF THE WORLD AROUND ME.

AND MY MASTER IS BEST.



There is only 1 rule of success: Never lie to yourself.

DID YOU KNOW?

The longest distance in the world is 14 inches.  How I will write in next blog.





Life

 
  





Pics source: Happy Life Wallpapers

1. Life is too short to live with regrets.

2.  Love the people who treat you right and affectionately.

3.  Forget those who don't.

4. Believe that everything happens for a reason

5. .If you get a chance take it.

6.  Nobody says life is easy but it is worth.    

7. The person who lives the life for money, fame, achievements is called successful but who lives the life for satisfaction is remembered as "legend".

8.Choose well so that no regret in later age.

9. Read others's thoughts. Good. But not dirty, bad or torturing thoughts. Good reading generates good feelings while bad reading burns. Scan a book or email and see if it is worth or use "delete".

10. Surround yourself with positive good likeable people and create good environment in the room or place by using posters or pictures of nature that boost your mind up and energise you for the day, week, month and the coming years. Bury the past. It is dead and gone. Enjoy present. Yes, work in present for creating "future of your choice"


11.But write yours too in Evidence Journal daily so that you may know yourself well. Write what you feel, how you feel, what are your plans, what are your dreams, how those plans and dreams will be made reality in say: 1 year, 2 years, 10 years, 20 years or 30 yrs + .

12.Focus on work and happiness. Close the eyes and focus what you need to be happy. Universe will give you when you will keep focusing for 1 to 2 years and that focused  desire will become subconscious i.e. go to cell level.

13.Each day is celebration. Celebrate it with positive mind. Positive mind refers to seeing everything and every situation through the eyes of a child.

I am an observer. One day, out of curiosity, I stood outside a garden. Where lot of families were enjoying. Now to mindset:

I asked small kids and their parents one question:

How you liked the garden?

Kids:   Yes, Uncle it is a beautiful garden. Beautiful flowers. Big lawns. Very good fountains. Monkey statue was very good.

Parents: No, garden is in a very bad situation. Authorities do not maintain it. Corruption is the problem. Fountains were broken. Lawns were not well maintained.

I really wondered : one question two answers. Quite opposite. Then I inferred that there is nothing good in the world, only beauty lies in beholder's eye. Once the mental eye is changed, everything looks beautiful and life becomes beautiful. Since then, I write only what is good in situation, in a person etc. And my life has become happy, better and really beautiful.

I HAVE THE BEST PERSONS OF THE WORLD AROUND ME.

AND MY MASTER IS BEST.



There is only 1 rule of success: Never lie to yourself.

DID YOU KNOW?

The longest distance in the world is 14 inches.  How I will write in next blog.





Sunday, June 12, 2016

What have I learnt today?


Learning is a life long process. Today I have learnt, how to wash the clothes.
For 58 years of my life, I never helped my wife in washing the clothes. Opportunity to learn washing arose as my wife had pain in knees. Today, she was my boss. 
She directed me how to wash the clothes. Rather she taught me the skill of washing the clothes. So far, I had thought, the washed and ironed clothes I wore were easy to wash. 
But it was my myth. I had never experienced this type of good communication with my wife. 
Now, to scene in the wash room. My wife is sitting. She is directing me and feeling lot of pride and happiness as I was listening very carefully and obeying her orders given verbally and directions with her fingers. 
1. Turn on the tap and fill the tub with water. I did.
2. Give me detergent and soap. I did.
3. Now I wash more dirty clothes so that no dirt is left. Fine. Please do. 
4. Till then you fill the washing machine's water tub with water. Right, madam. I did politely. (I could see the glint of pride in her eyes.Today, she was feeling at cloud nine because never in life I had helped her in washing the clothes. Really missed many opportunities to be with my wife for about 2-3 hours on Sunday)
5. Just then my daughter popped her face and commented: Oh! yesterday's movie's impact. Dad is helping Mom. I smiled and again focused upon my job so that no mistake is made and my boss shout at me. 
6.  Water was filled in the water tank of the washing machine. "No, it should be filled upto the small bag hanging in the water tank, " strong worded order came from my wife. 
7. Right, madam was my humble and polite reply. I did as told by her. She smiled.
8. By now, she had made the clothes ready for the water tank of washing machine. 
9. Now drop detergent in the water. I did accordingly.
10. Turn on the switch at 360 degrees. I did. The washing machine started circling the clothes. When the switch reached back to its starting point, she said: now take out all the clothes. I did.
11. All these clothes were then rinsed in clean water 3 times. They were ready for drier.
12. Now open the lid of the drier. Fine. I opened the lid.
13. Remove the plastic lid of the drier. I did as told.
14. Now drop these rinsed clothes in the drier. I did. 
15. Close the plastic lid. Then close the main lid and turn on the switch. I did as ordered. 
16. After say 5-10 minutes, the clothes in drier were dry. 
17. I opened the main lid of drier, then opened the plastic lid of the drier and pulled the dried clothes. 
18. Then she said: pull that pipe from the clump and leave it on the floor. Dirty waster will flow away. That's all. 
It was a great experience. I had learnt a new skill i.e. washing the clothes. The communication was 100% which is rarest generally between husband and wife. 
MESSAGE: Help the wife in daily chores and you will feel good. Happy mind is more productive in business too. Makes more effective decisions. When a person (any human equipped with knowledge to produce worthy of business or healing pains of human is referred to person) is happy, positive vibes bring positive results in business life.