Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Pain andGain

Born to be Consumed.
Don't fear the pain.
For in it there is much to gain.

Let these bloods be bled.
Let these words be said.

Allow the prick to pierce.
Allow the spirit, fierce.

Only a soul who died,
Shut down, alone, can't cry.

Won't allow themselves to feel.
Haven't lived, nor are they real.

No longer am I wombed!
I'm born to be consumed!

Have my heart, betroth.
Apathy is such a sloth.

It lies to waste ones soul.
The heart, an empty hole!

So fill my heart your stain.
And let the blood flow, drain.

Hide not in chasten shame.
Oh, burn eternal flame!
             Shared by Sandie Wyllie

Monday, November 17, 2014

Thought process.



Sandy Wyllie


I've seen you stumble, fall
Hitting the same wall
Time and time again
Another long, lost friend

You can't run from yourself
You can't blame anyone else
It's your own call
Hitting the same wall

Change is so hard for you
You'll never break through
Hitting the same wall
Just another way to stall

You're up against
Your own defense
With a mind so small
Hitting the same wall

In your running shoes
You only stand to lose
But you gave your all
Just to fall
Against yourself
Against the wall

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Talking Etiquettes



  1. Talk to communicate.
  2. Talk low.
  3. Talk slow. Last said lasts long.
  4. Talk what is necessary.
  5. Listen more. 2 ears 1 mouth. Ratio 2:1 66% and 33 %   but in real use 1:2.

  1. Use age and designation appropriate vocabulary.
  2. Always keep in mind “how the tone and words” must please the listener.
  3. Use non-verbal communication and gestures to convey the message.
  4. Talk to convey the message and not the information.
  5. Plan the talk before hand.
  6. Discuss but don't argue. Arguments generate heat. Discussions throw lights on the issue and problems of the life are solved.
  7. Tame self-ego to win over the other person you are talking to.
  8. Be mindful that your talk is pleasing the listening person mentally not hurting.
  9. Don't use hurting and hitting words and annoy others.
  10. Mind it: Worst situation or thing of the world can be said in "best words". Develop this skill.
  11. Your education, your status, your appearance consists of just 3% of your total personality. 97% is your soft skills and the behavior from which you earn real life reputation.
  12. Listen to sweet and soothing music to develop soothing voice.
  13. Emulate good manners from others. Educate yourself on this front.

Saturday, November 8, 2014



A father who throughout life followed the principle " Learning is greater than wealth". Wealth when follows learning gives more pleasure than when it is master of man.

Our great father of Nation, Mahatma Gandhi says: Wealth is lost, nothing is lost;

Health is lost something is lost.

Character is lost, everything is lost.

Son was young, full of energy. He was college-going. Everyday he argued with father that car, smart phone and costly gadgets are bought with money and hence money is greater than learning.

Father was aged, experienced and seasoned.

He was always in the look out of an opportunity to prove that "learning is master of wealth"

But he could not prove this to his young son. Daily arguments and demand of money by the son had vitiated the congenial environment at home.

One day, father got a chance to prove his point.

Father's friend had bought a very costly diamond ring for his daughter-in-law.

Father asked the friend to lend him that ring for a while. Friend readily gave.

Now father, gave the studded case of the ring to the son and told that it has cost Rs._______________________ . But the son argued,
" Papa, who fool will pay such a fatty sum of money for this empty case?"

"Exactly my dear son, everybody pays for the diamond inside this case not for the case."

Case is the box in which the diamond ring is placed.

"In the same way, learning is diamond and wealth is the case."

Son, though did not admit openly but agreed as was visible from his body language.

Right from that day, the son is focusing more on study and less on demands for costly gadgets.

Right Advice

Right advice.


Two computer engineers were talking:

One may be telling the other about the past.

The other engineer advised her:




Learning from 1st Class student


In my neighbor, elder sister came from school. Took off the clothes, took off the shoes and threw them on the bed.

Young mother felt annoyed. Heated arguments followed by a slap to the girl ensued.

As a lost resort to mend the ways of child's behavior and cultivate good habit of keeping the clothes in the cupboard on coming from school, mother invited an elderly lady from the neighbor.

Elderly lady, being the judge between mother and the daughter, started asking:

"Dear child, are you a good child or bad child."

"I am a good child," replied the child standing before the elderly lady as if answering to an advocate in a court.

"What are the symptoms of a good child" was the next question parried by the elderly lady.

"Good child comes from the school in time, takes off the shoes, takes off the clothes. Places the clothes inside the cupboard and does not make mess of clothes throwing them on the bed."

"Are you clothes at the proper place?"

"No grandma. They are not. I am sorry."


In between the young sister studying in 1st class jumped and said "Amma she knows what is good and thought is in the head. It will take sometime to be reality."

I was surprised to hear this reply from a student of 1st class.

and learnt a lesson. DO IT NOW.


Many elders spend the entire life saying "I think I can" but "Never have time to enjoy what they wish or do what they like."


FEAR has two meanings:

1. Fear everything and run. Makes person worried, unhappy, sad and keeps the worrier on toes.

2. Face everything and rise. Makes person worry free, happy and cheerful.

BIGGEST HURDLE IN ENJOYMENT: Opinion about me by others. How the others think about me. It is expression vs. impression problem. More mental than real. More we keep on coining mental view of the situations, more the worry, anxiety increases and turns out in real in the form of anger. Anger is one letter short of danger. D=death.

Focus and enjoy what you have. Rather than focusing on what you don't have and be unhappy.

World remembers those who live for their dreams. Self belief is the best belief. Don't indulge in proving to others. Be yourself and you will grow a lot in every term. Be it happiness or prosperity. Love what you do or do what you love. It will make you more happy.

Accept yourself in absolute totality, says Osho.


Thursday, October 23, 2014


23rd October, 2014.

Dear Mr. Jitender
This is to certify that you have scored well in the tests:
1.       Situational Analysis
2.      Map Reading
3.       Practical Part of Speech

                              Prof P.K.Keshap

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

Track your thoughts.

I have received this email and sharing for the benefit of others.

Hi Prof Keshap,
Track your thoughts and pay attention
to what you're thinking

You may be surprised at what you find

Most of us really don't pay attention to our
thoughts even though they have a
huge impact on us

Our thoughts impact how we feel and they
can shape our lives, yet most of us don't
realize just how powerful our thoughts are

Your thoughts are powerful forces.
Thoughts become beliefs. You subconscious and
your inner powers pick up on your beliefs.
They create your life based on what you believe
and what you regularly think.

So if you have a number of negative thoughts then
there's a good chance you have a number of
negative beliefs tied to those thoughts

When you have a lot of negative beliefs your
subconscious and inner powers will create
a negative life. A life where things don't work
out, where you make the wrong choices and
where you fail instead of succeeding.
It's not the kind of life you desire,
yet it's the kind of life you'll create when
you have too many negative thoughts.

That's why it's important to pay attention
to what you're thinking. Should you find a number
of negative thoughts then you likely have a
lot of negative beliefs. And when you have a lot
of negative thoughts, and negative beliefs,
life will just get harder and harder.

Should you find any negative thoughts, change
them. Get rid of them.
Replace them and fill your mind
up with positive thoughts so that you
create positive beliefs

When you do that you give your subconscious
mind and inner powers new thoughts and
new beliefs. You give them new instructions
and once those new beliefs catch on, you change
your life, you go in a new direction and you
get more of what you desire

So today track your thoughts
Get rid of the negative thoughts and negative
beliefs. Give your subconscious mind new
instructions and new beliefs.
Ready to turn things around?
Ready to get your subconscious and inner powers
to bring you exactly what you desire?
Then take charge today and give your subconscious
and inner powers new instructions
Click Here to Get Started

What are negative thoughts?

They're thoughts that say you can't or
don't know how, these need to be changed or
eliminated as soon as possible.

See if you have any of the following
negative thoughts or thoughts which
are similar to these:

I can't
I don't know how
It's too hard
It will never work
I'm not smart enough
I have to make too many sacrifices
Life is hard
I can't make any money
There are no good men or women
Relationships are hard
I don't deserve
I was meant to suffer

Any of these sound familiar?

If they do then you've got a lot of
negative thoughts and negative beliefs

These will continue to hold you back and
prevent you from getting what you really desire

Now you might say that you're positive, yet
if you have any of those negative thoughts all
your positive thinking will be wiped out and
will be ineffective

That's why you have to get rid of your
negative thoughts and negative beliefs

You can try to do this on your own and you'll
probably be able to get rid of a few, yet over
time you'll develop more and more negative
thoughts and negative beliefs.

Or you could follow a simple and powerful
system that will wipe out those negative
thoughts and negative beliefs. In fact, you will
begin removing those negative thoughts and
negative beliefs in just a few days. You'll
also plant new positive thoughts and positive
beliefs so your subconscious and your inner powers
start bringing you what you desire.
Ready to take charge and begin enjoying
the life you desire? Then...
Click Here to Get Started

Any negative thoughts and negative beliefs you
may have were formed over your life span.

You likely didn't create many of these thoughts
and beliefs that are now holding you back.

Instead, like most people, you probably
picked them up from others, people like
your parents, friends, siblings, co-workers and
even people you just met.

You didn't know that these negative thoughts
would make your life harder and create so
much pain and struggle.

That's okay. Now you know.
And now you can get rid of them.
You can put an end to any hardship these
negative thoughts and negative beliefs are causing.
You can get your inner powers and your subconscious
mind to bring you what you desire - you just have
to give them the right messages - so take charge today:
Click Here to Get Started

Remember... track your thoughts,
get rid of the negative thoughts and
negative beliefs as they come up
Replace them with positive thoughts and
positive beliefs. You'll then direct your
subconscious and Inner Power to bring you
what you desire - take charge today
Click Here to Get Started

Wishing you continued success...

Karim Hajee
Creating Power







Real Life

All that you have is this moment.
What will you do with your life?
Will you completely waste it?
On struggles, and conflicts and strife?

None of us are promised tomorrow.
We only have here and today.
Will you completely waste it?
You can't get it back once it's taken away.

And what of the persons your loving?
Do you take them for granted somehow?
Willl you completely waste it?
All that you fools disavow!

Do you follow the clear path of truth?
Or get lost in fields of the sordid and grey?
Will you completely waste it?
And have only regret of yesterday?



Wednesday, October 8, 2014


Vadmulla Teacher

अच्छे टीचर के मूल मन्त्र

इस किताब को  10 बार पड़ने से आपमें अच्छे टीचर के गुणों का संचार होना शुरू हो जायेगा।

यह आप पर निर्भर है कि आप अपने आप को कितने समय में सिखाते हैं।

 कोई किसी को किसी पड़ा नहीं सकता , कोई किसी को सीखा नहीं सकता।  यह इंसान के अपने परिश्रम पर निर्भर है।

 लेखक ने आज तक 16 सालों में 3000 से अधिक बच्चों को यही शिक्षा दी है और सभी अपने जीवन से संतुष्ट हैं। आत्म निर्भर हैं दूसरों पर बोझ नहीं है। 250 से अधिक बच्चे पड़ लिख कर दूसरों देशों जैसे ऑस्ट्रेलिआ , अमेरिका , कनाडा , न्यूज़ीलैंड  आदि में कामभूल  कर रहे हैं या पड़ रहे हैं। 

इस पुस्तक में लिखे सभी मन्त्र यानि तकनीकें बहुत ही सरल भाषा में लिखी गई  हैं ताकि आप इसे पड़ कर अपने जीवन में यथार्थ रूप से प्रयोग सकें और अपने टीचिंग कैरियर को सही दिशा दे सकें।

These techniques  of becoming good teacher, parents or professor are not taught in schools/colleges or universities while imparting training of ETT/JBT/B.Ed/M.Ed or M.A (Edu.)

यह पुस्तक त्रिभाषी  है।  इस पुस्तक में 80 % पंजाबी 5 %हिन्दी और 10 प्रतिशत अंग्रेजी का प्रयोग किया गया है।

इस पुस्तक को महान भारतबर्ष के संबिधान   में लिखी 18 भाषाओं  में लिखा जा रहा है।  इसका मन्तव् यह है की सभी टीचर्स के घर पर इस पुस्तक को बैसे पड़ा जाये जैसे कोई धर्मग्रन्थ।

 टीचर का  बच्चे के जीवन को सम्बारने में सबसे बड़ा योगदान होता है।  संसार का हर समाज अच्छे आदर्श टीचर का सम्मान करता है। बच्चे अपने माता पिता या बड़े बड़ों को सम्मान देना भूल जाते हैं परन्तु अच्छे टीचर को सम्मान देना नहीं भूलते।

ਵਡਮੁੱਲਾ ਟੀਚਰ 

ਚੰਗੇ ਟੀਚਰ ਬਣਨ ਲਈ ਮੂਲ ਮੰਤਰ 

ਇਸ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਨੂ ਦਸ ਬਾਰ ਪੜ੍ਹਨ ਨਾਲ ਤੁਹਾਡੀ ਪਰ੍ਸਨਾਲਿਟੀ ਵਿਚ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਇਕ ਚੰਗੇ ਟੀਚਰ ਬਣਨ ਦੇ ਗੁਣ ਆਣ ਲਗ ਪੈਣ ਗੇ। 

ਇਹ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਤੇ ਨਿਰਭਰ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਨੂ ਕਿਨੇ ਦਿਨਾਂ ਵਿਚ ਸਿਖਾਨੇ ਹੋ।  ਪੜਨਾ ਲਿਖਣਾ ਅਤੇ ਕੋਈ ਭੀ ਹੁਨਰ ਸਿਖਣਾ ਇਨਸਾਨ ਦੀ ਆਪਣੀ ਲਗਨ ਤੇ ਮੇਹਨਤ ਤੇ ਨਿਰਭਰ ਹੈ।  ਕੋਈ ਕਿਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਸਿਖਾ ਨਹੀ ਸਕਦਾ।  ਸਿਰਇ ਫ ਗਾਇਡ ਕਰ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ। 

ਲੇਖਕ ਨੇ ਪਿਛਲੇ 16 ਸਾਲਾਂ ਵਿਚ 3000 ਤੋਂ ਜਿਆਦਾ ਬਚਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਇਹੀ ਸਿਖਿਆ ਦਿਤੀ ਹੈ ਅਤੇ ਸਾਰੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਤੋਂ ਸੰਤੁਸ਼ਟ ਹਨ। ਆਤਮ ਨਿਰਭਰ ਹਨ।  ਕੋਇ ਕਿਸੇ ਤੇ ਬੋਜ੍ਹ ਨਹੀ ਹੈ। 

250 ਤੋੰ ਜਿਆਦਾ ਪੜਾਏ ਬਚੇ ਬਿਦੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਯਾਨੀ ਆਸਟ੍ਰੇਲੀਆ , ਕਨਾਡਾ , ਅਮੇਰਿਕਾ , ਨਿਉਜੀਲੈੰਡ ਅਤੇ ਹੋਰ ਦੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਵਿਚ ਰਹ ਰਹੇ ਹਨ ਜਾਂ ਪੜ੍ਹ ਰਹੇ ਹਨ। 

ਇਸ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਵਿੱਚ ਲਿਖੀਆਂ ਸਾਰੀਆਂ ਤਕਨੀਕਾਂ ਬੜੀ ਸੋਖੀ ਬੋਲੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਲਿਖੀਆਂਜਾ  ਗਯੀਆਂ ਹਨ ਤਾਕਿ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਇਹਨਾਂ ਤਕਨੀਕਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਪੜ੍ਹ ਕੇ ਸਮਝ ਸਕੋ ਅਤੇ ਆਪਣੀ ਰੋਜ਼ਾਨਾ ਦੀ ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਸਹੀ ਤਰਹ ਅਮਲ ਲਾ ਕੇ ਅਪਣੀ ਤੇ ਦੂਜਿਆਂ ਦੀ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਸੁਧਾਰਜੀਵਨ  ਸਕੋ। 
ਇਹ ਤਕਨੀਕਾਂ ਸਕੂਲਾਂ , ਕਾਲਜਾਂ ਜਾਂ ਯੂਨਿਵੇਰ੍ਸਿਟੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਜਾਂ  ETT/JBT/B.Ed/M.Ed or M.A (Edu.) ਵਿੱਚ ਨਹੀ ਪੜ੍ਹ ਯੀਆਂ ਜਾਂਦੀਆ

ਇਹ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਤ੍ਰਿਭਾਸ਼ੀ ਹੈ।  ਇਸ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਵਿੱਚ 80% ਪੌੰਜਾਬੀ , 5% ਹਿੰਦੀ ਅਤੇ 15% ਅੰਗ੍ਰੇਜੀ ਦੀ ਬਰਤੋੰ ਕੀਤੀ ਗਈ ਹੈ।

ਇਸ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਦਾ ਭਾਰਤ ਦੇ ਸੰਬੀਧਾਨ ਵਿਚ ਲਿਖਿਯਾਂ 18 ਭਾਸ਼ਾਵਾਂ ਵਿਚ ਟ੍ਰਾਂਸਲੇਸ਼ਨ ਕੀਤੀ ਜਾ ਰਹੀ ਹੈ ਤਾ ਕਿ ਸਾਰੀ ਦੁਨਿਯਾ ਅਤੇ ਮਹਾਨ ਭਾਰਤ ਦੀ ਮਹਾਨ ਟੀਚਰਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਹੋਰ ਮਹਾਨ ਬਬਣਾ ਸਕੇ।

ਟੀਚਰ ਦਾ ਬਚੇ ਦੇ ਜੀਵਨ ਨੁੰ ਸੰਬਾਰਨ ਵਿੱਚ ਬਹੂਤ ਬਡਾ ਯੋਗਦਾਨ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ।  ਸੰਸਾਰ ਦਾ ਹਰ ਸ੍ਮਾਜ ਚੰਗੇ ਟੀਚਰ ਦ੍ਵਦਾ ਮਾਨ ਸਨਮਾਨ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ। 

ਬਚੇ ਅਪਣੇ ਬੜੇ ਬੁੜੋੰ ਵ ਮਾ ਬਾਪ ਨੁੰ ਸਨਮਾਨ ਦੇਣਾ ਭੁਲ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ ਪਰ ਅਪਣੇ ਚੰਗੇ ਟੀਚਰ ਦਾ ਸਨਮਾਨ ਕਰਨਾ ਨਹੀਂ ਭੁਲਦੇ। 

ਨੋਟ : ਲੇਖਕ ਨੇ ਹਿੰਦੀ /ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਸਕੂਲ/ਕਾਲਿਜ ਵਿਚ ਨਹੀ ਪੜੀ। ਇਸ ਕਿਤਾਬ ਤੋਂ ਸਿਖਿਯਾ ਲਵੋ ਤੇ ਜ਼ਿੰਦਗੀ ਵਿਚ ਲਾਭ ਪਾਯੋ।  ਗ੍ਰੇਮਰ ਤੇ ਸ੍ਪੇਲਿੰਗ ਹੀ ਨ ਚੇਕ ਕਰਦੇ ਰਹਿਯੋ।